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We get stares in public till the extent people question my mom on why I would marry a man 7yrs older than me
Lungile Hongana recently opened up about the judgment she faced for dating an older man who is seven years her senior.
She shared that when her now-husband first showed interest in her, she was already in a relationship and didn’t pay him much attention. It wasn’t until later, while she was still in school, that she decided to give him a chance.
Lungile also recounted the criticism and rumors she and her mother faced during the early days of her relationship. Some people went as far as accusing her husband of being a married man while they were still dating.During her narration with Breifly Tv life on how she met her husband, Lonwabo who was married, she said: “I met Lonwabo the first time i was going for Job Interview from the minutes he saw he he knew that he is going to marry me but i don’t believed that, he made the move i didn’t give him the time of day because at that time i was still in a relationship but then after a while i was like okay this guy is not bad and i started answering his DMs and actually investing in the conversation and then in 2020 it then became official.
Her first impression about him??, she said: “I didn’t really like him he was kind of mean but i realized that he had to be stern cause he is a boss and then when i got to talk to him, he was like he’s so sweet, shockingly sweet he is a bear and a literal teddy bear.
What she likes about him, she said: “He is actually a giving person and i think it sterns from him being muslim i don’t want to say it is wrong but you are 10times blessed the more you give it is amazing to just see him like randomly someone is asking for something and he will be like let’s go in the store and he’ll like just vibrate milk the one where I’m like wow you are a gem he is a stern provider he beliefs that it is my responsibility to make sure that everything in my home is good and my wife is happy.
What she treasures more about her relationship with her husband, she added saying: “what i treasure about our relationship is our honesty and communication this is the first man that I have been able to be my entire self with and be honest and even have uncomfortable conversation but know that however uncomfortable it is it’s supposed be heard and there is no i’m going to hold it against you in the future or i’m going to judge you or anything like that.
Their age gap??, she said: “Our age gap is 7yrs but i think 7yrs is ok as long as you two consenting adults.
Does the age gap have any effect on their relationship??, she said: “I think when we were starting we had concerns cause i was still in school and he has really established his life so is it safe to go down that root, i’m going to school Im not stable, I don’t have money i still live with my parents and some weekends was like i cant come when i was supposed to come because of my mom and on my side i had insecurities of why me im just a kid in school trying to figure out my life and once i graduate im still here to figure out my life also i believe i need money not just on the guy side but also on the girl’s side my love language is gifting i love to spoil my partner.
“During our relationship honestly i had nothing to contribute, he was okay he was like i would figure it out for the both of us luckily we weren’t living together everything i go to him he would be taking us out he would be paying for everything dates and everything but when it started getting tougher was when we moved in together because i can’t expect him to buy like everything in this household take care of me i pushed so hard to get a job even if i hated what i was doing at that time even now he does almost everything but i still push to help with groceries and whatever else i can help with.
“And i think it is very important to work, have something for yourself and also very important to bring something to the table to help because it does weigh heavy on your partner.
How she feels with her partner in public when people stare, she added saying: “It doesn’t help that i have a baby face it doesn’t help that he kind of doesn’t look like his age so yes there is age gap but i look younger than 26…….we have had not just the stares we have had actual people be like this is odd it doesn’t help that he was driving the car that he was driving at the time that he picked me up in school and people be like hmm but in malls it was so evident because people stay and like okay at the end of the day you are strangers we don’t owe you anything some were like ah it is not going to last they even said he is gonna be done with me we moved along but in terms us that is the last thing that could have affected us together a lot of things were said about me and my mom’s parenting style like your mom just makes you do that boys come and fetch you men come and fetch you at home my mom actually did cut a lot of people in my hood even her allowing me to actually date this boy she has reached a point she realized that she was a good kid she trusted me and she saw int he way my husband was treating me she was like i’m gonna let this happen i’m gonna let my child date.”
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In the video, the baby could be seen being carried by his father while the man recording asked the father for the child’s name.
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The father responded, saying: “Ifeanyi”
The man recording the video then explained the child’s age while speaking to viewers.
He could be heard saying: “Hello guys, this baby is not up till 1 year he is 9months, he is so amazing”
The footage prompted different reactions in the comments section, with some viewers expressing concern about the baby and suggesting that his parents should take him to a hospital for medical assessment.
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@treasure_beatz Amazing 9 months baby boy
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Her Dream Was to Become a Mum – Former AFL Star Mark Hutchings Mourns His Wife Who Died Just 2 Days After Giving Birth
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Hutchings shared the heartbreaking news on Instagram, revealing that Hannah died two days after giving birth to their daughter.
In his emotional tribute, the former footballer described Hannah as his “beautiful partner” and said he was struggling to come to terms with the loss.
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He wrote: “It is with deep sadness that I share the sudden loss of my beautiful partner, Hannah ❤️💔
2 days following the birth of our daughter, Sofia.
I am shattered.
Her dream was to become a Mum, so it’s been incredibly difficult to take.
Thank you for all of your messages of support, I can’t always reply to them all but I do appreciate them.
Sofia and I love you and will miss you very much Hannah ❤️💔”
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You Are Pregnant – People React After Grand P’s Girlfriend Shares Photos From Her Hospital Bed
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Mariame revealed that she had been feeling unwell and had undergone surgery. According to her, she is now feeling better and recovering from the procedure.
Following her post, Grand P took to the comments section to wish her a quick recovery while making a playful remark that caught the attention of social media users.
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The singer joked that he hoped her hospital visit was not for what he was thinking, appearing to suggest pregnancy.
Mariame has not indicated that she is pregnant, and Grand P’s comment appeared to be made in jest.
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After 35 Years Apart – Emotional Moment Man Reunites With His Father After Being Lost for Decades
The emotional moment was shared by a family member, Ibuomozi Bigi, who revealed that the reunion took place on Saturday, September 19, 2026.
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Sharing the news online, he wrote:
“A family’s celebration of the Return of a lost Son.
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My older brother’s son who was given to another man 35 years ago has been brought back to the Bigi family yesterday being 19 September 2026, a replica of his father; and today the young man was presented to the Mozi Dynasty in Olobiri Community today being 20th September, 2026 just minutes ago.
I’m overwhelmed with joy over this particular event, and just returning from the village.
Na God run this one”
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The incident reportedly took place on Thursday, with both individuals receiving 100 strokes of the cane as punishment under Aceh’s Islamic regulations.
Aceh is the only province in Indonesia that formally implements Islamic criminal law, which includes regulations covering relationships and sexual conduct.
Photos from the punishment showed the woman being caned in public as officials carried out the sentence.
Her male partner was also seen receiving the punishment, with photographs showing him wincing as the cane struck him.
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As Long as I’m Infected by Someone Who Looks Like You, I Won’t Mind Being Infected – Men Reacts as Woman Shares Photo Holding HIV Medication and Reminds People That HIV Has No Look
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In the post, Carolina reminded her followers that HIV cannot be identified simply by looking at someone.
She wrote:
“Friendly reminder: HIV does not have a look”
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A lady has warned men to hustle as she lists sum of money she would be asking her boyfriend.
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She stated that when she is in a relationship, her boyfriend should be prepared for her to ask for money, and the amount she would request would range from N200,000 to N500,000.
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Kenyan Man Calls for Investigation as Video Shows Three Men Forcing Woman Onto a Motorbike to Return to Her Abusive Husband
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The incident was shared by an X user identified as HassanMcOjwang, who called on Kenya’s Directorate of Criminal Investigations (DCI) and other authorities to intervene.
According to him, the woman had left her home because of alleged physical abuse from her husband and was later traced and forced to return to him.
Sharing the video on X, HassanMcOjwang tagged the DCI Kenya, National Police Service and other government officials while questioning why women continue to face such treatment.
He captioned the post:: “Hello DCI
@DCI_Kenya
@NPSOfficial_KE
@kipmurkomen
@ray_omollo why do women still get subjected to this harmful unacceptable gender abuse in Kenya 🤔🤔🤔🤔. These three man were captured yesterday forcing this lady to board a motorbike allegedly to go back to her toxic husband who has been beating her all the time🤔🤔🤔😭😭😭😭😭. The lady ran to her home only for the husband to go there and bribe her dad and the results is all of yjem now forcing her to go back to the husband. Where is humanity? These man MUST be dealt with harshly 😠😠😠”
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Hello DCI @DCI_Kenya @NPSOfficial_KE @kipmurkomen @ray_omollo why do women still get subjected to this harmful unacceptable gender abuse in Kenya 🤔🤔🤔🤔. These three man were captured yesterday forcing this lady to board a motorbike allegedly to go back to her toxic husband who… pic.twitter.com/X6XwcD9r6n
— JaHomaBay (@HassanMcOjwang) September 14, 2026
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The Shop Owner Went to Ayelala Shrine and Vowed to Swear — Lady Laments After Millions of Naira Worth of Wigs Were Stolen From Her Shop
According to the narrator in the TikTok video, the woman is a hairdresser who runs her own business and has several workers.
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The narrator said the woman’s shop was reportedly robbed, with the thieves making away with wigs and weavons said to be worth millions of naira.
Following the incident, the hairdresser reportedly vowed to recover her missing goods and find out who was behind the theft.
She was also said to have given the person responsible seven days to return the stolen wigs and hair extensions, after which the matter would be taken further according to the traditional practice she had invoked.
The video later showed a group of Ayelala people arriving at the woman’s shop carriyng sacrifices.
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In a post shared on X, Dora revealed that it was her first time getting close to marriage, as her partner had returned from China and the couple had already taken steps towards their wedding.
Dora said the unexpected loss left her deeply shaken and affected her ability to think clearly.
She also recalled how some people told her to be grateful that she did not eventually become a young widow, a comment she found insensitive because she had lost someone she loved.
She wrote:
“Sometimes I wish life will be more kinder to us . The first time I almost got married . My guy came back from china . We did medical test and met families. then he fell sick and we lost him . Omo!!! His death really shook me .i couldn’t think straight . Some people said be thankful you didn’t end up as a young widow , excuse you !! That was someone’s son. I stayed away from relationships for a while”
