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I was Tired of waiting so I Proposed to my boyfriend but People said I shouldn’t have done that

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A woman recently shared on social media how she decided to propose to her boyfriend after dating for a while. 

She explained that her boyfriend is terrible at planning surprises, so she has always been the one organizing all the surprises in their relationship. She revealed that she has planned every birthday and anniversary surprise they’ve had.

Describing herself as someone who hates waiting, she decided to take matters into her own hands and propose to her boyfriend privately at their house, and he said yes. 

She shared that her proposal made her boyfriend burst into tears, and he told her how much he loved it. Afterward, they celebrated by watching movies together.

She also mentioned that those close to them weren’t surprised by the way they handled their engagement. However, some people she told were shocked and felt that she shouldn’t have proposed to her boyfriend.
She wrote: “I proposed to my boyfriend and I find it funny that people think it’s weird, or that I’m disappointed, or that he feels emasculated. Has anyone else proposed to their man or thought about it?

When you get engaged, people wanna know a few things: When the wedding is, how “he” proposed, and what the ring looks like.

I proposed because I am the planner and he loves surprises. He is very bad at planning things, to the point that we have agreed that all birthday/holiday/anniversary gifts will be cash into the savings fund, otherwise he’d be empty handed every time.

I hate waiting, we both agreed to get married, I straight up told him I was going to give him a proper proposal, so I did it. The way I did it was very personal to us, in our house, after work. He cried a little. He loved it. We then watched our new favorite show, went to bed, and went to work the next day. It wasn’t very climactic, but it was special to us.

Most of the people who are close to us are not surprised. They know us, they love us, the understand us. A few people, however, think maybe I shouldn’t have proposed. They are convinced that he feels emasculated and is hiding it (Puh-lease. He couldn’t hide an emotion from me if he wanted to, I can read him so well and he talks to me about everything anyway), some are convinced that I wanted some proposal but was “tired of waiting” so that’s why I took the initiative. Nope. I proposed to him because we wanted to get married. There didn’t even need to BE a proposal, considering that we already agreed to be married!

I know that some men want to be the ones that propose, and that is TOTALLY fine. I don’t care. Even if my guy was that type, I wouldn’t mind. But, he isn’t, so I went for it. It was right for us which is the only kind of “right” that matters. Why would any one want to do something that is only right for someone else??

Anyway, I just wanted to vent this because it’s been weighing on me a bit today. Obviously I will let the haters hate, and continue doing me. That’s easy!”

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Moment Italian singer Falls off stage while performing during Concert

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Italian singer Laura Pausini went viral on social media after she stumbled down the stairs while performing at a concert held at the Unipol Forum in Milan, Italy, on November 28.

The 50-year-old singer was making her way down the stairs when she accidentally stepped on her long gown, causing her to lose her balance and fall to the floor.

Despite the fall, Pausini continued singing and smiled as she sat on the stage

Shortly after, other dancers rushed to her aid and helped her up.

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Hours after the incident, she then took to instagram to thank all her concerned fans with a caption: “Thank you all for the messages of concern after my fall on stage, but I’m fine.

“Nothing happened to me, so much so that yesterday I did a new concert singing and dancing and jumping.

Also, the tour continues in Europe now.

“I slipped, but nothing happened to me.”

Thanking people who added her tour, She added: “You are Milan, you are the strength I don’t have when I’m afraid of not making it.

“Six nights, over 60,000 people, thank you.””

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I Never knew I was sharing my mother with my husband, I was forced to move far away from her and my family

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A Tanzanian woman named Rosemary Richard has shared her painful experience of discovering that her husband had an affair with her mother.

In an interview with Afrimax, Rosemary revealed that this betrayal caused her immense pain, especially as it came from her mother, whom she trusted deeply. The incident left her feeling isolated, and she chose to distance herself from everyone, including her family, because she could no longer trust anyone.

Reflecting on her upbringing, Rosemary explained that she never attended school because her parents were too poor to afford an education for their children. Despite the challenges, she worked hard to survive.

“I did whatever i could earn for a living whether it is washing clothes, cooking or cleaning I was willing to do anything to make ends meet It was exhausting but i had no other choice.” she said. “While some of our neighbour who started school later than us managed to secure good positions and hold prestigious titles in the country, such as engineers, bank managers and also ministers our situation took a different turn.” She added

Rosemary eventually found a man she believed would bring her happiness and help her heal from her difficult childhood. “I thought i have finally found someone who would support me and be my partner through thick and thin and i also hoped that he would help me heal from my childhood traumas and from the very beginning he never disappointed me.” She said

Describing the moment she uncovered the betrayal, she recalled: “I came home from work and couldn’t find my husband. I went to my mother’s room, as I usually did without knocking, and pushed the door open. I found him naked with my mother on the bed. I was deeply hurt.”

Despite the devastating discovery, Rosemary said her mother asked for forgiveness. “She asked me to forgive her. Since she is my mother, I didn’t hesitate to forgive her,” she said.

How she feels living alone, she said: “Living alone has provided me with the clarity necessary to understand my self worth and the significance of self love I have come to realize that trust once shattered requires time to be restored furthermore i have witnessed how swiftly people can change when i married my partner, he was so pure hearted that he wouldn’t even glance at other women … However recent event have forced me to acknowledged that perhaps i was deluding myself and living in denial.”

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6girls goes missing in Lekki after attending a House party

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Six girls in Lekki, Lagos State, have reportedly gone missing after attending a Private house party.  

In a video shared by a Lady, she revealed that the group initially consisted of seven girls. However, one of them had to step out of the car they were all in to retrieve a wig she had forgotten at home. When she returned, the car and her friends were gone.  

The lady used the opportunity to caution women, especially in Lagos Island and Lekki, to be mindful of the people they associate with, particularly strangers they meet at events or parties.  

She also claimed that some men are traveling from abroad to Nigeria for ritual purposes, urging women to be extra cautious about their interactions and the environments they find themselves in.

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Mansion goes into Flames as Owner tried to Fry Turkey in Garage

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A $4 million mansion in Connecticut was destroyed in a fire after a Thanksgiving turkey frying attempt went wrong.  

According to a Facebook post by firefighters, the incident occurred on Thursday afternoon at a mansion located at 40 Weston Road, Canada.  

Reports indicate that the fire started in the garage while residents were attempting to fry a turkey. The flames quickly spread, engulfing the garage and eventually extending into the main residence.  

Sharing the incident on facebook, It reads: ”On November 28, 2024, at 3:42 PM Weston Fire was dispatched to 40 Weston Road for an automatic fire alarm activation. While enroute Weston Communication Center received 911 calls reporting a garage fire at the residence. Upon arrival fire personnel located a well involved garage fire that was rapidly extending into the residence. Firefighters attempted an aggressive fire attack however their efforts were thwarted by dangerous fire conditions and structural collapse. In addition, a vehicle drove over the water supply hose on Weston Road, damaging the line, which completely stopped the flow of water for several minutes. Defensive operations were initiated and personnel remained on scene for over 16 hours battling the blaze and overhauling. Mutual aid assistance was provided by Westport Fire Department, Wilton Fire Department, Redding Fire Department, West Redding Fire Department, Georgetown Fire Department, Easton Fire Department. The Ridgefield Fire Department provided town coverage during the incident. Assistance was also provided by the American Red Cross, Salvation Army, Weston Public Works Department, Weston Police Department, Westport Police Department and Weston EMS. 30 Weston Firefighters responded to this incident. Car 1, Car 2, Engine 1, Engine 2, Engine 3, Engine 4, Engine 7, Truck 6, 552 and Medic 500 filled the assignment. The cause of the fire remains under investigation by the Weston Fire Marshal, however based on the preliminary investigation it appears the fire began in the garage and was the result of frying a turkey. There were no injuries and the house is deemed uninhabitable.

“I would like to thank all the Weston volunteer firefighters, Weston volunteer EMS, WPD, as well as the mutual aid fire departments from Westport, Easton, Wilton, Ridgefield, Georgetown, Redding, and West Redding, who battled the house fire during Thanksgiving,” said Weston First Selectwoman Samantha Nestor. “Special thanks to the Weston Public Work, American Red Cross, Salvation Army of Danbury, Aquarion, Eversource and Soco Gas for their assistance. Thank you for your Service and I am grateful everyone is safe.”

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I stopped talking to my family for 6yrs because they were against my marriage with my Muslim wife

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Anaika and Ian, a couple with a unique love story, have shared how they chose to marry themselves and cut ties with their families to focus on their relationship.  

In an interview with Tuko, the couple revealed that their journey began 16 years ago when they met in high school in Kisumu. They were both in Form 1 and in the same class. Now, after 15 years together, they are happily married.  

How they met, Ian said: “We met 16yrs ago, In high school I just joined high school then and she was in form 1 in the same class that I joined so we met in High school in Kisumu in form 1 and 15years now we have been together. 

Ian recounted how his decision to convert to Islam for Anaika caused tension with his Christian family, who disapproved of their marriage. He revealed that he hasn’t spoken to his family for six years as a result.  

“For the 15yrs, I have already discussed it with my family and they told me that they will not accept me convert and they are not on board with me converting being a christian home they are very rigid with it but I have not been talking to them for over 6years now so when i was going through this process they were not in the picture So it was just a decision as a man i had to make for my wife and then our son was not yet coming but he was part of the plan.,” Ian said.  

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I had my Manhood amputated after doctors assured me, It made me lost everything and my Identity

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A 54-year-old man, Craig Mycock, has opened up about how his life changed drastically after losing his private parts to amputation.  

In an interview with Fabulous magazine, Craig explained that it all began with minor symptoms that he initially ignored. He mentioned that he had been circumcised at the age of 22, which made him overlook the signs at first.  

When he finally went to the hospital, doctors examined him and assured him that his manhood could be reconstructed. However, he was devastated when the entire area had to be amputated instead.

Narrating, he said “The doctors never gave me any option to have my penis rebuilt I have never ever been given that option the sex life is gone off course I can’t take my clothes off 

“It’s a man’s nightmare, Well back in 2020 I went to my normal GP who actually referred me to a urology at stepping hill because i had a problem with my bladder whilst I was having that procedure a nurse actually spotted a mark on the end of my P**nis and got a doctrine for a second opinion but unfortunately  I was referred to a hospital called Christies which is the biggest cancer hospital in the Northwest within two weeks it was discovered and after a few tests and biopsies later, I was informed I had a penile cancer which i have never heard of before

“It is a rare cancer 40,000 men in great Britain in a year get prostrate cancer while 700 men a year get penal cancer.

“Well i was actually circumcised when i was 22 so it was actually a mark on the head of the p**nis look like a bit blood blister like i trapped my p**nis in my zip, it was nothing to worry about because like i said i never heard a p**nis cancer before and i didn’t think it was going to be cancer so it is something that i ignored for months at the end, I had a Biopsy and they discovered that it was a penis cancer and explained that I would have parts of my penis taken away and rebuilt with skin tissue from my thigh at that time I wasn’t too worried because they actually told me they will be able to have my p**nis rebuilt when piror to the operation a doctor came in and examined the area it was discovered that the cancer has actually spread very quickly on the top of the p**nis.

“I was devastated, I lost my identity, I lost my masculinity I lost everything and I went into deep depression Prior to the operation.”

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My family disowned me- Man laments after exposing cheating sister to her husband

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A young man has shared that his family disowned him after he exposed his sister for cheating on her husband.  

In an anonymous post shared by X user Wizarab, the man revealed that his sister had an affair, got pregnant for another man, and later had an abortion. While her husband remained unaware, the family knew but chose to stay silent.  

He explained that he decided to break the silence by calling his sister’s husband and revealing everything that had happened and now his sister husband has ended the marriage.

He wrote:” “My family is all angry with me and at this point i don’t care. I got to learn that my sister was cheating on her husband, she got pregnant, aborted and my parents and other siblings covered for her. I would have overlooked it too but months later she cheated again.

“This is where i had enough and i told her husband. Just for little back story, her husband has done a lot for me and the entire family. He paid my last year in university and even got me a job after. If i am financially independent its all due to him. He also heavily supports my parents. 

“Seeing all what he has done for me and for my family, i wouldn’t allow to see him being treated like a fool. So i told him everything and he decided to end it all with my sister. “My parents hate me because they have lost their money machine. My sister hates me too for exposing her and risking her marriage. 

“They have disowned me but i don’t care, i am financially stable. My sister is now depressed, she has lost everything including the children. I could not allow my destiny helper to be treated like a clown.” 

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No father that loves his daughter should collect any bride price from her man- Woman

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A woman named Princess Ada has criticized Nigerian parents on social media for demanding bride price before marrying off their daughters. 

In a Facebook post, she suggested that fathers who genuinely want their daughters to marry should not ask for any money. 

She also expressed concern that some fathers might be selling their daughters rather than simply asking for a dowry.

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Man shot dead others Injured During wedding celebration

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A shocking video has gone viral showing the moment a group of gangsters stormed a wedding and shot a guest.

According to reports, the gang arrived in a group of five before entering the venue to target Vladimir Zúñiga Calzada, a wedding guest.

In the video, the bride is seen standing on a chair, preparing to throw her bouquet, when the armed men burst in, dragged Vladimir out, and shot him.

Jalapa Mayor José Manuel Hernández Pérez confirmed the incident, saying to Theneedtoknow: “There was an act of violence committed by several people, over five reported, at the city casino. “They were heavily armed and gunshots were fired, resulting in three people being injured. “One was seriously wounded and lost his life.”

The mayor expressed support for the victims’ families, stating: “We are fully and absolutely supporting the affected families, hoping to provide information to them. 

“We hope that our land will soon recover the peace we so desperately need. “God bless our land and our people.”

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My boyfriend is now my girlfriend and we have been together for 5yrs

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Kai and Rob, a couple who have been together for five years, recently shared their journey of meeting as a gay couple and now living as husband and wife. 

In an interview with Love Don’t Judge, Kai revealed that she was male at the time they started their relationship. Two years in, she came out as transgender and now identifies as a trans woman. The couple opened up about facing judgment because of their unique relationship.

Recalling how they met, Kai said: “We met five years ago because Rob sent me a message on Facebook. I ignored him for a week, but then he popped up in my ‘People You May Know,’ so I messaged him back. When we finally met, we hit it off straight away.”

Rob shared his first impression: “When I saw Kai, I thought, ‘Damn, he’s hot. I’m going to have some fun.’ I liked his aesthetic—of course, this is in the past tense. Within two months of being together, I proposed to Kai on the beach. Before Kai, I was in a relationship with a man, and prior to that, I had a 16-year relationship with the mother of my two children.”

Rob added that Kai helped him broaden his perspective: “When I first came out, I didn’t know much about trans women. Meeting Kai opened my mind.”

Reflecting on the early days of their relationship, Kai explained: “At the start, we didn’t face any judgment because it was seen as a relationship between two men. There was no negativity or trolling online until I came out as transgender.”

Rob also shared his perspective: “Since then, we’ve learned a lot about ourselves and how fluid sexuality can be. People often ask me how I identify, and I usually say, ‘I just identify as Rob.’ For me, my sexuality doesn’t define who I am.”

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