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I Married a man of God that Lured me to borrow money to pay my own Dowry myself
Emma shared her heartbreaking experience of marrying a pastor who turned out to be a liar and a cheater.
She recounted wit Tuko how she met him in 2021, and he became her first love and the first man she had ever been with.
Emma explained that she believed marrying a man of God would ensure a faithful and loving relationship, but unfortunately, this was not the case.
“For me I used to believe If someone loves God if someone fears God they are the right person to marry because if they fear God there is somethings they will not do to me as a wife Surprisingly it ended up being something else all together.” She said in a part
Narrating on their first meet up, she shared: “In our first meet up it was quite interesting he talked to me about his background and I also shared about myself to him what i have been going through and how my life has been and at some point, I actually started crying he was there pampering me to be okay and he is like I’ll be praying for you so the impression he gave me he gave me like was a responsible person someone with a great character because when someone speaks the way they always say that actions speaks louder than words but for me I never concertrated with the time of lots of actions I Concentrated with the words
“He left and now it became a habit whereby we could meet up and talk and share we could also travel all the way to come to Katanga we just go somewhere and we have a cofee.
How things became rough, she said: “The way it all started was when i started paying the bills earlier and then we were getting to know wach other and I started paying the bills in a point whereby we could meet up I pay for coffee dates sometimes maybe if i have some money, we could go somewhere out and a nice place talk, share and I could find myself paying and then we became friends for almost 7months now when we started dating all along there was a time we were going somewhere and actually at this point I invited him to our place for a worship experience and I organized the worship experience in our church and here we went and we could go for pratice and everything so for me i called some ministers some friends i put them together and we formed a band so when we formed the band he was the one who the main minister could come and we do some pratice everything for overnight and then everything was interesting until the did day and i was so happy because i saw what God has done and this was thr first worship experience i have ever personally organized and i could see the way people came friends came from different church and everying and he was the one who was ministering so when i was welcoming for him to come minister this is the first time i ever told anyone like I shared with my friends because they were there these one is my fiancee and i was like “Hi guys for blessing you here i want to welcome this person and this person is my fiancée” so everyone could clap they were so much excited because no one saw it coming and everyone was like oh wow that is amazing and when i welcomed him to the pulpit I remember he said thank you so much the woman of God…….. I introduced him as my fiancee but himself he inroduced me as a woman of God but at that time he didnt click in and then when i sit back and I looked that was a very big red flag but for me it wasn’t a big deal at the end of the day I’m a woman of God you know then this day after the worship experince everyone departed to their place.
“So after like 3days my pastor called me at the time I was worshipping at Katanga and she told me Emma pls come to my office I need to see you so I went around in the afternoon hours, we met and we started talking and surprisingly she seemed to be so much interested in my fiancee she was like tell me introduce your fiancee to her and I was like oh he is a pastor he is a man of God he is a minister and she is like okay anything else and i was like there is nothing much to say and she asked how long have you guys dated and that time we have dated almost 4months and she asked me how long have you known him and I was like “7months” and she was like okay Im going to tell you something i don’t know how you are going to react to it and the pastor said when your husband ow ehen your finacee when he was ministering he seems to have spirit of immorality and then I was like do the pastor even know what she was saying that my man is a man of God he cannot do such a thing and then this time i have never found him with any scandal and then she shows me the message all along im calling my fiancee they have been talking and then she was like let me put you the voice note to hear for yourself and I was like okay and she put the voice note and the voice note was “Hi girl I was quite excited when i saw you when i saw you with that dress you look cute when i saw you i actually lacked breathe” and then so for me i was like okay and then the next voice note he talked about how he wants to help her with music he is telling her how the cuter voice she has how he loved her voice but later told her that there is something he would love them to do together and then she was like i would work on your codes and then there is another thing that i want to talk to you about and then he is like I would love us to meet up and we talk about it so for her she was like okay what is it that you want us to talk about that we cannot talk about it now then he is like I just want to meet you and talk about it.
How she felt about the last voice note, she added saying: “The last voice note made me cry and this voice note the lady was like she texted him why are you behaving in such a way and then you have a fiancee or whatever i heard you being introduced is it something else in his replies, he firstly laughed and he was like I don’t know about that but me what I know is that i (He) am single so after 4 days when i called him Im like can we meet up and to him it was a normal coffee the way we always hangout and I asked if… if i can ask him a question saying “Have you ever told a lady that you are single” he was like no babe i cannot do that you know i don’t have such characters that is not my behaviour and i’m like okay have you ever told anyone or have you ever flattered with a woman telling her how interested in her how you want you and her to go out he was like no i have never done that me i’m a man of God and there is somethings that i cannot do and i was like okay, I took my phone I put the voice note and i started the one he is saying he his single i remembered his face dropped down he was just looking down so i’m like why are you looking down so look at me the way you are looking at me I put the voice note and i was like what was that …………
“This guy was a narcissist the biggest narcissist in the world he could not lack something to say then he started telling me oh she was interested in me then i’m like interested in you and did you know that i read all the chats……. and then i got mad, i stood up and boarded a boda boda (Tricycle) and i left home and then after like a week that time i blocked him everywhere and I’m like we are done then after a week his best-friend reached out and was like can we meet up and i was like what for he is like i haven’t done you wrong so there is nothing wrong with me and he was like your fiancée is the one that you have a problem with when we meet up, he told me that he has never seen my fiancee do such a thing saying that these guy has no characters and I don’t know what happened that day…… he was like he is not that way he is a man of God maybe this time he was tempted so when we finsihed talking, I left and i remembered him saying before i left that I should meet my fiancee talk things out and everything and i was like what for and he was like no please meet him just hear him out
“After that, I eventually met him, he talked and he was telling me how sorry he is and this time was the first time he had ever bought me gifts and I ended up forgiving him and we came back together
“After dating for 8months, he called me and said can i ask you something and i was okay then he said “Will you marry me” and i was like why ask me if i marry you why not we take sometime like right now i want you to marry me so i insisted and said “Yes i would marry you” and honestly the proposal for me was quite exciting and i was like this is amazing yes it didnt come with a ring but i was happy and then i was like what’s up and he was like then there is some money that i have gotten I have 150k ksh and i was thinking we can go home and go and take the dowry home so for me i was like 150?? but then there was some money that i was going to get then from there my relatives, my friends they will chip in and have almost 300k+ and we eventually went to our home I met my dad, my aunts they have cooked and the introduction begins and he is like i have come with these guys because then there is a guy who presented him and was talking and when it reached the point for him to talk he is like dad mom and he is like I have loved your girl and i want to marry her I want to start a family with her so my aunts were very excited because they heard a wedding but there is something interesting coming up he shared with him about that and my dad was just nodding his head saying nothing much at the end he finishes up saying please you can come with your people and then we can go from here because we cannot talk much with your guys…….. there is an age my dad wanted and now that he came with his friends so they talked everything went well and when they left, my dad called me and he asked me again are you sure and im like why are you asking me if i’m sure if im not sure i have never brought any other guy at home this is the first one so here we are they left and i came back to Nairobi and at that time we went to their place we went his mother his sisters and his brothers……….
Emma revealed that she consulted her father about the dowry, suggesting 100,000 Kenyan shillings. Her father was surprised by this suggestion and questioned her choice.
Despite her father’s reservations, Emma told her fiancé that 100,000 shillings was acceptable to her family. Her fiancé was overjoyed, unaware that Emma had been deceived into paying the dowry herself.
Furthermore, Emma not only financed the wedding but also had to borrow money to cover the expenses.
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A tragic incident occurred during a St. Patrick’s Day celebration near the University of Pittsburgh, where a house roof collapsed, injuring more than a dozen students.
In a video shared by X user Ricky Reports, a large crowd could be seen partying—some standing on the roof while others enjoyed themselves on the ground—when the roof suddenly gave way, crashing down on those underneath.
According to reports, at least 16 people were injured and taken to a local hospital for treatment. Three victims are in serious condition, while 13 others sustained minor injuries.
CBS News reported that Pittsburgh Public Information Officer Emily Bournes confirmed that hundreds of University of Pittsburgh students were at the scene when the collapse occurred. Fortunately, no one died in the scene.
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BREAKING: Multiple people were injured when the roof of a porch collapsed at a home on Semple Street in Oakland, just off the University of Pittsburgh campus.
— Ricky Sayer (@RickyReports) March 14, 2025
Video shared with @KDKA shows people partying atop the roof as it collapsed. pic.twitter.com/nuKUeaDpff
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You Wasted My Time, I Shouldn’t Have Ignored the Signs – Burna Boy’s Ex, Chloe Bailey, Shades Him After He Fails to Buy Her Promised Lamborghini
American singer Chlöe Bailey has sparked buzz on social media once again after releasing a song that appears to throw shade at her ex-boyfriend, Burna Boy.
In a track from 11:11 (Deluxe), she reflects on how she wasted her time in the relationship and the betrayal she experienced.
This comes after Chlöe revealed that Burna Boy once promised her a Lamborghini but never followed through.
She was heard saing: “Don’t know about them other girls you used to deal with, but I don’t need to buy a man to give me love to lay with, no,”
“You ain’t even worth it, got me out here looking crazy. I shouldn’t have ignored all the signs. You wasted all my time, know you gonna miss all of the times that we had shared.”
Reacting, one user wrote: “Hope no be for Odogwu? Lol”
Another wrote: “Chaii stop crying, it’s well u should have believe all the signs even from his hair have you seen anyone carry drued with good mindset””
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A heartbreaking crime has shocked Brazil after a 16-year-old pregnant girl, Emilly Azevedo Sena, was brutally murdered by a woman who stole her unborn baby.
The suspect, 25-year-old Nataly Helen Martins Pereira, lured Emilly to her home under false pretenses before attacking her, cutting open her abdomen, and taking the baby.
Emilly, who was nine months pregnant, was reported missing before authorities discovered her body buried in the backyard of Nataly’s home in Cuiabá, Brazil. Her abdomen had been sliced open, and her baby was gone.
Shortly after the discovery, police arrested Nataly and her husband, 28-year-old chef Christian Albino Cebalho de Arruda, at a hospital. The couple was attempting to register the newborn as their own.
Investigations revealed that Nataly had deceived Emilly through WhatsApp, claiming she had baby clothes to donate. When Emilly wanted to bring her husband along, Nataly refused, telling her, “Your husband can come, but I won’t let him in because I’m married.”
According to Emilly’s mother, Nataly had pretended to be pregnant herself and even transferred money to Emilly for transportation to her house. “She said she had received a lot of baby clothes and wanted to donate some to Emilly. She sent her the location and even transferred money via Pix so my daughter could go there to pick them up. But she went and never came back,” her devastated mother shared.
When Nataly was arrested, hospital tests confirmed she had never been pregnant. Her husband, Christian, claimed he had believed she was expecting and genuinely thought the newborn was theirs.
Before their arrest, Christian had already posted on Facebook, announcing the baby’s arrival with the caption, “Be well, my daughter.”
Authorities initially arrested Pereira’s husband, her brother-in-law, and another man. However, all three were released on Friday morning after Pereira admitted she acted alone.
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The First Time I Moved to Canada, I Couldn’t Find My Favorite Food—So I Relocated Back to Nigeria— Lady
A Nigerian lady, Mizh Joyce, has revealed why she decided to leave Canada and return to Nigeria, citing difficulties in adapting to the lifestyle abroad.
In a post shared on her Facebook page, Mizh Joyce explained that when she arrived in Canada, she struggled to find her favorite food, “Fufu”, making it hard for her to enjoy meals. Additionally, she found it difficult to cope with the extreme cold weather.
Faced with these challenges, she ultimately decided that life in Canada wasn’t for her and chose to return to Nigeria, where she felt more comfortable.
She wrote: “Omo the first time i traveled to Canada eeh! Cold nearly finish me there , as i dey stay there i no even see fufu chop for there, my dear i pick race enter Nigerian back 🥺🥺who does that ? No be me go stay one week with out eating fufu oo plus cold wey dey that side 😩😩😩😩.
Omo na wetin make me enter Nigerian back oo, no place like home 🏠🏡🏡❤️❤️❤️♥️❤️💯”
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He’s Trying to Cajole Me After Years of Suffering – Asake Finally Responds to His Father’s Stroke
Hours after the father of popular Nigerian singer Asake took to social media to seek financial assistance, the singer has finally reacted to the viral video.
It can be recalled that Fatai Odunsi, Asake’s father, revealed that he has been battling a stroke since 2022. He also claimed that he has been unable to reach his son since the illness began, alleging that Asake has ignored his calls and refused to respond.
“I am the father to Asake who is singing. The last time I saw him was when this thing happened to me on March 29, 2022.
“He does not pick up my calls anytime I call him. Now I have become tired. I have been looking for this my brother and I recently met with him,” he said in the viral video
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In a video he shared, the singer was seen singing and stating that one cannot please everyone, but whatever he does, he does it for God.
Asake also hinted that his father was trying to cajole him, adding that he has struggled and suffered for years.
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@asakelife ♬ original sound – Asake
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Michelle Obama Spotted for the First Time in Months After Skipping Trump’s Inauguration Ceremony
Months after skipping the inauguration ceremony, former First Lady Michelle Obama has made her first public appearance at the live taping of their new podcast, “IMO,” at SXSW in Austin, Texas, alongside her brother.
At the event, Michelle Obama was spotted wearing orange pants, a black tank top, and boot heels, paired with her signature bohemian braids.
Her last public appearance was in December 2024, when she was a guest on The Jennifer Hudson Show.
Notably, on January 20, 2025, she chose not to attend the inauguration of re-elected President Donald Trump.
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Popular Kenyan TikToker Liz Kamene, also known as Icon Ke, has tragically passed away.
According to a Facebook user, Hon. Nedri, she died after being hit by a car while some thugs snatched her phone.
The post reads: “The Ghost’s deep and sincere condolences to Kenyan Tiktokers for the sudden demise of their own, POPULAR Liz Kamene popularly known as Icon KE. Sources say Liz’s life was cut short after being involved in a grisly road accident after some thugs snatched her phone.
“Am been requested to advise you to keep off looking at her photos of the accident.
“May she rest in peace….
“Kifo nayo ni kama haina adabu….if you know you know..”
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If You Want a Baby This Year, Today Is the Last Day to Knack – Jude Ighalo’s Ex-Wife, Sonia, Advises Married Couples
Jude Ighalo’s ex-wife, Sonia, has taken to social media to share advice for those planning to have a baby this year.
In a playful post, she wrote:
“If you say you still want born pikin this year 2025 na today be the last day o………. I just say make i remind una”
Her message appears to be a lighthearted reminder that March 11 marks the last day to conceive for a baby to be born within the year 2025.
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It Is Only God That Can Prove I am his son ‘Jesus’ – Pastor Laments After Nearly Being Crucified by Church Members
A man named Yesu Wa Tongaren, who claims to be Jesus Christ, has revealed that he “died and rose again,” saying he was sent by God to teach people about the harsh and merciless nature of the world. He also warned that calamities are coming and that no one will be spared.
In an interview with Afrimax, Yesu Wa Tongaren stated that he had previously told his church members that one day he would receive visitors from Rwanda. He claimed that when that moment arrived, it would serve as confirmation that he is the true Jesus Christ.
“I will go to America, France, and other places in Europe. Even going to Israel, where Jesus lived, is still me going there because I am him. People struggle to understand this because spiritual matters differ greatly from physical ones. They are still very much in the flesh,” he said.
When asked how he managed to escape after his followers attempted to crucify him, he responded: “It is God alone that can reveal to them and enable them to know that i am the son of God my legal defender was also there …… God used him and it was all God’s will it pleased me because it went as God has planned he told them if i was not Jesus then they should bring their Jesus and show him but they could not they realized that I could not deny the father
Regarding those who wanted to crucify him and why people struggle to understand him, he said: “Last year there were people who wanted to cricufy me the same evil spiritis that existed in those who committed atrocities two thoussand years ago when i was in judea”
He also spoke about people’s fascination with him, saying: “Water or wine that people talk about they have it here on earth and drink it alot which is why people love us and call out to jesus whenever they see us it is a wonderful thing that God has done”
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A Ukrainian man, Oleksandr Cherednichenko, was found dead after taking his own life, reportedly due to loneliness.
Oleksandr had moved to the UK in 2022 after fleeing the Russian invasion of Ukraine. Since then, he had been working as a postman.
According to a statement from Police Constable John Morris of Durham Constabulary, emergency services—including the ambulance service and the County Durham and Darlington Fire and Rescue Service—responded to the scene after receiving a call.
When they arrived, they discovered a note inside his vehicle with the word “Loneliness” written on it, indicating that isolation was the main reason for his decision.
During the hearing, Oleksandr’s mother, Ms. Sedokova, said: “My son led a healthy lifestyle, and he had planned to live a long life. He was learning English, and wanted a British citizenship, and he also liked his job and was happy with his new car. The last communication I had with him was on November 7 at 17.45pm. After that, my subsequent messages were left unread.”