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My father ab!sed me for 7yrs- Lady laments

A lady, Zizo Apleni who grew up in the eastern cape, in South africa has shared her story on how she got abused by her father for 7yrs.

In a podcast show “Justify” She revealed that her father had always called her one corner and told her to come on t***p of him and during these 7yrs she unfortunately got pregnant for him.

According to her, her father began doing this to her ever since she began staying with him.

She also noted that her mother and her father were never married but she was birth out of wedlock 

Narrating, she said: ” my mom and my dad were not married so i was conceived in college they met in college and was conceived and my mom because she was still in university, i had to go live with my grandparents so that is the life i was used to living with cousins and my mum will come and visit and when she gets paid at work that is how i grew up in that type of setting of a family.”

Her mom and dad relationship, she said: “Typically when my mom told my dad she was pregnant my dad didnt want anything to do with the pregnancy and he was like no this is not my child and then i was born and lived with my grandparents and life was just like that for me not until i turned 4or 5 i was introduced to this man now who i get to cal my father because before then, i knew the father figure that i knew in my life were my uncles but i knew they were not my father because i was with my cousins who were their daughters and sons and they called them “DADA” and i knew how to call them not as dad so i knew i didnt have a dad but i do have male figure around me especially with my grandfather too he was also around when i’m like 5yrs old i got introduced to this man who is gonna be like now this is your father and i was so excited to actually have someone that i can call a father and it was just an exciting journey for me and my dad was just incredible in terms of making sure that i had everything that i needed and he was also teaching at the same town that i went to school so he comes visit me during my school hours and it was just that relationship between a father and a daughter so life continued and in the year 2001 he asked that i go live with him because he didnt like that i went through rural schools so he was also moving to another town so he was like why dont you move with me and just for you to get to model c schools and then get a better eductation so my family already knew him and what he was capable of doing so they were very mind and they were yes you can its a great opportunity for her you can take her and everything is fine.

“So i went to live with him but when i arrived, he had married someone else and they had a daughter and there was me so there were 4 of us living in the house.

“As soon as i arrived there I realized that there were problems where they were physically fighting and it is something that i was never used to my uncle were married my grandfather and grandmother were married and i have never seen them fight i have never seen them shout at each other so it was quite a foreign concept for me to see adults fighting i knew that when you get a beating as a child you obviously did something wrong so in my 7yr old mind i though maybe my mom um my step mother did something wrong this is why she is getting a beating so i was now introduced to that life where they would fight and i would have to rescue the baby and run away with her to go to the neighbour and just stay there until the storm has calmed and when they are fine i would take the baby back and life just continued as if nothing happened.”

Talking about her mom decision for her to go to her father house, she said: “My mom was in agreement with everyone because it was a family discussion because this man has been paying the fees and had been supporting did everything and there is nothing that we can’t say he can’t do it because in our culture there also those things of paying if a man gets a girl pregnant but my family is not much into that but as long as the father is suportive so that was like he has already done his part 

How he abused her she said: “We were watching tv it was after he had a fight and i was just there watching tv and i remember now because we lived in a commune setting so each room it was a big house and then each room has a family of it own and i would sleep on the floor with the baby when step mom was home they would sleep on the bed so this night now my dada calls me to come and sleep on the bed because step mom and baby are not home and then all of sudden he is asking that i come on top of him and as soon as i’m on top of him he is on top of me it was just like a spilt of second and already he is p*n*trating me and it was just a quick process but painful one but for me it seemed that though it was not ending and that happened in the bathroom when he was done there was already water instead and i dont know if it was when i was watching tv and then he got water and got into the bathtub  he put me into that water and he washed me throughly and probably that washing took about an hour and now when i realized he was trying to get rid of the evidence incase anything happened and i remember the following day i think on a Saturday and i was going to play with my friends and he was like no you are not allowed to go and play today, i could also feel my body was not allowing me to go and play he spent nursing me of my pain and all of that so that was the first experience.” 

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The Same People Who Made You Famous Have Gained Nothing From You – Lady Calls Out Peller for Not Inviting His Fans to His Wedding

A Nigerian woman living abroad has taken to social media to criticize popular content creator Peller over his reported decision to invite wealthy personalities to his upcoming wedding while allegedly leaving out many of his loyal supporters.

In a video circulating online, the woman argued that Peller’s dedicated fans played a significant role in helping him achieve fame and deserved to be part of his special day.

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She stated that although the reported ₦1 million aso ebi was not an issue for her financially, she believed the real concern was that many of Peller’s long-time supporters were allegedly not given the opportunity to attend the wedding.
According to the woman, Peller’s followers have consistently supported him throughout his journey, often participating in his online activities and showing unwavering loyalty despite receiving little in return.

Expressing her disappointment, she said:

β€œPeller, we live in the diaspora here. Your aso-ebi is nothing to us, that was why I bought it for someone. People that made you who you are, that made people notice you, are those who are in need. Those are the people you will say, β€˜Go and hit somebody’s account,’ and they won’t even look at you twice, they will do it.”

β€œThey follow you back to back. They can’t afford aso-ebi. Many of them have not been able to gain anything from you, but they never relent. They keep loving you undilutedly.

“I expected you to let people like them come for your wedding. Na Cubana wan chop the whole cow, 22 cows”

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I Was on My Own. You Insisted We Go on a Date, Then Suddenly Wanted Us to Split the Bill – Lady Shares Why She Walked Out of a Dutch Date

A Nigerian woman has shared why she decided to end communication with a man after he suggested they split the bill during their first date.

In a video posted on TikTok, the woman explained that she had been talking to the man for about a month before they agreed to meet in person.

According to her, the man invited her out on a date, but before they met, he introduced the idea of having a Dutch date, where each person pays for their own meal.

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She said she was not comfortable with the arrangement, adding that if she wanted to spend her own money on an outing, she could do so without accepting an invitation from someone else.

Expressing her opinion, she said:

β€œI was on my own. You insisted on us going for a date, and all of a sudden you’re introducing Dutch dates. If I wanted to go out and spend my money, I wouldn’t need a random man to take me out. I would simply settle myself.

β€œI’ll leave my house, prepare, do my hair, lashes and everything, then you’ll tell me you want a Dutch date? If you cannot sort the bill on a first date, what exactly are you bringing to the table? Thank God he asked before the date because I blocked and deleted his number immediately,”

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Woman Shares Dramatic Transformation After Leaving Ex-Boyfriend

A woman has shared a before-and-after video of herself, revealing the physical transformation she experienced after ending a relationship with her former boyfriend.

The video, which she posted on Instagram, compared her appearance during the relationship with how she looks now, with the woman claiming that her ex had drained her both mentally and physically.

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Sharing the video, she captioned it:

“Me before my EX and me after that FN”

In another post, she celebrated what she described as a fresh start, writing:

“Not too much for me. Glad to be back return of the MF Mack”

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I Have Four Baby Mamas, and Two Are Currently Pregnant for Me – GehGeh Brags

Nigerian relationship coach Gehgeh has revealed details about his personal life, disclosing that he currently has four baby mamas and that two more women are pregnant with his children.

He made the revelation during a recent appearance on the Echoo Room podcast while speaking with the show’s host, Teddy A.

During the conversation, Teddy A asked Gehgeh about his relationship status.

The interviewer said:

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β€œSo as you dey like this now, you get girlfriend?”

Responding, Gehgeh said:

β€œI get women.”

The interviewer then asked:

β€œHow many?”

Gehgeh replied:

β€œThey’re many. I get like four baby mamas now. My first child dey like 4 years now, and the youngest dey like months. I still get two women wey still get belle for me.”

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MrBeast Marries Longtime Girlfriend Thea Booysen After 4 Years Together

Popular YouTube creator MrBeast has officially tied the knot with his longtime girlfriend, Thea Booysen, marking a new chapter in their relationship after four years together.

The couple, who have been together since 2022, exchanged their wedding vows in a private ceremony surrounded by close family and friends.

MrBeast confirmed the exciting news by sharing a beautiful wedding photo on his official Instagram page. Alongside the image, he kept his message simple yet meaningful, writing:

β€œβ€œI found mrsbeast ❀️”

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Those of You Women Aged 35 to 40, Where Are Your Husbands? – Woman Slams Nigerians Mocking Her Sister for Marrying an Older Man

A Nigerian woman identified as Angela M. Yarkawan has taken to social media to defend her sister after several users criticized her for marrying a man older than her.

The controversy began after Angela shared the couple’s wedding photos online, congratulating the newlyweds and celebrating the beginning of their new life together.

Reacting to the criticism, Angela strongly defended her sister and questioned why some people were concerned about the couple’s marriage.

In her response, she also directed a message at women who were mocking the relationship, asking those in their mid-to-late thirties and forties where their own husbands were while they criticized someone else’s marriage

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I Have Never Dated a Man Who Asked Me for Money, if he earns 5,000 he must give me 3,000 – Toke Makinwa

Nigerian media personality Toke Makinwa has revealed that she has never been in a relationship with a man who asked her for financial support.

Speaking during an episode of her podcast, Toke Moments, the media star reflected on conversations about women who financially support their partners, saying her personal experience has been quite different.

She said:

β€œWhen I hear women say these things, I sit down and I ask myself…..”Men don’t ask me for money?”Maybe there is something written on my head. Maybe before you say ….I give you all my problems. Before you ask me, I am already listing all my problems…Today I have headache,,,maybe that is why! I have never dated a guy who asked me for money.

Even if I date a broke guy and he earns 5k, at least 3k out of that money, he will give it to me. I am thankful for that grace because I have never dated a guy who has confidently asked me for money.”

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She Sneaked Into Our Compound While Someone Was Driving Out – Hair Salon Owner Shares Video of Woman Caught Stealing as She Was Forced to Dance

The owner of O’llyns Hair and Beauty has shared a video on social media showing a woman who was allegedly caught stealing inside her compound.

In the video posted on the salon’s Facebook page, the woman is seen surrounded by people after she was reportedly apprehended on the premises. During the incident, she was allegedly made to dance while those present questioned her.

According to O’llyns Hair and Beauty, the incident occurred after the woman allegedly gained access to the compound by sneaking in through the gate while a vehicle was driving out.

The salon owner said the suspect was later caught before she could leave the premises.

Following the incident, O’llyns Hair and Beauty advised members of the public to remain alert and ensure that their gates are always properly locked to help prevent unauthorized access to their homes or businesses.

She wrote: “ATTENTION EVERYONE 🚨

Today a lady sneaked into our compound while someone was driving out.

God helped us, she was caught red handed.

Please let us be VERY CONSCIOUS of our gate.

Wait for the gate to close properly before leaving.

If you see any unfamiliar person, alert security/neighbors immediately.

God will continue to protect us IJN πŸ™

Stay safe!”

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I Want to Freeze My Eggs – TolaniBaj Opens Up on Being Child-Free and Having No Plans to Have Children

Former Big Brother Naija housemate Tolanibaj has shared her plans to freeze her eggs, saying the decision is part of her desire to secure more choices for her future.

The reality TV personality made the disclosure in a recent vlog, where she explained that she has been learning more about fertility preservation before making a final decision.

According to Tolanibaj, she believes taking proactive steps now could help her avoid future regrets, which prompted her to seek professional medical advice.

She said:

“I want to freeze my eggs because I would rather have options than regrets in the future. I realised that I needed more information about the process so I booked an appointment with my gynecologist at one wellness centre”

Although she has no immediate plans to undergo the procedure, the former BBNaija star revealed that she hopes to do so within the next couple of years.

She added:

β€œI am not freezing my eggs now but I will maybe next year or in two years,”

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I Don’t Have Anywhere to Go – Emotional Moment Woman Breaks Down in Tears After Being Found Sleeping in a Government School Classroom with Her Children

A woman has stirred emotions online after she was reportedly found staying overnight with her children inside a government-owned school classroom.

A video circulating on X captured the moment a group of people confronted her and instructed her to vacate the classroom immediately. During the encounter, the woman emotionally explained that she had nowhere else to live after being forced out of her previous residence.

According to her, the classroom had become the only place where she and her children could sleep at night while she worked as a cleaner at the school.

She said:

“They pursued me from house this where i use since they pursue me from house, so i work here as a cleaner this is where me and my children use to pass the night because there is no where to go.”

When asked about the whereabouts of her husband, the woman revealed that he had abandoned the family before the birth of their youngest child.

She said:

“My husband is not in lagos, he leave us when i was carrying my last child pregnancy so i just decided to stay (In the government school classroom) and manage here with my children”

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