Men used to be embarrassed with me in the public because i have no hands, But i still found true love

A TikTok star named Ren, who was born without elbows or hands, has shared her journey to finding true love despite her condition.

In an interview with Truly, she discussed the challenges she faces due to her condition, noting that there are some things she can and cannot do without elbows.

One significant difficulty she mentioned was that boys often felt embarrassed to hold her hands, which affected her self-esteem.

Ren revealed that she initially worried that her new boyfriend, Timmy, might be uncomfortable about their relationship or nervous about being seen in public with her. However, she expressed that this is the first time she has ever felt genuine love from someone, and it has made her the happiest person.

How she copes without hands, she said: “I actually had to teach myself how to do everything everyone in my hands was born with hands I had to teach myself like how to get up eat with silverware or get dressed and all other stuff… my hair like brushing the back of it is like hard to reach sometimes.

She continued: “I was born without hands and elbows I was never diagnosed, i have never seen like an x-ray of my arms but through the years of doing my own research we have come to a close possibility that could be some form of AIA disorder i call them nubs but i have been calling them nubs since i was little.”

When asked on how she feels she could be able to do things independently, she said: “because i dont really have like family in ly life like or whatever as i was like growing up i was adopted uh when i was 11yrs old my adoptive mom she would make sure i learnt how to do something even if it was really irritating me she would be like no … keep going you have to do it until you get it i really hated it but now i am super greatful for everything because i do everything most everything by myself obviously like im going to need help with somethings which im so grateful for my boyfriend for that he has helped me in alot of things and sometimes i feel bad but im still um pretty independent.

How she met her boyfriend “Timmy”, she said: “Oh we met on bumble we chatted for a couple few weeks and timmy asked me for a date i was definitely nervous that like he was going to be questionable about how the relationship was going to go or just be nervous to be seen in public with me.”

“I like to go with things with open mind and its been working itself out.” Timmy interrupted.

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