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I was pregnant not knowing that he had infected me with HIV- Woman shares experience with Ex-boyfriend
Zandile Simanline, a young woman, has shared her heartbreaking story of contracting HIV after a relationship with her ex-boyfriend. She was just 17 years old when she fell pregnant and unknowingly contracted the virus.
Zandile revealed in an interview with Briefly TV that she made the mistake of not using protection. Unfortunately, her secret didn’t stay hidden for long. After confiding in a family member, the news spread widely when she shared her experience on Facebook.
How she found out she was HIV Positive, she said: “So i decided let me go and do test this is months later like this is august now 2011 and the results came back positive those two lines was probably the most devastating moments in my life I think there was just a complete numbness I walked home cried a river isolated in the room for a good week you know when it comes to support and family and HIV I don’t think we have mastered how this support looks like as families especially as black families.
“First and foremost sex is absurd we shouldn’t be talking about sex you can imagine we never really had the sex conversation so now we must discuss hiv with you that’s alot i think they themselves never knew how to support me.
She revealed that she grew up in challenging circumstances, raised by a single mother of 13 children, with her father absent during the times they needed him most.
Speaking about her breakup, she explained that it happened after an incident where she had gone to her boyfriend’s place with a friend after attending a party. She admitted being drunk and couldn’t recall if they had unprotected sex. Her boyfriend insisted she sleep on the couch instead of his bed, which added to the tension between them.
Adding, she said: “I honestly don’t remember that having a conversation about the transition from using protection to not using protection I don’t think that conversation happened, i think i was told because i don’t also remember having a much safe in anything during that period of his existence in my life even when we had unprotected sex, i know i was uncomfortable about it and I did pick up that HIV and pregnancy were possible risks if one was exposed to unprotected sex growing up i have lost and seen family going through being HIV positive and eventually losing their lives It was a complete different time then i can almost say i was bullied into it and never had a choice or a voice to opt out of not using a condom, It has been about 2 weeks of not seeing him i started feeling Ill i think i had a bit of nausea and my period was no were to be seen but i was also in denial about it because in any other situation you always think it would never happen to me Im 17 pregnancy what no if i’m pregnant i would definitely be proving this people right regardless from the fact that I had unprotected sex it was still far from me…… So i found out i’m pregnant 2 weeks later then i did the test in a bathroom in a restaurant in town i remember and it came out two lines this is now july I sent him a message or called him i dont remember hey listen im pregnant his response was go back to the man that you have been having sex with in the past 2 weeks a very confusing time and response.
“I think It dawned upon him that he could really be the father, he rang me the following day to say can we meet and he is going to take me to an actual clinic hospital and we did that test and we parted way and he said he would call me when the results came out i think there were not immediate he rang me the following day and said let’s go get the results and the results came back and they said 6 weeks and i said okay what must happen now he said what do you think must happen?? So we agreed that i was going to terminate the pregnancy travel to a certain hospital he said i must find out how much it is so i did my homework and he said he would drop off the money so the last time i ever saw him was when he came to drop off that brown envelope that had that amount of money he never came back to ask if i had went through with it and if i was successful he never followed up and to be honest i didn’t want to terminate but i had to so what happened just before the termination the sister and i decided lets go and trip away and she was going through stuff and i was going through stuff.
“A day or two after in a preparation to proceed with the termination I started getting cramps and these cramps were so bad that i could swore i was in labor i said i need to see a doctor and when i got to the doctor, the doctor did say that I was getting a miscarriage and I was admitted there and then i was sort of have a good riddens and as much as things were no longer the same at school and things were no longer the same in my life.
Sharing her HIV Status on facebook, she said she did this to change other ladies living with this virus to be positive
She said in a part : “So i disclosed my HIV Status on facebook and said my name is Zand and i am HIV Positive and i said this because i would like to change the next’s girl life “
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In the video, the baby could be seen being carried by his father while the man recording asked the father for the child’s name.
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The father responded, saying: “Ifeanyi”
The man recording the video then explained the child’s age while speaking to viewers.
He could be heard saying: “Hello guys, this baby is not up till 1 year he is 9months, he is so amazing”
The footage prompted different reactions in the comments section, with some viewers expressing concern about the baby and suggesting that his parents should take him to a hospital for medical assessment.
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@treasure_beatz Amazing 9 months baby boy
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Her Dream Was to Become a Mum – Former AFL Star Mark Hutchings Mourns His Wife Who Died Just 2 Days After Giving Birth
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Hutchings shared the heartbreaking news on Instagram, revealing that Hannah died two days after giving birth to their daughter.
In his emotional tribute, the former footballer described Hannah as his “beautiful partner” and said he was struggling to come to terms with the loss.
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He wrote: “It is with deep sadness that I share the sudden loss of my beautiful partner, Hannah ❤️💔
2 days following the birth of our daughter, Sofia.
I am shattered.
Her dream was to become a Mum, so it’s been incredibly difficult to take.
Thank you for all of your messages of support, I can’t always reply to them all but I do appreciate them.
Sofia and I love you and will miss you very much Hannah ❤️💔”
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You Are Pregnant – People React After Grand P’s Girlfriend Shares Photos From Her Hospital Bed
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Mariame revealed that she had been feeling unwell and had undergone surgery. According to her, she is now feeling better and recovering from the procedure.
Following her post, Grand P took to the comments section to wish her a quick recovery while making a playful remark that caught the attention of social media users.
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The singer joked that he hoped her hospital visit was not for what he was thinking, appearing to suggest pregnancy.
Mariame has not indicated that she is pregnant, and Grand P’s comment appeared to be made in jest.
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After 35 Years Apart – Emotional Moment Man Reunites With His Father After Being Lost for Decades
The emotional moment was shared by a family member, Ibuomozi Bigi, who revealed that the reunion took place on Saturday, September 19, 2026.
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Sharing the news online, he wrote:
“A family’s celebration of the Return of a lost Son.
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My older brother’s son who was given to another man 35 years ago has been brought back to the Bigi family yesterday being 19 September 2026, a replica of his father; and today the young man was presented to the Mozi Dynasty in Olobiri Community today being 20th September, 2026 just minutes ago.
I’m overwhelmed with joy over this particular event, and just returning from the village.
Na God run this one”
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The incident reportedly took place on Thursday, with both individuals receiving 100 strokes of the cane as punishment under Aceh’s Islamic regulations.
Aceh is the only province in Indonesia that formally implements Islamic criminal law, which includes regulations covering relationships and sexual conduct.
Photos from the punishment showed the woman being caned in public as officials carried out the sentence.
Her male partner was also seen receiving the punishment, with photographs showing him wincing as the cane struck him.
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As Long as I’m Infected by Someone Who Looks Like You, I Won’t Mind Being Infected – Men Reacts as Woman Shares Photo Holding HIV Medication and Reminds People That HIV Has No Look
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In the post, Carolina reminded her followers that HIV cannot be identified simply by looking at someone.
She wrote:
“Friendly reminder: HIV does not have a look”
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A lady has warned men to hustle as she lists sum of money she would be asking her boyfriend.
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She stated that when she is in a relationship, her boyfriend should be prepared for her to ask for money, and the amount she would request would range from N200,000 to N500,000.
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Kenyan Man Calls for Investigation as Video Shows Three Men Forcing Woman Onto a Motorbike to Return to Her Abusive Husband
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The incident was shared by an X user identified as HassanMcOjwang, who called on Kenya’s Directorate of Criminal Investigations (DCI) and other authorities to intervene.
According to him, the woman had left her home because of alleged physical abuse from her husband and was later traced and forced to return to him.
Sharing the video on X, HassanMcOjwang tagged the DCI Kenya, National Police Service and other government officials while questioning why women continue to face such treatment.
He captioned the post:: “Hello DCI
@DCI_Kenya
@NPSOfficial_KE
@kipmurkomen
@ray_omollo why do women still get subjected to this harmful unacceptable gender abuse in Kenya 🤔🤔🤔🤔. These three man were captured yesterday forcing this lady to board a motorbike allegedly to go back to her toxic husband who has been beating her all the time🤔🤔🤔😭😭😭😭😭. The lady ran to her home only for the husband to go there and bribe her dad and the results is all of yjem now forcing her to go back to the husband. Where is humanity? These man MUST be dealt with harshly 😠😠😠”
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Hello DCI @DCI_Kenya @NPSOfficial_KE @kipmurkomen @ray_omollo why do women still get subjected to this harmful unacceptable gender abuse in Kenya 🤔🤔🤔🤔. These three man were captured yesterday forcing this lady to board a motorbike allegedly to go back to her toxic husband who… pic.twitter.com/X6XwcD9r6n
— JaHomaBay (@HassanMcOjwang) September 14, 2026
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The Shop Owner Went to Ayelala Shrine and Vowed to Swear — Lady Laments After Millions of Naira Worth of Wigs Were Stolen From Her Shop
According to the narrator in the TikTok video, the woman is a hairdresser who runs her own business and has several workers.
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The narrator said the woman’s shop was reportedly robbed, with the thieves making away with wigs and weavons said to be worth millions of naira.
Following the incident, the hairdresser reportedly vowed to recover her missing goods and find out who was behind the theft.
She was also said to have given the person responsible seven days to return the stolen wigs and hair extensions, after which the matter would be taken further according to the traditional practice she had invoked.
The video later showed a group of Ayelala people arriving at the woman’s shop carriyng sacrifices.
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In a post shared on X, Dora revealed that it was her first time getting close to marriage, as her partner had returned from China and the couple had already taken steps towards their wedding.
Dora said the unexpected loss left her deeply shaken and affected her ability to think clearly.
She also recalled how some people told her to be grateful that she did not eventually become a young widow, a comment she found insensitive because she had lost someone she loved.
She wrote:
“Sometimes I wish life will be more kinder to us . The first time I almost got married . My guy came back from china . We did medical test and met families. then he fell sick and we lost him . Omo!!! His death really shook me .i couldn’t think straight . Some people said be thankful you didn’t end up as a young widow , excuse you !! That was someone’s son. I stayed away from relationships for a while”
