I found out my friend is dating my husband of 20yrs after divorcing him- Lady cries out

A woman shared her heartbreak on a British parenting platform, Mumsnet, revealing that after 20 years of being together, she discovered her friend had been dating her husband. 

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Despite she and her husband decision to part ways in January, she admitted that she and her ex-husband still harbored feelings for each other and slept together.

 However, she was devastated to learn about her friend’s affair with him.
She wrote: “Recently separated after 20 year relationship (most of those married, 2 DC). Since deciding to split in mid Jan we were living under the same roof still with our children and pondering what to do. 

“There was still a lot of love for each other, respect and confusingly, we did still have sex a few times, most recently a few weeks ago.’

“It was agreed I would have our children stay with me every other week, at the moment I’m between two homes and also caring for DH as he is incapacitated at the moment due to an injury (done when playing sport with the woman I’m about to mention!!)

“DH started meeting up with a female friend for walks early Jan onwards and they had previously done stuff together too but it’s rapidly progressed to very frequently (Not a close friend of mine by any means, but somebody who we have both known for a few years, parent at same school as our DCs).

“I’ve found out today that she has indicated she wants a romantic relationship with my DH, and has been in my house when I haven’t been there.’

“For context, the family home will remain mine after finances are sorted but my DH was really keen to stay in for the short term for “stability for himself”. I’m very keen for him to be able to move on and find happiness.”

“I think all my upset is aimed at the woman that’s made the move on him when I feel there’s so much unfinished business (ie my home/ me heavily supporting him whilst he’s unable to cope with stuff) and it feels properly awkward that she thought it was ok to be spending all that time with him when allegedly she didn’t even know about our split as we only told people outside of our family a couple of weeks ago. AIBU to be finding this so upsetting?”