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Make sure you succeed and never depend on a man- Woman tells ladies
A woman named Lundi has advised ladies not to rely on a man’s money.
In a video, she shared footage of a man kicking his wife out of his house and urged women to develop themselves.
Lundi explained that the man was angry because his wife was fighting for possessions she didn’t contribute to.
She emphasized the importance of self-progress and independence, noting that men respect women who are not desperate for their wealth.
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My husband is 29yrs older than me, People think I got married to him because of his money
Alyssa, a 30-year-old woman married to a man 29 years her senior, recently opened up about how people view their relationship due to the age difference.
She revealed that she met her husband, Mark, when he was 59 and she was 23, after they connected on social media and began talking daily. A week later, they met in person.
While Alyssa’s small family accepted the relationship, Mark’s family had a harder time. She explained to Whatsthejam, “My family is very small and he wasn’t my first large age gap relationship so no one was phased,” she said to whatsthejam
“But his family was an entirely different story.
“They made all these assumptions about me and my intentions in our relationship.
“The same presumptions that are always made and will often be made based solely on our age difference.
“Over time they got to know me and I know once they spoke to me and spent time with me they realized I wasn’t some kind of gold digger or bimbo.
Mark, who has two adult children (25 and 27) from his previous marriage, married Alyssa, and they now have two kids together, Ziya (11) and Mel (17). Alyssa mentioned that Mark’s ex-wife and older children saw how deeply she cared for his youngest daughter, which helped them accept her.
She added: “His ex-wife and his older kids saw how deeply I cared for his youngest.
“Once you see someone love your little sister or daughter as their own I imagine it’s hard to paint them as some sort of vapid selfish monster.”
Regarding public criticism, Alyssa said, “Criticism and judgment from society has never bothered me because I found very early on that happy people don’t judge.
“The people who spew hate or shoot dirty looks are often being triggered by something that they lack or hate in themselves.
“For example; someone who is personally angered by seeing my husband and I out for dinner together is either unhappily single or in a relationship that they hate.
“Misery enjoys company and I’d be damned if I let them have mine.”
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I had multiple Miscarriages and was Unable to bear a child, My best friend agreed to have my child
Kimberley Allen, who always dreamed of becoming a mother, shared how her best friend, Becky, agreed to carry a child for her and her husband, Jamie after years of struggling with infertility.
Kimberley and her husband had faced multiple miscarriages and challenges due to Kimberley’s polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), a condition that affects ovulation and can cause infertility.
In an interview with WhatsTheJam, the couple explained that they had almost given up hope of becoming parents until Becky, Kimberley’s best friend, offered to be their surrogate.
Becky suggested having a baby that would be biologically hers and Kimberley’s husband’s.
Kimberley recalled: “For a moment, I thought I’d misheard her – but I hadn’t “Jamie and I sat in stunned silence for a few minutes before I questioned her.
“Becky said she wanted to be a surrogate for us, which cleared up things. “I felt overwhelmed and full of love for her.
“My child being biologically hers just made our bond even closer. “I just remember feeling so happy that I had helped my husband impregnate my best friend – a sentence I never thought I’d say.
How she feels being a mother, she said: “Being a mum was my biggest dream in life “I turned to Becki for comfort and we remained the best of friends, even when she went on to have three children of her own.
“I was so pleased for her, and I wasn’t envious at all, and so I stopped wondering when – or if – it would happen for me.”
“I couldn’t believe it, I was completely speechless when Becki showed us the positive pregnancy test.
“All our friends and family were so supportive and each kick felt like a tiny miracle. “While all eyes were on Becki and her bump, I didn’t feel jealous in the slightest.”
She added: “I fell head over heels in love with my baby girl. I couldn’t believe that we were finally parents – it still feels surreal.
“There are no words to describe how thankful I am to Becki.
“I had always considered her my sister, but now there really is a piece of her DNA in my family. “Our daughter looks very much like me when I was young – no one would ever know or question it if I didn’t tell them.
“I thought my dream of being a mum had been taken away from me for good – but she made it finally come true.”
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I’m 64yr old but Many people think I’m in my 20s
Fern Logan, a 64-year-old woman, has proudly shared how she maintains her youthful appearance and catches the attention of younger men.
In an exclusive chat with Fabulous, Fern revealed that men in their twenties and thirties often beg her for dates, and many assume she is 30 years younger than her actual age.
She said: ‘I’m proud to be a super-hot OAP.
“I’m 64 and people think I’m 30 years younger. I do look better than I did in my forties.
“Men in their twenties and thirties beg me for dates.”
Proud of her figure, Fern refuses to cover up and loves showing off her physique.
“I refuse to dress like a granny,”
She also noted that she was able to get this youthful look by doing her cheap Skin routines which helped her to save up some money.
She continued: “I stay looking good because I am dedicated to a cheap and cheerful skin care routine anyone can follow.”
“I know I can make anyone look younger and help defy ageing by using pound shop products and simple money saving beauty hacks.”
Getting compliments from people?, she said: “I still get all tingly when people compliment me.
“I’m dead proud to look this young at 64 and this is my time to shine.
“I’m proof that you can be sexy in your 60s.”
How she dealt with acne and also be bullied with how she looked, she said: “When I was just 13, I suffered a severe acne.
“I was bullied terribly at school. Kids would call me ‘pizza face’ and make fun of my painful red acne.
She added: “My mother was a Max Factor rep and always had perfect makeup and hair,” she remembers.
“She was so glamorous, I watched her put on her ’face’ and thought she was a princess.
“I was taught to use gentle soap and water, a basic simple face scrub and what was then known as a skin tonic. It’s what we call a skin toner now.
“Witch hazel toner or rosewater were cost saving options in the 1960s when I was a teen and still available today.”
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I spent £8k to look like Barbie and I look better than I was 19
A woman named Jade Lyne, who spent £8,000 to look like Barbie, has shared that the surgeries she underwent have made her feel and look much younger than her actual age.
Jade revealed that she had plastic surgeries, breast augmentation, and regular spray tans to achieve the Barbie look. However, she mentioned that she hasn’t had any recent surgeries and is now focusing more on her overall appearance and her love for the color pink.
She explained, “I haven’t had any surgeries recently and have been focusing on my looks in every way possible, aside from surgery. I’ve spent hours researching makeup, skincare, hair, and outfits to look my very best.”
Jade continued, “I honestly feel like I look better now than I did when I was 19! People used to call me names like clown, hideous, or say I looked 50 years old. But I also receive plenty of nice comments both online and in person.”
She also credited skincare for helping her look more youthful, adding that she stopped wearing wigs after eight years, which made a big difference. “Now I bleach-dye my hair to save time and money. Finding the right makeup, especially foundation, has been a game-changer for me. I’ve also made my eyebrows thinner and draw them higher to give the appearance of a mini facelift.”
Jade describes herself as a “bimbo Barbie 24/7” and says pink is an essential part of her lifestyle. “Everything has to be pink—nails, toes, piercings. The more pink, blonde, and Barbie I am, the happier I feel.”
When asked about how she handles negative comments, Jade confidently stated, “I don’t respond to negative comments because they don’t bother me. I’m really happy with who I am, how I look, and what I do for work.”
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My boyfriend pays the rent of the house we live and he does not know I am the owner of the house
A woman identified as Jaynee has revealed on TikTok that her boyfriend unknowingly pays rent for the house they both live in, despite her being the actual owner. In the video, Jaynee explained that she and her partner have been living in the house for a year, but he doesn’t realize she has owned the property for five years.
Filming from inside her car, she wrote: “He pays the rent and all the major bills. Little does he know I’m the landlord and owned this place for five years now. So his direct deposits are going straight to me.” She then posed the question, “Do y’all think he’ll be mad?”
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This revelation sparked a lot of reactions on social media. One user commented, “✍🏽 become landlord ✍🏽 suggest we live together in one of my buildings ✍🏽 got it 😂😂😩.” Another speculated, “Imagine he already knows and still keeps putting the money in your account anyway…. 😏.”
Other users had mixed reactions. One said, “All ladies are saying that’s right, but what if the shoe was on the other foot? Just curious about y’all’s answers.” Another added, “Keep that same energy when Karma hits!”
Supporters of Jaynee’s actions chimed in as well: “He’s your BOYFRIEND, not your husband, and he would’ve had to pay rent anyway, so I say good for you! They’re just mad they didn’t think of it first. Do you!”
Others added, “Saving all of his money to buy you/y’all something nice,” and, “A relationship that (literally) has its foundation built on lies and deceit will never last.”
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She is my wife and not my daughter
A couple named Sam and Michael recently revealed that they are husband and wife, not father and daughter, as some people assume.
In an interview with “Love Don’t Judge,” the couple shared that they’ve been together for seven years, but have faced a lot of negative comments because of their significant height difference.
Sam explained that she has dwarfism and is 4 feet tall, while Michael stands at 6 feet 2 inches.
Recalling how they met, Michael said, “When we first met, I saw her at a party, and since she was a little person, she caught my eye right away. I added her on Facebook, sent her a message, and the rest is history. The first thing that caught my attention was her body, and I thought, ‘Damn.’”
Regarding how she manages household chores when Michael isn’t around, Sam shared, “I have a form of dwarfism called chondrodystrophy, which affects me a lot throughout the day. There are times when I need something from a high shelf, and if he’s at work, I make sure to have two or three stools around to help me out. I just have to make it work, so I focus on making things easier for myself.”
When asked how they handle the trolling about their height difference, Sam said, “A lot of people don’t understand how it works. They often jump to conclusions about our bedroom life, saying things like, ‘Oh, he’ll crush her,’ or other stupid comments. In public, some people will come down a different aisle just to take a picture of us or do a double-take when they see us together.”
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70yr old woman left with 1 eye after undergoing facelift
A 70-year-old mother of three has lost vision in one eye after undergoing a $13,000 facelift.
The woman, identified as Dian Keller, shared that she decided to have the surgery in February after seeing how great her friends looked following their own procedures.
However, she said that when she woke up after the surgery, it felt like “someone poured kerosene on her and set it on fire.”
Dian revealed that she is in constant pain and can hardly go out due to her condition. She used to love dancing but can no longer enjoy it.
She told DailyMail, “My quality of life is destroyed, I can’t really go out, I can’t see, I’m still walking around in constant pain and now I have all these other medical bills.”
“I love to dance, I used to entertain a lot and see friends, but now I can’t, and that is really upsetting me.”
She also mentioned that in the days following the surgery, she could hardly see anything except occasional bright lights in both eyes.
“I was in constant agony, I was completely blind, and I freaked out,” she continued.
“I was screaming and reaching into the air, feeling my face. I couldn’t close either of my eyes.”
“When I felt my eyebrows, they were almost all the way up to where your hairline is. And I was in a lot of pain.”
She also said that everyday tasks, like cooking, have become difficult for her.
“I now have a lot of difficulty with small things,” she said. “I can’t cook—the fumes trigger a whole cascade of problems with my eyes. I can’t use fragrance, I can’t use fans. Too much air-conditioning is no good, too much heat is no good.”
“My eye just starts to tear uncontrollably. Honestly, I feel like I could do a load of laundry with the amount of tears coming out of my eye.”
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I’m 30 and my husband is 54, we got married 2 weeks after meeting ourselves but people mistake me as his daughter
A 30-year-old woman, Kayy Mackenzie, has revealed that many people often mistake her husband, Davey Mackenzie, 54, for her father due to their age difference and also her young look.
How They Met
Kayy met Davey in a pub in 2019, and they instantly clicked. After just two weeks of dating, Davey proposed, and they married in December 2021. Despite the age gap, the couple is deeply in love and has built a strong relationship.
Public Perception
Kayy shares that people often mistake her for Davey’s daughter when they are out together.
“Restaurant staff see us together and comment on how nice it is to see a dad and daughter out for dinner,” Kayy explained. “They always look so embarrassed when I tell them we’re married.”
Kayy recounted their first meeting: “When we first met, he said he noticed me as soon as I walked in the door and thought, ‘That’s the woman I’m going to marry.’ We got talking later when I noticed him on the dance floor. He was so nice and seemed really cool and younger than he is. I knew he was my soulmate, so I didn’t see the point in waiting.”
Although Davey has three children from a previous relationship, they accepted Kayy and welcomed her into the family.
“His family took a while to come around to the idea of the relationship because of the age gap. But there are no issues now—when we see each other, we all get on.”
How Davey has positively impacted her life?, she said : He brings a lot of wisdom from a lot of life experience, and I teach him modern things like how to use his phone properly. He’s made me more grounded as a person. When I’m upset, instead of just going silent or getting annoyed, he’s taught me to talk it out with him.”
How she felt after finding out about his real age, kay said: “I was surprised at first when he said he was nearly 50, but I didn’t give a toss at all. I’ve never considered age in relationships; I’ve always wanted a guy who is older than me so they can look after me. Funnily enough, he thought I was older than I am, and I thought he was younger! But age doesn’t matter to us; it’s just a number. Davey just had this lovely way about him where he was very loving, caring, and accepting from the start, and that’s what mattered.”
Davey’s Perspective about their relationship??
Davey also shared his thoughts on their relationship: “I was first drawn to Kayy when I saw her walk into the room; she looked so beautiful and loving. Something about her just made me go, ‘Wow, she’s the one.’ We don’t notice the age gap. Love is love, not numbers. We have a very similar attitude; she’s mature. I was slightly embarrassed at first to be mistaken as a father sometimes, but I don’t care too much now; I find it quite amusing.”
Their Bond
“We are very affectionate and really understand each other like no one else ever has. We are always laughing and joking and always there for each other no matter what. People have tried to attack our relationship in the past, yet we’ve always remained unbreakable. We’re very strong and extremely happy.”
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I proposed to a man but now marrying a woman
Alexis and Liam, a couple deeply in love, have opened up about their journey together.
A year into their relationship, Alexis revealed to Liam that she identifies as a woman. This revelation led Liam to reevaluate his own sexuality, and he realized that he is now a gay man.
In an interview with Love Don’t Judge, the couple shared that when they first met, they were both gay men. Now, they are happily married as husband and wife.
Alexis said:”We met as two gay men, and now I’m a woman. We first connected on a dating app—he appeared on my page, we started chatting, and then he ghosted me. But I was persistent. We finally went on a date, I wore these super tight trousers, and the rest is history.”
“When Liam and I met, we were two men, and I identified as a gay man back then. Now, I’m a trans woman. I knew who I was and what I wanted at 15, but we lived in a very different world then. It eventually reached a point where I felt like I couldn’t hide who I was on the inside anymore.”
How Liam Felt About Alexis Being Trans:
Liam explained, “When Alexis first told me she was transitioning, I was caught off guard. I was in the middle of eating a sandwich and nearly choked! But within 30 seconds of her telling me, I thought, ‘That’s fine, I don’t mind. I love who you are. What do we do to make this happen?'”
“Watching Alexis change during her transition didn’t hit me immediately. At first, she just shaved a little, and she’d always had a beard, so that was a bit of an adjustment.”
Alexis added, “We haven’t been together for even a year yet, but Liam proposed. He got down on one knee and did the whole thing. I even thought about reenacting the proposal so it would be memorable.”
Alexis continued, “I’ve been on hormones for 18 months now, and I’m planning on getting breast augmentation in a couple of months.”
How he found out he is a gay, Liam said, “I came out to my mom when I was 14 or 15. At that time, I was questioning if I was bicurious or bisexual. In my early 30s, I concluded that I’m a gay man. Then, when I met Alexis and she told me she wanted to transition, it changed everything for me.”
Dealing with Critics:
When asked about dealing with criticism, Liam said, “People often tell us that since I’m a man and now with a woman, I must be straight, and we’re in a straight relationship. But it’s not that black and white. I still identify as a gay man, but from the outside, it looks like I’m with a woman. So how does that work? Honestly, I don’t know, but what I do know is that I love Alexis and am attracted to her.”
Alexis shared her experiences too, “I often hear people say things like, ‘You’re a man in a dress,’ and I get a lot of religious quotes sent my way, saying I’m going to burn in hell. Usually, the negative comments don’t bother me. I’ve developed tough skin as a trans person. When you put yourself out there on social media, you have to accept that some people won’t like you. I just don’t understand why our relationship would affect others—it’s not their life.”
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I’m 26 and I tanned my skin but trolls say I look like grandma
A woman named Camilla Sørensen, who was originally white but has tanned her skin to a brown color, has defended herself after trolls mocked her, saying she looks 50 years old.
Camilla, a 26-year-old influencer from Denmark, regularly shares updates about her skin color and how she takes care of it daily.
In one of her clips, she talked about how her confidence is bigger than everyone thinks when she is tanned, captioning the video: “Things that are bigger than you think: My confidence when I’m brown.”
In another clip, she addressed accusations of addiction, writing, “I’m not addicted to anything.” She also emphasized the importance of checking the UV index before tanning, noting that she always assesses the sun’s UV level on hot days before undergoing a tanning session.
In a different video, she shaded others who spend all summer tanning by pointing out that she achieves the same tan in just two days. She wrote: “When people tan all summer to get the tan I got in 2 days.”
Camilla continues to maintain that her tanned skin boosts her confidence, despite the negative comments she receives.
this got lots of reactions on her video as a user wrote: “It’s giving Italian grandma”
Another wrote: “Be careful of getting leather skin”
Another wrote: “Girl please no! The brown is aging you”
Another wrote: “darling you are gorgeous no matter what. Unfortunately it does look like it’s aging yout skin quite badly..”
another wrote: “Oh lord the ageing”
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@camilla_sorensen1998 I am #foryou #4u #fyp #viral ♬ NO BODY TOLD ME THIS WAS BLOWING UP – 𝔏𝔬𝔱𝔬𝔶𝔞