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He Accepted Me and My 7 Children After I Came Out of Two Abusive Marriages
Adah Doebele, a mother of seven, has shared her emotional story about finding true love and acceptance after a painful past.
In an interview with Afrimax, she recounted her first marriage, describing how her former husband treated her with disdain.
“He told me I was ugly and claimed he did me a favor by marrying me,” Adah revealed.
Her challenging journey began at age 13. While working as a fish seller, tragedy struck when she was raped by the man who would later become her first husband.
Narrating, she said: “At the age of 15, I was married off now thankfully, I began school at Internet 2 at the age of 15yrs, I was just completing my high school that is form 4.
“i was married off and my first experience in this relationship was rape and off course I was the third wife at that time I ended up having three children in this relationship.
“But then when i turned 22, I walked away, I walked away because it was so abusive, I was abused by both the man and his first wife so it became so intense and I made up my mind to leave so i left with my three children.”
She opened up about how, after leaving her first marriage, she met another man. Unfortunately, he was often drunk and abusive. She went on to explain that her second husband began mistreating her children as well. She shared the painful experience of how he would physically hurt her and tell her she was ugly.
She admitted that being called “ugly” wasn’t something new to her. Her first husband had often said the same thing, so by the time her second husband said it, she had already grown somewhat accustomed to it.
“My first marriage, the man maintained that I was so ugly saying that he was doing me a favor of being married to me so i believed this because it is something he told me day in and day out and 7years of being in the same thing you tend to believe not only that even in my childhood, That has been forwarded to me and it made me believe that I was ugly, I was unworthy, I was a problem.
“and so in this man, I began to do that I believed him and he was just emphasizing the fact it has not been revealed to me so when i got married to this second man and when i say marriage, It is not a real marriage like in african context that maybe you are paid dowry for that you got for a wedding it was this thing of come we stay.
“So he picked up from where the last one had left both in abuse when i talk about abuse I am talking in the intense of beating, intense insults both emotionally and physcially”
She shared that because of the abuse, she eventually left her second husband’s house and moved to a new place with her children, who are now in their late teens and early twenties.
Adah went on to explain that her children saw firsthand the struggles she went through on her own, which deeply affected them. They couldn’t bear to watch their mother suffer any longer and decided to help her find a new husband—one who would treat her with love and respect, unlike the way their father had treated her.
They were also fearful of how they were being treated by their father, and out of love and concern for their mother, they made a promise to find her a good partner who would treat both her and them well.
“My children first suggest to me that they want to find me a husband and i believe the reason why they did that is because they were afraid because they had watched me battered by this man it used to get so bad and twice he put that house on fire intending to actually get us killed and soon they realized that i may end up dead.
How she met her new man, she said: “I Was online for about 3months before i met someone three months i met another person i left the other one and so when i found that person, he became very serious with me he wanted to come to kenya to visit me he wanted marriage but by then he was so concerned about my children
“I had a problem with that because i didn’t intend to go back to a relationship where i would be blamed for having children because i love my children and i am happy and i am proud of them and i have no problem having 7 children.
“Even before i continue i must say my life has been a miracle because i have watched God worked in my life tremendously just amazingly and on the 21st of december 2011, I asked god every simply if there is someone out there that can love me as i am with my burden please make them find me that was until 21st of december 2011 and guess what? The lord made me, prompted me I was prompted to resubscribe because i have left the dating site because i met somebody so i thought and when i subscribed on the 24th I met my now late husband.”
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A man took his birthday celebration to the next level by climbing an active volcano, bringing along flowers, bread, and fruit as an offering.
In a video shared online, he appeared both emotional and excited after reaching the summit of Popocatépetl—apparently forgetting that it was still an active volcano.
The incident reportedly took place on March 12th at Popocatépetl, a 730,000-year-old volcano located about 45 miles southeast of Mexico City. The date holds historical meaning as it marks a tradition from the pre-Hispanic era when people would make offerings to the volcano in exchange for favors.
During this time of year, locals visit the volcano to bring flowers and food as part of a celebration honoring Gregorio Chino Popocatépetl, a man who claimed he could predict volcanic eruptions.
However, despite the cultural pratice, the man broke safety rules by climbing dangerously close to the high-risk area of the volcano while saying a prayer.
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Family or Not, If You Mispronounce Me, I’ll Block You – Nigerian Transgender Miss Sahara Warns
Nigerian transgender woman, Miss Sahara, took to social media to address anyone who misgenders or defames her.
She shared her message on Instagram, stating: “If you deadname me or use the wrong pronouns, because you think you knew me when I was in Nigeria, or you claimed we went to school together, or you helped bring me out of my mother’s vagina! I will gladly block your stupid ass! I don’t care if we are blood relatives!,” she wrote.
“Disrespect begets disrespect. It has been 21 years since I left that godforsaken trash of a hell hole!
“I have been living my life as Sahhara longer than any rubbish assigned name/gender at birth.
“So don’t you dare disrespect me with your stupidity! Clowns.”
A video has gone viral on social media, showing the moment a Black American woman aggressively confronted a white woman for wearing African braids.
In the clip, originally shared on TikTok, the Black woman can be seen confronting the white lady, repeatedly saying: “It’s ugly as f**k! We wear that sht!”
She then demands that the woman remove the braids from her head.Although the video got alot of reactions as a user wrote: “
bro viking braids are completely different from African braids viking braids are usually the big chunky normal braids u usually use girl this girl has a right to disrespect u like that
Another wrote: “She’s not wrong..
Another wrote: “random lady was 100% right”
Another wrote: “Bro just because she’s white she can’t have braids?? 🤔”
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@nataliexxxreynolds Florida lady chased me down yesterday for wearing braids… #fyp #braids ♬ original sound – Natalie Reynolds
Wendy Williams was rushed to the hospital after police conducted a wellness check at her residence.
Reports state that she was taken to the hospital on Monday around 11:15 AM. Upon arrival, authorities discovered a note on her window that read: “Help! Wendy.”
This incident comes amid ongoing concerns for Wendy’s health, as she has been battling dementia. Just weeks prior, she was seen in distress, banging on her window while on a phone call. READ HERE
The funeral arrangements for Angie Stone have been announced. She will be laid to rest on March 14, 2025, in Atlanta.
There will be two ceremonies to honor her life—one on March 14 in Atlanta and another on March 15 in her hometown of Columbia, South Carolina.
A number of celebrities, including Tyler Perry, Anthony Hamilton, Y’Anna Crawley, Kirk Franklin, Tamela Mann, Stout, Musiq Soulchild, and Q. Parker, are expected to attend. Some will speak or perform as part of the service.
Angie Stone tragically passed away in a car accident last weekend.
Post Malone has been spotted with a new woman after reportedly calling off his engagement to his former partner, who is also the mother of his child but was never publicly known.
In a recent post, Post Malone was seen holding hands with Christy Lee. A clip shared online shows the two sitting together at a local bar, looking cozy.
According to TMZ, the couple has been seeing each other since the beginning of the year.
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@gabbyzcool successful side quest @Post Malone ♬ I Had Some Help – Post Malone
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Grand P Goes Viral After Getting Angry at His New Lover for Refusing to Serve His Uncle (Video)
Popular Guinean singer, Grand P, has gone viral after a heated moment with his fiancée, Mariame, also known as Mrs. Kabba.
The incident reportedly took place when Grand P visited his uncle’s house. Upon arrival, he asked Mariame to get him a drink, but she refused.
Frustrated, he confronted her, saying, “Uncle is here. Can’t you get him water to drink?”
However, Mariame, seemingly unbothered, sat on a chair swinging side to side and responded angrily, “I’m tired.” Her reply did not sit well with Grand P, who accused her of being lazy.
The exchange quickly sparked reactions online, with social media users sharing mixed opinions. One user commented, “Is it only me that heard ‘TOTO is easier’? Any Nigerians here?”
Another speculated, “Maybe she’s pregnant.”
Someone else questioned their relationship, asking, “Does she even like this man? 🥺”
Another confused user added, “He says she’s lazy… she doesn’t want to wash dishes and clean the house? Can someone explain, please? We’re lost.”
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@k.i.b.boss #grandp ♬ son original – KENZO_GN❤️💛💚
A woman who has spent the last four years transforming her appearance with extreme tattoos and body modifications has shared her before-and-after photos online.
The woman, known as Toxii, revealed that she has undergone several procedures, including multiple piercings, tattooing her eyes and tongue, removing her nose, splitting her tongue in half, and getting forehead implants resembling horns.
Posting the photos on social media, she captioned them: “Transformation 2019 vs 2023.”
While some praised her bold transformation, others were quick to criticize her new appearance, sparking a mixed reaction online.
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A man with extreme body modifications, identified as Diabão Praddo, has gone viral on social media after showcasing his dramatic transformation.
Diabão gained his fame for undergoing ear removal, finger modifications, and extensive body tattoos, with over 80% of his body covered in ink. He has also had sewn modifications to alter his appearance further.
Some took to the comments to criticize and insult him, with a few admitting that his look irritates them.
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A young woman has shared that she will never leave her boyfriend, who works as a Keke Napep (tricycle) driver.
In an interview, she explained that she chose him because he brings her peace of mind. She emphasized that he is not a poor man—he is just going through a temporary rough patch.
She also praised his hardworking nature, stating that if he were lazy, she would never have considered being with him.
“We are here does not mean we are going to be here forever, in future to come in times to come i know that we would be in a better place so i am very comfotable and i am not complaining whatever people are saying …….. they say alot even my friends i have lost so many friends because of my boyfriend” She said
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