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I’m 58 and my husband is 37, We are planning to have our child when I turn 60yrs old
A 58-year-old woman named Collen, married to 37-year-old Haithem, has revealed that they are planning to start a family of their own when she turns 60.

Collen married Haithem when he was 32, and despite initial opposition from her friends, they are soon going to be parents.
“So many people were against our union from the beginning which we found so upsetting.
“Haithem is my soulmate and we love each other. What’s so terrible about that?.”
Collen also mentioned that she met Haithem in 2017 on Facebook when he sent her a friend request.
Initially, she thought he might be a gigolo, but when she told him she was 53 years old, he wasn’t shocked by her age.

She said: “I thought he was attractive but wondered why he was talking with me.
“When I found out his age, I was shocked and figured we’d just be online friends. Nothing romantic crossed my mind.”
Collen also narrated that when she told her 27-year-old eldest son about her relationship with Haithem, he initially warned her that Haithem might be a catfish.
However, after speaking with Haithem over the phone, he realized that Haithem was genuine. She also noted that her 25-year-old son was not happy with their relationship due to their age gap.
“He didn’t like the age gap and was sceptical.
“I hoped he’d come around in time.”
She continued: “My best friend from high school told me I was being scammed and thought I was being stupid.
“She even asked if I’d heard of the website Tunisian Love Rats.

“I was no fool, of course I’d heard of love rats and scams involving men from other countries.
“But Haithem wasn’t like that. He’d never asked me for money.”
Their plans having children, she said: “We’ve spoken about children and Haithem says I’m enough.
“But we’ve discussed maybe adopting a child from his country one day.”
“I know people still question Haithem’s motives and sadly this has meant I’ve lost friends along the way.
“But when it comes to the bond we share, it’s more important than anything.
“I love him, and that’s all that matters.”
