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I’m not ashamed of my face, It does not make me look different from others
Leidy Ardila, a 29-year-old woman from Colombia, has shared her experience living with fibrous dysplasia, a rare bone disorder where fibrous tissue replaces normal bone.
In an interview with Truly, Leidy explained that her condition doesn’t make her feel any different from others, nor does it stop her from showing her face openly.
Leidy shared that her health issues began after heart surgery as a baby, with doctors warning her mother that she might never walk again.
By the time she was just three years old, signs of the bone disorder began to appear.
“I was born normal but had a heart murmur,” she explained. “I had to have surgery and the surgery was a complete success but they used alot of steroids and that started my disease, The steroids damaged my Pituitary glands and now i have more calcium in the upper part of my body than the lower part.”
She described her condition as a “silent disease,” explaining, “It keeps destroying you without you realizing it. It stops for a while, then suddenly starts growing again, causing new deformities.”
Her mother, Mateleth, recalled the difficulty they faced upon learning of Leidy’s rare disorder, saying, “A doctor told me my daughter had a disease that almost nobody else in the world has.” Her father, Alejandro, added, “We were told there is no cure for Leidy and they said our daughter will not live beyond the age of 12 and of course the impact was tremendous at such a time you shall feel very small so we kept on living with the constant shadow above us”
When she’s in public, Leidy often faces stares and reactions from others. “When other people are around it is obvious that people are looking at me especially when they see you their surprised stares or something like that because it is not normal it is always like “wow” I have had times when i felt really uncomfortable because of people’s looks the acceptance process was long.”
Leidy has since embraced herself, saying, “I have accepted myself as i am but i think I will always have some hangups.”
Reflecting on sharing her journey on social media, Leidy said, “I was afraid of being criticised i was worried about what people would say because it is hard for anyone to put themselves out there and especially hard as i am i have gained a-lot of followers and i have also experienced the meaner side of it i have had some really harsh comments”
Leidy uses her platform to inspire others with similar struggles, encouraging people to look beyond appearances. “I do it with the intention to inspire people that have alot of complexes It was to show that our condition dont matter, it doesnt matter how we look like we have to keep going in life.
“Having a facial deformity doesn’t make me much different for other people I have proved to myself that i can do it I think beauty is more than what is on the outside, when i look at the mirror i see a fighter, a warrior and someone facing forward, someone that has dreams.”
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My family scattered my marriage with a white man after taking him to Nigeria for our Traditional marriage- Woman laments
A woman shared how her family disrupted her marriage plans with a white man after she brought him to Nigeria for their traditional wedding.
In an interview with content creator Italiandavido, she explained that she has lived in Italy for 34 years, facing various challenges, including arrests by Italian police.
During those difficult times, she met a supportive white man who was ready to marry her. However, when they went to Nigeria to perform the traditional marriage rites, her family betrayed her shattering their plans.
Narrating she said: “In 1993, i carry oyinbo with his mother to go to my home country (Nigeria) Benin city, Edo state with canopy, we did our court marriage and everything my family and everyone gathered that day at the end they come go back but person dey pray for this life make home no kill you but family do am but God said that is not the way he sent you to this life and God stand by me I suffered and i stayed.”
How her ex-husband mother started giving her attitude after their visit to nigeria, she said: “After my marriage, My oyinbo and him mama go who wan carry oyinbo to italy with him mama go nigeria go do marriage and that time was in 1993 was a the G12 of abiola It was a tough of war in edo state we were rushing to do that marriage because of the war that was coming due to abiola issue and that was how we did the marriage at the end, i was dumped in nigeria, i cried and then i remebered that the day i came down from airport, something shaked my body and i was wondering how i will go back to italy and at the end, i sold all my properties and it is my family people who destroyed my marriage the day i wanted to go to claim my luggage that came with cargo I left my white husband in the house as i went with his mother to where we should go pick up the luggage and then when i was dumped, i sold all my properties to make sure i get back to italy and then i spent 1 year and 4months in Nigeria.”
When asked on why her husband did not come back to carry her, she said: “You know spiritual something someone that you dont even expect that will even blow one day and God just bring it out and they said no why but today they are regretting it.”
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She is someone I’m connected to- Gay man officially announce engagement with Girlfriend
A white man named Jacob Hoff, a gay, has officially married a woman after years of identifying as gay. Jacob announced his marriage to his girlfriend, Samantha Greenstone, after being together for six years.
He also shared his plans to have children with Samantha, stating that despite his past as a gay man, he feels a deep spiritual connection with her.
“It’s very clear that Samantha is the person that I’m connected to spiritually. She is my soulmate, my partner, the person I want to spend the rest of my life with. And that often transcends just plain old sexuality, and we are attracted to each other – we’re intim*te, it is just on a different level, it’s a soulmate connection,” he said
Explaining more about his decision, he said: “I am gay. I don’t label myself as bi-sexual – my preference is men, but I have been in this closed, exclusive relationship with Samantha for six years and it has been a dream. We’re in love, and it’s that simple,”
How she feels being in a relationship with him, Samantha said: “Sometimes a soulmate is just a soulmate, and Jacob has been completely open and loving with me. And when he looks at me and talks to me, he makes me feel like I am the most treasured, loved human being on this Earth. We want to get married; we want to have a kid, and we have just chosen each other in this lifetime because we love each other’s souls,”
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My husband is 29yrs older than me, People think I got married to him because of his money
Alyssa, a 30-year-old woman married to a man 29 years her senior, recently opened up about how people view their relationship due to the age difference.
She revealed that she met her husband, Mark, when he was 59 and she was 23, after they connected on social media and began talking daily. A week later, they met in person.
While Alyssa’s small family accepted the relationship, Mark’s family had a harder time. She explained to Whatsthejam, “My family is very small and he wasn’t my first large age gap relationship so no one was phased,” she said to whatsthejam
“But his family was an entirely different story.
“They made all these assumptions about me and my intentions in our relationship.
“The same presumptions that are always made and will often be made based solely on our age difference.
“Over time they got to know me and I know once they spoke to me and spent time with me they realized I wasn’t some kind of gold digger or bimbo.
Mark, who has two adult children (25 and 27) from his previous marriage, married Alyssa, and they now have two kids together, Ziya (11) and Mel (17). Alyssa mentioned that Mark’s ex-wife and older children saw how deeply she cared for his youngest daughter, which helped them accept her.
She added: “His ex-wife and his older kids saw how deeply I cared for his youngest.
“Once you see someone love your little sister or daughter as their own I imagine it’s hard to paint them as some sort of vapid selfish monster.”
Regarding public criticism, Alyssa said, “Criticism and judgment from society has never bothered me because I found very early on that happy people don’t judge.
“The people who spew hate or shoot dirty looks are often being triggered by something that they lack or hate in themselves.
“For example; someone who is personally angered by seeing my husband and I out for dinner together is either unhappily single or in a relationship that they hate.
“Misery enjoys company and I’d be damned if I let them have mine.”
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I had multiple Miscarriages and was Unable to bear a child, My best friend agreed to have my child
Kimberley Allen, who always dreamed of becoming a mother, shared how her best friend, Becky, agreed to carry a child for her and her husband, Jamie after years of struggling with infertility.
Kimberley and her husband had faced multiple miscarriages and challenges due to Kimberley’s polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), a condition that affects ovulation and can cause infertility.
In an interview with WhatsTheJam, the couple explained that they had almost given up hope of becoming parents until Becky, Kimberley’s best friend, offered to be their surrogate.
Becky suggested having a baby that would be biologically hers and Kimberley’s husband’s.
Kimberley recalled: “For a moment, I thought I’d misheard her – but I hadn’t “Jamie and I sat in stunned silence for a few minutes before I questioned her.
“Becky said she wanted to be a surrogate for us, which cleared up things. “I felt overwhelmed and full of love for her.
“My child being biologically hers just made our bond even closer. “I just remember feeling so happy that I had helped my husband impregnate my best friend – a sentence I never thought I’d say.
How she feels being a mother, she said: “Being a mum was my biggest dream in life “I turned to Becki for comfort and we remained the best of friends, even when she went on to have three children of her own.
“I was so pleased for her, and I wasn’t envious at all, and so I stopped wondering when – or if – it would happen for me.”
“I couldn’t believe it, I was completely speechless when Becki showed us the positive pregnancy test.
“All our friends and family were so supportive and each kick felt like a tiny miracle. “While all eyes were on Becki and her bump, I didn’t feel jealous in the slightest.”
She added: “I fell head over heels in love with my baby girl. I couldn’t believe that we were finally parents – it still feels surreal.
“There are no words to describe how thankful I am to Becki.
“I had always considered her my sister, but now there really is a piece of her DNA in my family. “Our daughter looks very much like me when I was young – no one would ever know or question it if I didn’t tell them.
“I thought my dream of being a mum had been taken away from me for good – but she made it finally come true.”
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I’m 64yr old but Many people think I’m in my 20s
Fern Logan, a 64-year-old woman, has proudly shared how she maintains her youthful appearance and catches the attention of younger men.
In an exclusive chat with Fabulous, Fern revealed that men in their twenties and thirties often beg her for dates, and many assume she is 30 years younger than her actual age.
She said: ‘I’m proud to be a super-hot OAP.
“I’m 64 and people think I’m 30 years younger. I do look better than I did in my forties.
“Men in their twenties and thirties beg me for dates.”
Proud of her figure, Fern refuses to cover up and loves showing off her physique.
“I refuse to dress like a granny,”
She also noted that she was able to get this youthful look by doing her cheap Skin routines which helped her to save up some money.
She continued: “I stay looking good because I am dedicated to a cheap and cheerful skin care routine anyone can follow.”
“I know I can make anyone look younger and help defy ageing by using pound shop products and simple money saving beauty hacks.”
Getting compliments from people?, she said: “I still get all tingly when people compliment me.
“I’m dead proud to look this young at 64 and this is my time to shine.
“I’m proof that you can be sexy in your 60s.”
How she dealt with acne and also be bullied with how she looked, she said: “When I was just 13, I suffered a severe acne.
“I was bullied terribly at school. Kids would call me ‘pizza face’ and make fun of my painful red acne.
She added: “My mother was a Max Factor rep and always had perfect makeup and hair,” she remembers.
“She was so glamorous, I watched her put on her ’face’ and thought she was a princess.
“I was taught to use gentle soap and water, a basic simple face scrub and what was then known as a skin tonic. It’s what we call a skin toner now.
“Witch hazel toner or rosewater were cost saving options in the 1960s when I was a teen and still available today.”
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I spent £8k to look like Barbie and I look better than I was 19
A woman named Jade Lyne, who spent £8,000 to look like Barbie, has shared that the surgeries she underwent have made her feel and look much younger than her actual age.
Jade revealed that she had plastic surgeries, breast augmentation, and regular spray tans to achieve the Barbie look. However, she mentioned that she hasn’t had any recent surgeries and is now focusing more on her overall appearance and her love for the color pink.
She explained, “I haven’t had any surgeries recently and have been focusing on my looks in every way possible, aside from surgery. I’ve spent hours researching makeup, skincare, hair, and outfits to look my very best.”
Jade continued, “I honestly feel like I look better now than I did when I was 19! People used to call me names like clown, hideous, or say I looked 50 years old. But I also receive plenty of nice comments both online and in person.”
She also credited skincare for helping her look more youthful, adding that she stopped wearing wigs after eight years, which made a big difference. “Now I bleach-dye my hair to save time and money. Finding the right makeup, especially foundation, has been a game-changer for me. I’ve also made my eyebrows thinner and draw them higher to give the appearance of a mini facelift.”
Jade describes herself as a “bimbo Barbie 24/7” and says pink is an essential part of her lifestyle. “Everything has to be pink—nails, toes, piercings. The more pink, blonde, and Barbie I am, the happier I feel.”
When asked about how she handles negative comments, Jade confidently stated, “I don’t respond to negative comments because they don’t bother me. I’m really happy with who I am, how I look, and what I do for work.”
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My boyfriend pays the rent of the house we live and he does not know I am the owner of the house
A woman identified as Jaynee has revealed on TikTok that her boyfriend unknowingly pays rent for the house they both live in, despite her being the actual owner. In the video, Jaynee explained that she and her partner have been living in the house for a year, but he doesn’t realize she has owned the property for five years.
Filming from inside her car, she wrote: “He pays the rent and all the major bills. Little does he know I’m the landlord and owned this place for five years now. So his direct deposits are going straight to me.” She then posed the question, “Do y’all think he’ll be mad?”
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This revelation sparked a lot of reactions on social media. One user commented, “✍🏽 become landlord ✍🏽 suggest we live together in one of my buildings ✍🏽 got it 😂😂😩.” Another speculated, “Imagine he already knows and still keeps putting the money in your account anyway…. 😏.”
Other users had mixed reactions. One said, “All ladies are saying that’s right, but what if the shoe was on the other foot? Just curious about y’all’s answers.” Another added, “Keep that same energy when Karma hits!”
Supporters of Jaynee’s actions chimed in as well: “He’s your BOYFRIEND, not your husband, and he would’ve had to pay rent anyway, so I say good for you! They’re just mad they didn’t think of it first. Do you!”
Others added, “Saving all of his money to buy you/y’all something nice,” and, “A relationship that (literally) has its foundation built on lies and deceit will never last.”
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She is my wife and not my daughter
A couple named Sam and Michael recently revealed that they are husband and wife, not father and daughter, as some people assume.
In an interview with “Love Don’t Judge,” the couple shared that they’ve been together for seven years, but have faced a lot of negative comments because of their significant height difference.
Sam explained that she has dwarfism and is 4 feet tall, while Michael stands at 6 feet 2 inches.
Recalling how they met, Michael said, “When we first met, I saw her at a party, and since she was a little person, she caught my eye right away. I added her on Facebook, sent her a message, and the rest is history. The first thing that caught my attention was her body, and I thought, ‘Damn.’”
Regarding how she manages household chores when Michael isn’t around, Sam shared, “I have a form of dwarfism called chondrodystrophy, which affects me a lot throughout the day. There are times when I need something from a high shelf, and if he’s at work, I make sure to have two or three stools around to help me out. I just have to make it work, so I focus on making things easier for myself.”
When asked how they handle the trolling about their height difference, Sam said, “A lot of people don’t understand how it works. They often jump to conclusions about our bedroom life, saying things like, ‘Oh, he’ll crush her,’ or other stupid comments. In public, some people will come down a different aisle just to take a picture of us or do a double-take when they see us together.”
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70yr old woman left with 1 eye after undergoing facelift
A 70-year-old mother of three has lost vision in one eye after undergoing a $13,000 facelift.
The woman, identified as Dian Keller, shared that she decided to have the surgery in February after seeing how great her friends looked following their own procedures.
However, she said that when she woke up after the surgery, it felt like “someone poured kerosene on her and set it on fire.”
Dian revealed that she is in constant pain and can hardly go out due to her condition. She used to love dancing but can no longer enjoy it.
She told DailyMail, “My quality of life is destroyed, I can’t really go out, I can’t see, I’m still walking around in constant pain and now I have all these other medical bills.”
“I love to dance, I used to entertain a lot and see friends, but now I can’t, and that is really upsetting me.”
She also mentioned that in the days following the surgery, she could hardly see anything except occasional bright lights in both eyes.
“I was in constant agony, I was completely blind, and I freaked out,” she continued.
“I was screaming and reaching into the air, feeling my face. I couldn’t close either of my eyes.”
“When I felt my eyebrows, they were almost all the way up to where your hairline is. And I was in a lot of pain.”
She also said that everyday tasks, like cooking, have become difficult for her.
“I now have a lot of difficulty with small things,” she said. “I can’t cook—the fumes trigger a whole cascade of problems with my eyes. I can’t use fragrance, I can’t use fans. Too much air-conditioning is no good, too much heat is no good.”
“My eye just starts to tear uncontrollably. Honestly, I feel like I could do a load of laundry with the amount of tears coming out of my eye.”
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I’m 30 and my husband is 54, we got married 2 weeks after meeting ourselves but people mistake me as his daughter
A 30-year-old woman, Kayy Mackenzie, has revealed that many people often mistake her husband, Davey Mackenzie, 54, for her father due to their age difference and also her young look.
How They Met
Kayy met Davey in a pub in 2019, and they instantly clicked. After just two weeks of dating, Davey proposed, and they married in December 2021. Despite the age gap, the couple is deeply in love and has built a strong relationship.
Public Perception
Kayy shares that people often mistake her for Davey’s daughter when they are out together.
“Restaurant staff see us together and comment on how nice it is to see a dad and daughter out for dinner,” Kayy explained. “They always look so embarrassed when I tell them we’re married.”
Kayy recounted their first meeting: “When we first met, he said he noticed me as soon as I walked in the door and thought, ‘That’s the woman I’m going to marry.’ We got talking later when I noticed him on the dance floor. He was so nice and seemed really cool and younger than he is. I knew he was my soulmate, so I didn’t see the point in waiting.”
Although Davey has three children from a previous relationship, they accepted Kayy and welcomed her into the family.
“His family took a while to come around to the idea of the relationship because of the age gap. But there are no issues now—when we see each other, we all get on.”
How Davey has positively impacted her life?, she said : He brings a lot of wisdom from a lot of life experience, and I teach him modern things like how to use his phone properly. He’s made me more grounded as a person. When I’m upset, instead of just going silent or getting annoyed, he’s taught me to talk it out with him.”
How she felt after finding out about his real age, kay said: “I was surprised at first when he said he was nearly 50, but I didn’t give a toss at all. I’ve never considered age in relationships; I’ve always wanted a guy who is older than me so they can look after me. Funnily enough, he thought I was older than I am, and I thought he was younger! But age doesn’t matter to us; it’s just a number. Davey just had this lovely way about him where he was very loving, caring, and accepting from the start, and that’s what mattered.”
Davey’s Perspective about their relationship??
Davey also shared his thoughts on their relationship: “I was first drawn to Kayy when I saw her walk into the room; she looked so beautiful and loving. Something about her just made me go, ‘Wow, she’s the one.’ We don’t notice the age gap. Love is love, not numbers. We have a very similar attitude; she’s mature. I was slightly embarrassed at first to be mistaken as a father sometimes, but I don’t care too much now; I find it quite amusing.”
Their Bond
“We are very affectionate and really understand each other like no one else ever has. We are always laughing and joking and always there for each other no matter what. People have tried to attack our relationship in the past, yet we’ve always remained unbreakable. We’re very strong and extremely happy.”