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He Accepted Me and My 7 Children After I Came Out of Two Abusive Marriages

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Adah Doebele, a mother of seven, has shared her emotional story about finding true love and acceptance after a painful past.

In an interview with Afrimax, she recounted her first marriage, describing how her former husband treated her with disdain. 

“He told me I was ugly and claimed he did me a favor by marrying me,” Adah revealed.

Her challenging journey began at age 13. While working as a fish seller, tragedy struck when she was raped by the man who would later become her first husband. 

Narrating, she said: “At the age of 15, I was married off now thankfully, I began school at Internet 2 at the age of 15yrs, I was just completing my high school that is form 4.

“i was married off and my first experience in this relationship was rape and off course I was the third wife at that time I ended up having three children in this relationship.

“But then when i turned 22, I walked away, I walked away because it was so abusive, I was abused by both the man and his first wife so it became so intense and I made up my mind to leave so i left with my three children.”

She opened up about how, after leaving her first marriage, she met another man. Unfortunately, he was often drunk and abusive. She went on to explain that her second husband began mistreating her children as well. She shared the painful experience of how he would physically hurt her and tell her she was ugly.

She admitted that being called “ugly” wasn’t something new to her. Her first husband had often said the same thing, so by the time her second husband said it, she had already grown somewhat accustomed to it.

“My first marriage, the man maintained that I was so ugly saying that he was doing me a favor of being married to me so i believed this because it is something he told me day in and day out and 7years of being in the same thing you tend to believe not only that even in my childhood, That has been forwarded to me and it made me believe that I was ugly, I was unworthy, I was a problem.

“and so in this man, I began to do that I believed him and he was just emphasizing the fact it has not been revealed to me so when i got married to this second man and when i say marriage, It is not a real marriage like in african context that maybe you are paid dowry for that you got for a wedding it was this thing of come we stay.

“So he picked up from where the last one had left both in abuse when i talk about abuse I am talking in the intense of beating, intense insults both emotionally and physcially”

She shared that because of the abuse, she eventually left her second husband’s house and moved to a new place with her children, who are now in their late teens and early twenties.

Adah went on to explain that her children saw firsthand the struggles she went through on her own, which deeply affected them. They couldn’t bear to watch their mother suffer any longer and decided to help her find a new husband—one who would treat her with love and respect, unlike the way their father had treated her. 

They were also fearful of how they were being treated by their father, and out of love and concern for their mother, they made a promise to find her a good partner who would treat both her and them well.

“My children first suggest to me that they want to find me a husband and i believe the reason why they did that is because they were afraid because they had watched me battered by this man it used to get so bad and twice he put that house on fire intending to actually get us killed and soon they realized that i may end up dead.

How she met her new man, she said: “I Was online for about 3months before i met someone three months i met another person i left the other one and so when i found that person, he became very serious with me he wanted to come to kenya to visit me he wanted marriage but by then he was so concerned about my children 

“I had a problem with that because i didn’t intend to go back to a relationship where i would be blamed for having children because i love my children and i am happy and i am proud of them and i have no problem having 7 children.

“Even before i continue i must say my life has been a miracle because i have watched God worked in my life tremendously just amazingly and on the 21st of december 2011, I asked god every simply if there is someone out there that can love me as i am with my burden please make them find me that was until 21st of december 2011 and guess what? The lord made me, prompted me I was prompted to resubscribe because i have left the dating site because i met somebody so i thought and when i subscribed on the 24th I met my now late husband.”

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Bobrisky, Ma Pa Wa Na – Nigerians React After Bobrisky Flaunts His Figure 8 Shape in New Photos

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Nigerian crossdresser Bobrisky has caused a stir online after sharing a new photo showing off his figure.

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The social media personality shared the photo alongside the caption: “Midnight vibes, daytime dreams ❤️”

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The new post quickly attracted reactions from Nigerians, with social media users sharing different opinions about the photo and Bobrisky’s appearance.

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North West Turns Heads as She Steps Out With Kanye West and Bianca Censori at ComplexCon

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Kim Kardashian and Kanye West’s daughter, North West, caught attention with her recent appearance at ComplexCon in Los Angeles.

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The young star attended the 10th anniversary edition of the festival alongside her father, Kanye West, and his wife, Bianca Censori.

Photos from the event showed North sporting blue hair while completing her look with fake piercings, giving her outfit an edgy and youthful appearance.

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Kanye, meanwhile, maintained his usual bold style, stepping out in a leather outfit that matched his distinctive fashion sense.

Bianca also attracted attention with her outfit, wearing a tightly fitted PVC trench coat paired with knee-high boots.

North was also photographed posing alongside her stepmother, Bianca Censori, during the event.

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I Used to Beg People to Pay My Rent — Ashmusy Opens Up About Her Struggles in 2017

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Popular Nigerian comedian and content creator Amarachi Amusi, better known as Ashmusy, has opened up about the difficult period she went through before becoming successful.

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Reflecting on her life in 2017, Ashmusy revealed that she had to beg people for financial assistance just to pay her house rent and settle her bills.

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She said she begged a lot during that period and recently became emotional while reflecting on how far she has come.

Ashmusy also said that she sometimes gets so caught up in her busy lifestyle and pursuit of a better life that she forgets where she started from.

Her reflection comes as she looks back at the challenges she faced before achieving the life she has today.

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Na You Know If She Dey Beautiful Because Na Masquerade I Dey See – Nigerians React as Man Showers His Mom With Love on Her Birthday

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Nigerians have reacted to a man’s birthday post after he shared a photo of his mother while celebrating her and describing her as a beautiful woman.

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The woman appeared to be dressed as a devoted Eleha woman, while her face was not visible in the photo shared by her son.

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While the man’s birthday message was filled with appreciation and affection for his mother, some Nigerians focused on the fact that her face was covered.

Some social media users mocked the man for calling his mother beautiful when her face could not be seen, with some questioning how they could know whether she was beautiful without seeing her face.

Celebrating his mother, the man wrote:

“Happy Birthday to my beautiful mum, my safe place, my answered prayer, and one of the greatest blessings ELEDA has given me. ❤️

ELEHA o, I honestly don’t know how to put into words how much you mean to me. You never stop taking care of me. Even when you should be resting, you’re still thinking about me. You hardly sleep when you’re worried about me. You’re always asking if I’ve eaten, begging me to eat when I say I’m not hungry, and checking on me whenever I’m at home to make sure I’m okay.

And one thing that always touches my heart is how you ask if I’ve slept. If I tell you I haven’t, you’ll start with, “Please, go and sleep small.” 😂❤️ It may seem like such a little thing, but those little things are the things I know I’ll carry in my heart forever.

I know you’re not the only person who has loved and cared for me this way, but you are the one who is still here doing it every single day. Since AJAGBE your partner is in where I can not say, yeah, I don’t know who gave birth to my father. “😭❤️ You have carried so much, yet you still find a way to be there for me. I sometimes wonder if the love I have for both of you can ever truly be separated, because so much of who I am is connected to the two of you. ❤️

ELEHA, thank you for loving me so loudly and so quietly at the same time. Thank you for every sleepless night, every “have you eaten?”, every “please sleep,” every check-in, every prayer, every sacrifice, and every moment you have put me before yourself.

I may not always say it, and I may not always know how to show it, but I see you. Even if I don’t talk, I appreciate you. Even if I can’t tell you. I love you more than words can explain.

Today, I thank ELEDA MI for your life. I thank ELEDA for keeping you, strengthening you, and allowing me to have you still here to love and laugh with😂❤️

May this new year of your life bring you peace, good health, happiness, long life, and all the beautiful things your heart deserves. May God continue to protect you and give you many more years to enjoy the fruits of your love and sacrifices. and you shall never cry over any of us

Happy Birthday, Iya awon Alfa❤️🎂🥹

I love you. And no matter how old I become, I’ll always be your child—the one you’ll still ask if they’ve eaten and tell them to “please sleep small.” 😂❤️

God bless you for me, BABY mi. Forever grateful for you. Aya AJAGBE🙏🏽❤️”

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Na Egbere True True ooo- Moment Nigerian Man Runs After Spotting a Bush Baby During a Late-Night Walk as Nigerians React

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A Nigerian man has shared a video showing the moment he reportedly spotted what he identified as an Egebere, commonly known as a bush baby, while walking late at night.

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In the video, the man could be heard speaking in Yoruba as he pointed towards the animal and appeared surprised by what he had seen.

He said:

“Guys i am just seeing something now I saw Egebere (Bus baby)”

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The man then ran towards the animal while repeatedly shouting “Egebere” as he attempted to get closer to it.

The creature could be seen quickly running away as the man followed it. Its face was not clearly visible in the footage, making it difficult to independently establish exactly what animal was captured on camera.

The video has since attracted different reactions from Nigerians on social media.

While some viewers believed the footage showed a bush baby, others questioned the authenticity of the video and suggested that it could be staged as content.

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Upon Everything I Dey Do for the Girl – Man Cries After Discovering His Girlfriend of 2 Years Was Doing Ashawo at Night

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A video making the rounds on social media has captured the moment a man confronted his girlfriend after accusing her of going for ashawo work.

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In the video, the man could be seen confronting the woman and assaulting her while expressing his anger over the situation.

He was heard saying:

“You dey mad, Nothing wey i never do for you, You dey do ashawo, You dey mad”

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People who were around the scene gathered as they tried to stop the man from continuing to beat his girlfriend.

Some of the women at the scene could be heard questioning his actions, with one asking:

“why you con dey beat am”

The man, however, continued to explain why he was angry with his girlfriend, claiming that he had done everything for her but believed she was still involved in ashawo.

He said:

“Upon everything i dey do for the girl, that girl dey do ashawo so as i dey give thatg girl everything”

The situation became emotional as the man burst into tears while his friend tried to calm him down and advised him to relax.

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Men Don Suffer – Moment Lady Was Caught After Being Accused of Using Juju on Her Boyfriend

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A video making the rounds on social media shows the moment a lady was confronted by a group of people who accused her of using a charm on her boyfriend.

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In the video, the group could be heard demanding that the lady bring out what they were looking for as they confronted her over the incident.

One woman, who identified herself as the boyfriend’s sister, was heard questioning what the lady had given her brother and why he had reportedly fallen asleep.

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She said in Pidgin:

“Which kan medicine wey she give my brother wey my brother sleep off”

The lady was then seen bringing out an object that the people confronting her described as a charm.

As soon as she brought it out, those around her reacted in shock, with some of them shouting, “Jesus.”

The group continued questioning her as she was seen untying the object.

A man in the video then made a comment about people who engage in hookups, saying:

“Make una come see those who dey carry hookup dey lose am”

In the background, another woman could be heard crying and repeatedly saying:

“Men don suffer, men don suffer”

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@donaldmarco4 let be careful out there oooo #views #100mlikes #fypシ #goviral #100kviews ♬ original sound – PAIN IS REAL 💔😣
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Take Papa to Evil Forest – Nigerians React as Lady Gives Her Father a Makeover

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A makeup artist has caused a stir on social media after sharing a video showing the moment she gave her father a full makeup makeover.

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The artist shared the video on TikTok, showing her father modelling for her as she worked on his face and completed the transformation.

She captioned the video: “Asked my dad to model for me”

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The video quickly attracted different reactions from social media users, with many people sharing their opinions about the unusual choice of model.

While some users found the video entertaining and praised the makeup artist for practising her craft with her father, others questioned why she decided to apply makeup to him

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@almightydebby TikTok pls make my video go viral 🥹🙏. #menmakeup #creatorsearchinsights #viralvideo #blowthisup ♬ original sound – PRETTY SPEEDY💜🥀🥰

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Moment Woman Fetches Water From Well and Pours It Through Her Boyfriend’s Room Window After Their Breakup

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A video showing the moment a woman repeatedly fetched water from a well and poured it into her boyfriend’s room after their relationship reportedly ended has gone viral on social media.

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In the video, the woman could be seen making several trips to the well as she collected water and poured it through the window of the room where her boyfriend was staying.

She continued the act multiple times, with the video showing her almost emptying the well in the compound before some neighbours intervened.

During the incident, the woman was confronted by the boyfriend’s neighbours, who tried to calm the situation.

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They could be heard saying: “Ni suru” which means “be patient” in English.

The neighbours were also seen speaking to the man inside the room, telling him: “Leave her alone”

The reason behind the breakup and the woman’s reaction was not revealed in the video.

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One of the Sweetest Things God Does Is That He Does Not Give Your Mockers Your Picture of Tomorrow – Anita Joseph Responds After Her Ex-Husband’s Current Girlfriend Mocked Her

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Nollywood actress Anita Joseph has responded after Gbemso, the girlfriend of her ex-husband MC Fish, shared her thoughts about marriage and the parts of relationships people choose to show on social media.

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Gbemso had shared a post suggesting that marriage has a sweet side that people often fail to show online, noting that many people only share the difficult moments while keeping the happier parts private.

Her post later led to a comment directed at Anita Joseph, with Gbemso suggesting that the actress is still missing her former husband and also expressing sympathy over the end of their relationship.

Rather than directly addressing the comment, Anita responded with a cryptic message that appeared to focus on people who may judge or mock others without knowing what the future holds.

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“One of the sweetest things God does is that He does not give your mockers the picture of your tomorrow. Shalom,” the actress wrote.

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