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Lady who quit her Job because of her boyfriend laments as he Dumps her
A 23-year-old woman named Kendel, who quit her job at the request of her boyfriend, has expressed her regret after he eventually dumped her.
Last year, Kendel shared a TikTok video of herself cleaning the house with the caption: “POV: You chose the soft life & let your man take care of the finances so you can rest in your feminine energy & spend all day in the kitchen.”
At the time, she had left her successful modeling career, trusting her boyfriend’s promise to take care of her financially because he is the CEO of a PR Company.
In a recent update, Kendel shared her heartbreak after being dumped, revealing that she is now single.
Reflecting on the life many women aspire to, she expressed her regret: “It’s definitely risky to enter this lifestyle if you don’t have a safety net to fall back on.
“The loss of independence was the worst thing for me. It’s so fragile to rely on another human being like that.”
Kendel narrated how she met her boyfriend, Luke, and always made time for him, explaining: “My schedule was flexible, and I wanted to be with him, so the decision to move was easy, even though I’d only known him for a few weeks.
“My family weren’t surprised – I’ve always been adventurous. They might have thought I was crazy, but nobody said anything to my face.”
“Luke was providing financially for me from the start. He would pay for dinners, international travel, and any joint expenses such as groceries, meals and taxis.
“But when it came to personal luxuries, like manicures and clothes, I would buy those myself, as I was still earning from my OnlyFans and marketing work, plus I had savings.”
She added: “I think he realised we were both unhappy. It was hard to hear, but there was a part of me that felt relieved I could feel free again.
“I stayed with family for two weeks afterwards, then rented my own place again. Thankfully, I still had savings, but it was a painful time and I had to readjust to being me and providing for myself.”
