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If your man doesn’t pamper you, stress will make you look older than your age- Woman
A Nigerian woman, Joy Chinwenmeri, has sparked conversations online by stating that any man who doesn’t pamper his woman is a red flag.
Sharing her personal experience, Joy revealed that since getting married, she has only washed her husband’s clothes twice. According to her, her husband avoids stressing her so she can focus on growing her business.
She contrasted this with her past relationship, recalling how her ex-fiancé would leave her to wash piles of clothes and a duvet while he relaxed and watched TV.
She wrote: “I have only washed my husband’s clothes once and that’s because I offered to .
He refused vehemently and said “No baby , your fingers would hurt . I will take it to the laundry” …I insisted cos it was just 3 items .
He packs my clothes and his own to the Laundry ,brings them back too
I Dey look at my heap of clothes and I am smiling knowing that he will sort them and take them to the laundry once he comes back from his trip
This evening I remembered that my ex fiancé in 2015 that would tell me to wash bunch of clothes and duvet while he sits down to watch Tv…. Wetin for kee me for that marriage na stress .
I was a fresh graduate who just finished serving and suitors were coming from left right and center
I chose the Oga cos I felt he ticked my boxes . Visiting him against my dad’s wish turned our to be my biggest blessing
I saw first hand who I was going to live with and decided it was a bad idea …
He believed in gender roles and would always say his mother had 8 children and did all the work that why should I complain ?
I am glad I ran as young as I was then
I knew that a man who didn’t consider that a woman should be pampered is a NO
I have done too much domestic work growing up as an ADA and I didn’t want to anymore
Stress makes one look really old ….
I also remember when my husband went in search of a cleaner to clean our house weekly so that I can concentrate on my business
I thought about it and decided it was not a good idea cos we were newly married then . I thanked him for being so thoughtful and sweet
Marriage is team work and if your husband does not like doing his laundry himself or taking it to the laundry people to wash , it will be hard ooo
Imagine washing your own , his own
The children’s own
You also cook ,clean and still do business or go to work , come back tired , cook , clean again and still open leg at night
Haaaaaa , odikwa too stressful
NB ….Please note that this post is not the standard . I am only sharing my own personal experience.
Do what works for you as far as you are happy . 
but remember to rest ooooo
Women need rest . We don’t do well with too much stress .. it disturbs our hormones.”
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In the video, the baby could be seen being carried by his father while the man recording asked the father for the child’s name.
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The father responded, saying: “Ifeanyi”
The man recording the video then explained the child’s age while speaking to viewers.
He could be heard saying: “Hello guys, this baby is not up till 1 year he is 9months, he is so amazing”
The footage prompted different reactions in the comments section, with some viewers expressing concern about the baby and suggesting that his parents should take him to a hospital for medical assessment.
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@treasure_beatz Amazing 9 months baby boy
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Her Dream Was to Become a Mum – Former AFL Star Mark Hutchings Mourns His Wife Who Died Just 2 Days After Giving Birth
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Hutchings shared the heartbreaking news on Instagram, revealing that Hannah died two days after giving birth to their daughter.
In his emotional tribute, the former footballer described Hannah as his “beautiful partner” and said he was struggling to come to terms with the loss.
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He wrote: “It is with deep sadness that I share the sudden loss of my beautiful partner, Hannah ❤️💔
2 days following the birth of our daughter, Sofia.
I am shattered.
Her dream was to become a Mum, so it’s been incredibly difficult to take.
Thank you for all of your messages of support, I can’t always reply to them all but I do appreciate them.
Sofia and I love you and will miss you very much Hannah ❤️💔”
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You Are Pregnant – People React After Grand P’s Girlfriend Shares Photos From Her Hospital Bed
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Mariame revealed that she had been feeling unwell and had undergone surgery. According to her, she is now feeling better and recovering from the procedure.
Following her post, Grand P took to the comments section to wish her a quick recovery while making a playful remark that caught the attention of social media users.
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The singer joked that he hoped her hospital visit was not for what he was thinking, appearing to suggest pregnancy.
Mariame has not indicated that she is pregnant, and Grand P’s comment appeared to be made in jest.
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After 35 Years Apart – Emotional Moment Man Reunites With His Father After Being Lost for Decades
The emotional moment was shared by a family member, Ibuomozi Bigi, who revealed that the reunion took place on Saturday, September 19, 2026.
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Sharing the news online, he wrote:
“A family’s celebration of the Return of a lost Son.
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My older brother’s son who was given to another man 35 years ago has been brought back to the Bigi family yesterday being 19 September 2026, a replica of his father; and today the young man was presented to the Mozi Dynasty in Olobiri Community today being 20th September, 2026 just minutes ago.
I’m overwhelmed with joy over this particular event, and just returning from the village.
Na God run this one”
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The incident reportedly took place on Thursday, with both individuals receiving 100 strokes of the cane as punishment under Aceh’s Islamic regulations.
Aceh is the only province in Indonesia that formally implements Islamic criminal law, which includes regulations covering relationships and sexual conduct.
Photos from the punishment showed the woman being caned in public as officials carried out the sentence.
Her male partner was also seen receiving the punishment, with photographs showing him wincing as the cane struck him.
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As Long as I’m Infected by Someone Who Looks Like You, I Won’t Mind Being Infected – Men Reacts as Woman Shares Photo Holding HIV Medication and Reminds People That HIV Has No Look
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In the post, Carolina reminded her followers that HIV cannot be identified simply by looking at someone.
She wrote:
“Friendly reminder: HIV does not have a look”
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A lady has warned men to hustle as she lists sum of money she would be asking her boyfriend.
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She stated that when she is in a relationship, her boyfriend should be prepared for her to ask for money, and the amount she would request would range from N200,000 to N500,000.
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Kenyan Man Calls for Investigation as Video Shows Three Men Forcing Woman Onto a Motorbike to Return to Her Abusive Husband
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The incident was shared by an X user identified as HassanMcOjwang, who called on Kenya’s Directorate of Criminal Investigations (DCI) and other authorities to intervene.
According to him, the woman had left her home because of alleged physical abuse from her husband and was later traced and forced to return to him.
Sharing the video on X, HassanMcOjwang tagged the DCI Kenya, National Police Service and other government officials while questioning why women continue to face such treatment.
He captioned the post:: “Hello DCI
@DCI_Kenya
@NPSOfficial_KE
@kipmurkomen
@ray_omollo why do women still get subjected to this harmful unacceptable gender abuse in Kenya 🤔🤔🤔🤔. These three man were captured yesterday forcing this lady to board a motorbike allegedly to go back to her toxic husband who has been beating her all the time🤔🤔🤔😭😭😭😭😭. The lady ran to her home only for the husband to go there and bribe her dad and the results is all of yjem now forcing her to go back to the husband. Where is humanity? These man MUST be dealt with harshly 😠😠😠”
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Hello DCI @DCI_Kenya @NPSOfficial_KE @kipmurkomen @ray_omollo why do women still get subjected to this harmful unacceptable gender abuse in Kenya 🤔🤔🤔🤔. These three man were captured yesterday forcing this lady to board a motorbike allegedly to go back to her toxic husband who… pic.twitter.com/X6XwcD9r6n
— JaHomaBay (@HassanMcOjwang) September 14, 2026
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The Shop Owner Went to Ayelala Shrine and Vowed to Swear — Lady Laments After Millions of Naira Worth of Wigs Were Stolen From Her Shop
According to the narrator in the TikTok video, the woman is a hairdresser who runs her own business and has several workers.
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The narrator said the woman’s shop was reportedly robbed, with the thieves making away with wigs and weavons said to be worth millions of naira.
Following the incident, the hairdresser reportedly vowed to recover her missing goods and find out who was behind the theft.
She was also said to have given the person responsible seven days to return the stolen wigs and hair extensions, after which the matter would be taken further according to the traditional practice she had invoked.
The video later showed a group of Ayelala people arriving at the woman’s shop carriyng sacrifices.
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@eunice.omoruyi1 The full story watch and share so that others will know
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In a post shared on X, Dora revealed that it was her first time getting close to marriage, as her partner had returned from China and the couple had already taken steps towards their wedding.
Dora said the unexpected loss left her deeply shaken and affected her ability to think clearly.
She also recalled how some people told her to be grateful that she did not eventually become a young widow, a comment she found insensitive because she had lost someone she loved.
She wrote:
“Sometimes I wish life will be more kinder to us . The first time I almost got married . My guy came back from china . We did medical test and met families. then he fell sick and we lost him . Omo!!! His death really shook me .i couldn’t think straight . Some people said be thankful you didn’t end up as a young widow , excuse you !! That was someone’s son. I stayed away from relationships for a while”
