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I Lost 200M in One Day Because of the Love I Had for My Husband, I suffered With him but He Later Dumped me for another Woman

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In a touching interview with Afrimax, a woman identified as Olive Kagendo opened up about how she lost a staggering 200 million shillings in a single day—all because of the deep love she had for her husband. See here

Olive revealed that she had been married for 20 years, during which she devoted her time, energy, and finances to building a life with her partner. Throughout their relationship, she stood by him, offering her unwavering love and support.

However, her world came crashing down when her husband suddenly changed. According to Olive, not only did he turn his back on her, but he also evicted her from their home, leaving her with absolutely nothing—despite everything she had sacrificed.

 “I have built a lot of lands in Nairobi we have a lot of properties and even now this is our matrimonial room whereby i removed this from hope I cant explain why it is being done to me” She said while she cried in a part

Narrating the ordeal, she said: “I joined my high school in 1995 and whereby when i got to my high school there came a guy where we are going to the same church with him but he was ahead of me in terms of education …. when i was in high school, he was in the university but when i was in form 2 he came to do his attachment in my school this is where he got interested in me 

“And from this time, when he was taking me, he was my teacher now doing some tuition in my high school so he was teaching me physics and mathematics and from there, he got interested in me he never told me because this is our culture from our church whereby when you get interested in a girl you must go and make a report to the elders of the church and then the girl is preserved for you so it took sometime until i completed my high school and when i completed my high school he came he came to the elders of the church and made the report and then this was also taken to my parents and when i finished my high school, i got married to him.

THE WEDDING SHE HAD WITH HER EX-HUSBAND AFTER SHE FINISHED HIGH SCHOOL

“He came to our home and all the marriage ceremonies were arranged and i was married through our marriage customary law in 2005”

According to Olive, after she eventually married her husband, they moved to Nairobi, Kenya, in search of a better life. Determined to build a strong foundation, Olive said she worked tirelessly—brick by brick—to support their growth. She sacrificed her own comfort, ignored the red flags, and poured her energy into making the marriage work.

THE HOUSE SHE BUILT WITH HER HUSBAND

She explained that despite the clear warning signs in her husband’s behavior, she continued to hope and pray for him, believing that things would eventually get better. But in the end, she realized that all her efforts were in vain.

Reflecting on their struggles, Olive recalled how difficult things were in the early years: “It was the first time for him to work so our life was so hard and when we started our life, we started from scratch without anything 

“So he brought me to Nairobi I was very happy and i was very new in Nairobi so we came and looked for the house where it was bedsitter and this bedsitter we didn’t have anything especially the household items even a place to sleep we just slept on the floor and until he got his salary we went to buy mattress and also a bed and life started from there so his job was good and we started a Good life from there we were also advanced when it was back in 2007 he got a nice job in Kenya and corruption where the salary was better and the love started so from where we started it also came to a point where that now we were able to own some plots of land in Nairobi these plots, we built them up till a point whereby we had income from these houses 

“In 2008, we were blessed with out firstborn a girl named “Queen Shoba” and this time now we were sitting in our own houses the rental houses 

“in 2009, my husband got transfer from Nairobi headquarter to Mombasa still in Kenya and corruption whereby he went and worked there even then, I think the rank was better now we were able to build the houses comfortably … Then life was good we started another business 

How she found out he was cheating on her, she added: “After sometime, himself alone was coming to check on us after every two weeks, he was coming …. when i go to visit him, he could stop me from going to the place where he was in Mombasa 

“One day i decided to go quietly, when i went quietly to Mombasa, I traveled overnight with my small baby when i reached to Mombasa I went to the home where he was I found the house was locked when I called him he didn’t answer my calls so i decided to call our pastor in Mombasa when i called he told me I am a pastor and I don’t want to lie to you your husband got married to another woman and when he was leaving he told me when you come i should not disclose this to you 

“So the pastor and another friends of him they came praying for me … the bus fare in the evening I went back and surely i was very tired with the little baby and very much stressed because of this”

Olive revealed that after everything fell apart, her husband never reached out—not a single phone call, no apology, no explanation. He simply ghosted her, forcing her to come to terms with the painful reality on her own.

She added: “But when I came back to Nairobi, I just kept quiet I didn’t ask him because of the love I have for him I didn’t imagine whether he can do this to me but all known, it was true that he was in a relationship and when it was 2010, I came to realize that even now he has given birth to a baby with this wife now this is when the threats started a lot … This is where life started being on my side because now i could not even make calls to him whenever I have emergency maybe the children are sick or maybe when i need him I could not even access him 

“It went there up to 2012 … when I saw how things are being like is when i told him now off course we have enough income would you mind if we build another home he accepted and told me go ahead and look for a land so we can build a home and the home now is which we got where we are today 

“The first time I told him I got this baby he told me that the baby is not his”

“When he went back to work, he called me when he was in town and told me i want to see you today up asked him why don’t you tell me what you want to tell me in the evening he told me no i want you to come to town because I have a lot of pain in me i didn’t go but in the evening he came back home and he didn’t come with that wife, he came with a divorce letter this is now 2016 he came with a divorce letter a court order for divorce and he told me i want us to divorce i asked him why are you divorcing me, what have I done wrong to you that you are divorcing me he told me I want us to divorce so what i did i told him no problem then I called my family members and told them that my husband has come with a divorce letter and I explained to them what has been happening to me one of my uncle told me now you see things are happening like this when i see a man coming to you with court papers to tell you that you want to divorce you just sign and send those papers because the decision he has made has make to you cant change it 

“So in my head i didn’t understand why I am getting divorced i didn’t sign the papers overnight he kept on telling me sign the papers but I didn’t sign them”

“So the following day I was to go and make uniforms because now we had a security firm whereby i was the manager I was the one who was going for night patrols managing everything and we had good tenders … so the business was so good so that morning I was to go and make some uniform for new guards where I was to take them for some initials and when i went to town, before I got out of the house he told me when you finish picking up the uniforms i want you to come to town.

“Then i went to town he told me let us meet near the Kenya power house when I went, I met him when he was standing there waiting for me then he became somehow harsh to me he told me I want you to sign this papers so when i remember the ones from my family I just decided to sign the papers and i signed the papers and was supposed to appear in court within 14days and then I told him I don’t know anything about the court matters and everything … he told me the days are near I would tell you what to do 

“So I waited and was counting my 14days which i was told he never told me anything Me I would never go to court anymore so even that one I didn’t follow”

She shared that she fell a sick one day and her husband came to the hospital to come and visit her so she was thinking he came out of love but only for him to tell her that his other wife found out he was still seeing her. 

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You Are Pregnant – People React After Grand P’s Girlfriend Shares Photos From Her Hospital Bed

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Guinean singer Moussa Sandiana Kaba, popularly known as Grand P, has reacted after his girlfriend, Mariame Kaba, shared photos of herself from a hospital bed.

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Following her post, Grand P took to the comments section to wish her a quick recovery while making a playful remark that caught the attention of social media users.

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The singer joked that he hoped her hospital visit was not for what he was thinking, appearing to suggest pregnancy.

His comment added a lighthearted moment to Mariame’s update as she continues to recover from her surgery.

Mariame has not indicated that she is pregnant, and Grand P’s comment appeared to be made in jest.

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After 35 Years Apart – Emotional Moment Man Reunites With His Father After Being Lost for Decades

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A Nigerian man from Bayelsa State has reunited with his son after 35 years of separation following a family reunion that brought joy to his loved ones.

The emotional moment was shared by a family member, Ibuomozi Bigi, who revealed that the reunion took place on Saturday, September 19, 2026.

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Sharing the news online, he wrote:

“A family’s celebration of the Return of a lost Son.

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My older brother’s son who was given to another man 35 years ago has been brought back to the Bigi family yesterday being 19 September 2026, a replica of his father; and today the young man was presented to the Mozi Dynasty in Olobiri Community today being 20th September, 2026 just minutes ago.

I’m overwhelmed with joy over this particular event, and just returning from the village.

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Couple Publicly Caned 100 Times Each in Indonesia After Being Found Guilty of Adultery

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Two people in a relationship have been publicly caned in Banda Aceh, Indonesia, after being found guilty of adultery.

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The incident reportedly took place on Thursday, with both individuals receiving 100 strokes of the cane as punishment under Aceh’s Islamic regulations.

Aceh is the only province in Indonesia that formally implements Islamic criminal law, which includes regulations covering relationships and sexual conduct.

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Photos from the punishment showed the woman being caned in public as officials carried out the sentence.

At one point, she appeared to collapse after receiving several strokes and was assisted from the area.

Her male partner was also seen receiving the punishment, with photographs showing him wincing as the cane struck him.

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Some commenters also made personal remarks about whether they would date someone living with HIV, further adding to the discussion under her post.

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Sharing the video on X, HassanMcOjwang tagged the DCI Kenya, National Police Service and other government officials while questioning why women continue to face such treatment.

He captioned the post:: “Hello DCI
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@ray_omollo why do women still get subjected to this harmful unacceptable gender abuse in Kenya 🤔🤔🤔🤔. These three man were captured yesterday forcing this lady to board a motorbike allegedly to go back to her toxic husband who has been beating her all the time🤔🤔🤔😭😭😭😭😭. The lady ran to her home only for the husband to go there and bribe her dad and the results is all of yjem now forcing her to go back to the husband. Where is humanity? These man MUST be dealt with harshly 😠😠😠”

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