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He Accepted Me and My 7 Children After I Came Out of Two Abusive Marriages

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Adah Doebele, a mother of seven, has shared her emotional story about finding true love and acceptance after a painful past.

In an interview with Afrimax, she recounted her first marriage, describing how her former husband treated her with disdain. 

“He told me I was ugly and claimed he did me a favor by marrying me,” Adah revealed.

Her challenging journey began at age 13. While working as a fish seller, tragedy struck when she was raped by the man who would later become her first husband. 

Narrating, she said: “At the age of 15, I was married off now thankfully, I began school at Internet 2 at the age of 15yrs, I was just completing my high school that is form 4.

“i was married off and my first experience in this relationship was rape and off course I was the third wife at that time I ended up having three children in this relationship.

“But then when i turned 22, I walked away, I walked away because it was so abusive, I was abused by both the man and his first wife so it became so intense and I made up my mind to leave so i left with my three children.”

She opened up about how, after leaving her first marriage, she met another man. Unfortunately, he was often drunk and abusive. She went on to explain that her second husband began mistreating her children as well. She shared the painful experience of how he would physically hurt her and tell her she was ugly.

She admitted that being called “ugly” wasn’t something new to her. Her first husband had often said the same thing, so by the time her second husband said it, she had already grown somewhat accustomed to it.

“My first marriage, the man maintained that I was so ugly saying that he was doing me a favor of being married to me so i believed this because it is something he told me day in and day out and 7years of being in the same thing you tend to believe not only that even in my childhood, That has been forwarded to me and it made me believe that I was ugly, I was unworthy, I was a problem.

“and so in this man, I began to do that I believed him and he was just emphasizing the fact it has not been revealed to me so when i got married to this second man and when i say marriage, It is not a real marriage like in african context that maybe you are paid dowry for that you got for a wedding it was this thing of come we stay.

“So he picked up from where the last one had left both in abuse when i talk about abuse I am talking in the intense of beating, intense insults both emotionally and physcially”

She shared that because of the abuse, she eventually left her second husband’s house and moved to a new place with her children, who are now in their late teens and early twenties.

Adah went on to explain that her children saw firsthand the struggles she went through on her own, which deeply affected them. They couldn’t bear to watch their mother suffer any longer and decided to help her find a new husband—one who would treat her with love and respect, unlike the way their father had treated her. 

They were also fearful of how they were being treated by their father, and out of love and concern for their mother, they made a promise to find her a good partner who would treat both her and them well.

“My children first suggest to me that they want to find me a husband and i believe the reason why they did that is because they were afraid because they had watched me battered by this man it used to get so bad and twice he put that house on fire intending to actually get us killed and soon they realized that i may end up dead.

How she met her new man, she said: “I Was online for about 3months before i met someone three months i met another person i left the other one and so when i found that person, he became very serious with me he wanted to come to kenya to visit me he wanted marriage but by then he was so concerned about my children 

“I had a problem with that because i didn’t intend to go back to a relationship where i would be blamed for having children because i love my children and i am happy and i am proud of them and i have no problem having 7 children.

“Even before i continue i must say my life has been a miracle because i have watched God worked in my life tremendously just amazingly and on the 21st of december 2011, I asked god every simply if there is someone out there that can love me as i am with my burden please make them find me that was until 21st of december 2011 and guess what? The lord made me, prompted me I was prompted to resubscribe because i have left the dating site because i met somebody so i thought and when i subscribed on the 24th I met my now late husband.”

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Kylie Jenner and Boyfriend Timothée Chalamet Spotted Together at 70th David di Donatello Awards After Skipping Met Gala

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Kylie Jenner and Timothée Chalamet have officially confirmed their relationship, stepping out together for the 70th David di Donatello Awards in Rome on Wednesday.

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Following Timothée’s absence from the Met Gala, the couple made a glamorous appearance at the prestigious Italian event, drawing attention as they walked the red carpet side by side.

Kylie stunned in a plunging black gown, cozying up to Timothée, who looked sharp in a black velvet suit, exuding classic Hollywood style.

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Moment Humanoid Robot Malfunctions and Attack Inventors in Chinese Factory

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A startling video has gone viral on X (formerly Twitter), capturing the moment a humanoid robot appeared to malfunction and lash out at its inventors in a factory believed to be in China.

The footage, taken at an undisclosed location, shows the robot suspended from a construction crane while two men stand nearby, observing and chatting. Suddenly, the robot begins flailing its arms and legs aggressively, causing the men to flee in panic.

Moments later, one of the men cautiously returns to the scene and appears to try to stabilize the robot by pulling it upright.

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Free VDM- Fulani Herdsman Calls for Release of Activist VeryDarkMan Following Arrest

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Days after the arrest of popular activist VeryDarkMan, a Fulani herdsman has gone viral for sharing a video where he appeals for the activist’s release.

VeryDarkMan was recently arrested after confronting a GTBank branch, accusing them of taking money from his mother’s account without explanation. His bold actions quickly caught attention online and led to his arrest.

In response, a Fulani herdsman recorded himself standing among his cattle, calling on the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) to release the activist.

Despite the public outcry, VeryDarkMan’s lawyer stated that no official communication has been made regarding his release or status. However, the EFCC later confirmed they had arrested him—not because of the GTBank incident—but due to his repeated failure to respond to their invitations following multiple petitions filed against him.

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Thick tall men dont have sense, they are good for greeting guests at funreals than marriage- Serwaa Bronii

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Ghanaian media personality Serwaa Bronii has stirred conversation online after making controversial remarks about tall Ghanaian men in a recently circulated video.

In the video, Serwaa advised women to think twice before accepting a marriage proposal from a Thick tall, dark, and handsome man. According to her, such men may not be ideal for marriage.

She added that tall, dark men are best suited for greeting guests at funerals, rather than being considered “husband material.” She went on to claim that some of these men lack depth or intelligence, and advised women not to settle for them based on appearance alone.

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Boy Kidnapped in Taraba State Found in Lagos

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A young boy who was reportedly kidnapped in Taraba State has been found wandering the streets of Mile 2 in Lagos, sparking relief and concern among community members.

The news was shared by a Facebook user, Yakubu Ali Nicodemus, who posted a public announcement detailing how the boy approached him under the Mile 2 bridge. According to Nicodemus, the boy said he was abducted while returning from the farm nearly a week ago.

In his post, Nicodemus wrote:

PUBLIC ANNOUNCEMENT. This boy met me this morning at Mile 2 under bridge, Lagos. He said he was kidnapped while returning from farm about a week ago. He said his name is Daddy Friday from Tudun Baikan around Mararaban Baisa axis. I have made arrangements for his return back to Taraba. Anyone who can identify him should contact me or Arc. Mono Bello .Let’s ensure that our kids are not left alone. Thank you!,”

In a follow-up, a man named Bwakyauten Tank Yerima claimed to have identified the boy, stating that he is the son of an Igbo man, with his mother hailing from Taraba State.

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Chioma Adeleke Stuns in New Photos as She Celebrates Her 30th Birthday

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Chioma Adeleke, the wife of music superstar Davido, has taken to social media to share stunning photos of herself in celebration of her 30th birthday.

Marking the milestone, Chioma posted the beautiful pictures on Instagram — her first public photo update in a while

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Meet Tim Friede: The Man Who Let Deadly Snakes Bite Him to Help Science

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Tim Friede, a former truck mechanic, has endured over 200 bites from some of the world’s deadliest snakes — all in the name of science. His goal? To help researchers develop a groundbreaking, universal anti-venom.

Over the past 25 years, Tim has injected himself more than 700 times with venom from snakes like mambas, cobras, and taipans. Through this extreme and risky process, he’s built up a unique resistance, and his blood is now rich in antibodies that could be key to saving lives from snakebites around the world.

Tim’s journey began in 1999, when he started extracting venom from snakes, diluting it, and injecting himself with tiny doses to train his immune system. His dedication has come at a cost — in 2001, he was bitten twice by cobras and slipped into a four-day coma.

Despite the dangers, his work caught the attention of scientists. Jacob Glanville, CEO of the U.S. biotech firm Centivax, reached out to Tim after discovering a YouTube video showcasing his unusual efforts.
Speaking about Tim, he said: “I thought if anybody had the secrets of universal anti-venom pumping through their veins, it would be this guy”

Tests revealed that Mr. Friede’s blood can resist venom from snakes—even ones that have never bitten him before.

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Nigerian Nurse Found Dead in Her UK Apartment Weeks After Traveling to Nigeria for Her Wedding

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A Nigerian nurse, Nnena Miriam, has been found dead in her apartment in Leeds, United Kingdom, under tragic circumstances.

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According to a post by Twitter user Ibironke Khadeejah, Miriam was last seen on Sunday of the previous week. Friends became concerned when they couldn’t reach her, prompting them to file a missing person report. Following a police search, her lifeless body was discovered in her apartment.

Reports also reveal that Miriam had recently traveled from the UK to Nigeria for her introduction and marriage ceremony. Sadly, her husband had not yet joined her in the UK before her untimely death.

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“TRAGIC LOSS: Nigerian Nurse Found De@d in Her Leeds Apartment After Days of Silence.The nursing community is mourning the heartbreaking loss of Nurse Miriam, who was found dead in her apartment in Leeds, United Kingdom. Her last shift was on last week Sunday and her friend tried reaching out to her from Sunday but no response so she filled a missing report only for police to find her dead in her room

 Report has it that she has just come bk from Nigeria after her introduction but her partner hasn’t joined her yet. May her soul rest in perfect peace.”

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Japanese Man Breaks Down in Tears as $249,000 Ferrari He Saved for 10 Years Goes Up in Flames

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A Japanese man’s decade-long dream came crashing down in just one hour after his newly delivered Ferrari burst into flames.

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The man, known as Honkon, had been saving for 10 years to buy the luxury car, which reportedly cost around $249,000. But just an hour after it arrived at his home, tragedy struck.

Taking his prized Ferrari for a joyride around Tokyo’s Minato area, Honkon said he began to smell smoke. Moments later, the car was engulfed in flames.

“My Ferrari burned to ashes an hour after delivery. I bet I’m the only one in all of Japan to experience this kind of trouble,” he wrote in a viral post on X (formerly Twitter).

Recalling the terrifying moment, he added,“I thought it was going to explode, and I was really scared,”

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As I dey look for young boyfriend, I still dey observe my sister path- Regina daniels sister, Destiny brags

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Destiny Daniels, the younger sister of Nollywood actress Regina Daniels, has stirred up reactions online after revealing she’s on the lookout for a boyfriend.

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In a playful video she shared of herself dancing, Destiny captioned it: “As I dey find young boyfriend, I still dey observe my big sister path.”

Her post came shortly after Priscilla Ojo’s lavish wedding to Tanzanian singer Juma Jux, which sparked comparisons to Regina Daniels’ marriage to billionaire politician Ned Nwoko.

Social media users didn’t hold back in the comment section, with some dropping humorous takes:

“Na so e suppose be… e dey una blood 😹😹😂😂 Mama marry young, children marry old 😂💔”

“Priscilla wedding no sweet for ya eyes so?”

“I still dey observe the one wey senior your sis’ husband too 😂”

“As I dey find young boyfriend, I still dey observe Lagos married men too 🙂”

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