A lady has taken to social media to criticize women who get married and become pregnant within the first year of marriage.
In a video she shared on TikTok, the woman spoke about how many Nigerian women end up suffering with their children after their marriages fail. According to her, many women do not properly secure themselves legally before marriage, which later puts them at a disadvantage.
She advised Nigerian women to ensure they have a court marriage, a prenuptial agreement, and proper legal documentation before settling down, so they are protected if anything goes wrong in the marriage.
In her words, she said:
“At least in the U. S……They have child support. What do they have in Nigeria?
Nothing.
“So how do women that leave their husbands, how do they do it? No wonder, no wonder all these men will be telling you that where will you take your children to? Who will take you with your children? They are using these same kids to punish you. You that you by yourself, single girl like you, you did not plan for all this problem. The man just started mistreating you, beating you. You are finally left now with the kids. Now you are suffering. Problem that you did not bring for yourself is already on your head. Why do you marry this man without security for yourself? Even if the court tells your husband to pay 30 k a month, 100k a month, that money we both know is not enough. How much is bag of rice to take care of three kids Two kids?
And the worst thing about it is that some women immediately they enter the marriage first year, you just got married, you’ve already given birth to three children. Please, why the first two years that you’re supposed to be watching that uncle to know whether he’s moving mad?
Because don’t you dare come and tell me that he’s not gonna be your portion. It’s not gonna be your portion. The people that is happening to do they plan for it to happen to them? Anybody can move anyhow, men are wicked. Oh, if you’re marrying a man, make sure you’re doing it in court and make sure you have a document, a contract. They call it prenup.”
See video below…….
@june_bug04 If you like don’t use your head to get into marriage that can scatter your life if you don’t move with wisdom #viral #feminist #creatorsearchinsights #womensright ♬ original sound – june_bug🐞
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