I Took Someone Husband and Lost Him Too, I Regret Being a Second Wife to Him- Woman cries out

A woman named Helen has opened up about how her marriage fell apart after she got involved with a man who was already married, a decision she says ultimately left another woman in tears.

In an emotional interview with Afrimax, Helen revealed that the relationship began decades ago while the man was still married to someone else. Despite knowing his marital status, she went ahead and pursued the relationship, which eventually led to marriage.

However, Helen admitted that even while married, she never truly felt a deep connection or sense of ownership in the relationship. 

Narrating, she said: “Then i was working and then there was a good friend that we met we became to be friends, we are so close like someone you could look up too as a mentor, you would reach out, tell him some of the issues you are facing in the relationship ……… So our relationship grew so closer i a way that we couldn’t go a day without talking by then he was married but now i am trying to discover myself though i had one child by then.

“So we continue to the relationship, friendship, basically and all that he was there to provide, a good friend like i was saying, these are God sent, he provided for me, my son by that time i had one son he could pay my bills sometimes when i am stuck, he could come in ship foods and everything but no strings attached just good friends and all that …… so later on our relationship grew so tight and it came to a time now ……. he confessed because then he was also having some challenges in his marriage, he opened up and told me some of the challenges they were going through and i could tell myself why would good person have such…..you know and because you are young, you are getting help here and there, you don’t go to dig deeper and ask questions and they think that is what many girls do in their comfort zone you forget about any other person and just think about yourself am i able to eat, are my bills being paid, You forget to find out digging deeper the background of this person for real who is this person that i am getting entangled with that was my case by then being that i was frustrated in relationship before so now this guy comes in very mature he understands everything before i cough everything has been done and he is suffering.

“Someone is taking advantage of him, someone is misusing him in the name of marriage so when he came out and things happened now we became lovers and all that i could not say no.

“I couldn’t resist because i was like where do i start from again he has established me he has done some things for me, he has been always there for me all my free time were are spending together so it was hard for me to resist and then number two, I think it is because of the age bracket it was hard for me to ask for some deeper serious questions like i can face someone today and want to know more about this person.

How they moved in together, she added: “Later on we moved in together and the wife finds out that we are in a relationship, she tried to separate us initially it was easy because i could understand her and we were on a good platform so we tried to breakup but after sometime we came back together again so later on i found out i was pregnant for him so i cant come out things have happened, I have given the woman a chance to reconcile with the husband they are still fighting they are all having their own issues and now i am listening to just one side of the story of which he was talking negative about his wife the way she mistreats and all that the way she is malicious all those nasty things and i could sympathize with him because now before him I was seeing a full post person who is mature, intelligent knows what to do, caring

“You can tell if he is taking care of me like this i’m just somebody what about the wife? what else do people want so many things that led to that, I can’t say by then, he was a bad person or what ….. no he was there for me and he was willing to do like now when things escalated Im pregnant, he had to bring his people the mother came in the brothers, sisters they came to know who is the lady now so i also took him to my people because i told him i would not 

“For me i was like you have stopped staying with your wife you have to come stay with me so we are not going to be two and he said no we are not going to be two i think the life i have spent with her is enough we had to begin a new journey with you i didnt know the formalities to that to observe and all that just because i know when you are in love you are so blinded you dont even hear some things so later on i was like okay after all i am not getting into a polygamous now build my own understanding i am not getting in the polygamous this person has left his wife.

“So when i went home i told my people so you know what he was married but they are no longer together so i took him to meet people we did introduction and everything was okay and from there we begin to stay like husband and wife, we stayed we got our first child 

“We began from there, there was red flags and i tell myself not maybe because i am pregnant because i remember when i conceived he asked me how sure am i that the pregnancy is mine (his) i have stayed with my wife for over 20years she didnt give me a child so how sure am i that this one is mine we just stayed for short time 

“That question could have come to my mind it was a red flag a sign to run for my life because i was like why would you ask me such question and i decided to give him time and the baby was born the baby resembled him everything and all that deep inside my head i knew i have not engaged in another relationship ……… it wasn’t an easy time during that pregnancy but then things went on the baby was born we continued our lives, we could go to church together we could do our things together just like any other marriage I know deep inside most girls would have shared theirs who have been in the same shoes and attest, that gap that you feel you lack sense of ownership over this person no matter how you try to lie to yourself you are complete that everything is okay”

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