I may be called old fashion but I check my children Virginity- Woman

A Nigerian lawyer, wife of a pastor, and mother has sparked conversations on social media after advising mothers to regularly check their daughters’ virginity.

In a lengthy post shared on Facebook, she admitted that her stance might seem old-fashioned to some, but emphasized that she believes in playing an active role in her children’s lives, particularly in guiding their moral upbringing.

She further explained that she consistently teaches her children to honor their bodies as a form of purity to God, rather than viewing it as something solely for their future spouses.

She wrote: “HOW I CHECK MY DAUGHTERS VIRGINÎTY.

You can call me old fashioned, outdated or whatever but I believe in purity & I also believe that I have a role to play in my children’s life (both male & female) to ensure that they continue to keep themselves. See, I tell them to keep their bodies pure not for their husbands but for GOD’S glory. I lost my battle against séxual immoralîty many years ago because I became very comfortable with one brother like that who almost married me. I gave in because I felt, after all we were going to be married. He had me & yes, I ended up with someone else. If all my focus was on GOD during my purity journey before marriage, I would have stayed strong till the end.

Now this is my method for checking virginîty as passed on to me by my own mother;

1) Let the child lie down flat on the ground.

2) With her p**nts off, she should spread out her legs very well.

3) Pin your two f****ngers on the two edges of her vàgina.

4) Stretch it slightly.

5) Check for it’s openness & depth, it will have a lot to reveal about such child’s state of chastîty.

Please, mothers don’t go crazy with your child in case you get a negative result. Be soft and get to hear from her how she became so loosed. The things you will hear will greatly shock you. One of my daughters (6 years old) said;

“Mummy, na my brother and him two friends dey f***çk f***********ck me every time!”

This generation is certainly cràzy, there are predators everywhere, the girl child must be seriously protected. Mothers, please let’s watch & pray!