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I found out my friends were mocking me in their chats over my choice of Bridal outfit- Lady laments

A woman who served as a bridesmaid for her friend recently shared on Reddit her experience of quitting the wedding after discovering hurtful messages on the bride’s phone. 

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According to her, Over the weekend she accompanied her friend “Shelly” to select dresses and during this moment Shelly asked her to take pictures to send to her mother and another friend “Gaby.” While taking the photo, a text from Gaby appeared, which she accidentally captured.

The next morning, curiosity led her to read their private messages. She found that Shelly and Gaby were mocking her and her choice of outfit in their chat. Additionally, she discovered multiple photos of herself, her mother, and her boyfriend, all subjects of ridicule in their conversations.

Feeling deeply hurt, she shared that while she enjoys being fun, she would never stoop to making cruel jokes about others. 

Narrating, she wrote: “I have two friends: Gaby and Shelly. All of us are 23, if that matters. We were roommates in college and stayed in the same city after graduation. While the three of us are close, I’ve always known that Gaby and Shelly are the closest. They have a really sweet friendship.

Shelly is getting married. Gaby is the maid of honor and I’m one of the bridesmaids. Over the weekend, I went with Shelly so she could look at wedding dresses. Gaby was supposed to come with us but got called into work last minute. I helped Shelly pick out some dresses then she went with the consultant to try them on. Shelly asked that I take pictures and videos on her phone to send to her mom and Gaby. I was getting the camera ready when a text from Gaby came through. I didn’t mean to click on it and was instantly going to click back out when I saw one of my Instagram pictures in their private chat from earlier that morning. Both were making fun of me for the face I was making and my outfit choice. It didn’t appear to be very good nature.

I admit, curiosity got the best of me so I searched my name in the chat. I found multiple pictures that I, my boyfriend or my mom have posted of myself, absolutely ripping them to shreds. Ranging from selfies to posed shots to even a few baby pictures. They’d also make fun of me in general in terms of the way I talked, wore my hair and the way I ate. This went back as far as I could tell, at least a year.

My heart broke. It all felt so juvenile and high school. While we all joke around, I would never do this to them nor have they ever even tried to instigate these types of conversations with me about the other one on one. I was in tears. As someone who was bullied all through middle and high school, it just brought me back to a horrible place. I put the phone in Shelly’s purse and brought it to another employee, telling her to tell Shelly that I had to go. I drove home and had a long cry.

Shelly texted me by the time I made it home asking where I went. I said I was going home and we could talk later. When she did call a few hours later, she was understandably confused and hurt that I left. I told her what I found, explaining that I only looked further because of the initial text I accidentally saw. She went off on me for looking through her private texts and said those were none of my business. She also told me I shouldn’t have left the store without saying anything. I said I didn’t want to make a scene but also knew I couldn’t fake being happy for her.

Shelly told me the texts were “all in good fun” and clearly she loves me because I’m going to be her bridesmaid. She added that I’m only hurt because I chose to read all those texts. Later on, Gaby called to tell me that I invaded Shelly’s privacy and hurt her by walking out.

My boyfriend and mom think I did the right thing by walking out. But obviously, they’re a little biased. I just want some unbiased looks: was I an asshole to look through the texts and then leave?

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Wheelchair User Forced to Crawl Down Stairs After Lift Malfunctions

A wheelchair user has drawn attention on social media after a video showed her crawling down a flight of stairs when a lift reportedly failed to work.

The incident, which reportedly occurred on June 27, was captured on video and later shared online.

The footage shows the woman dragging herself down the stairs using her hands while carrying her wheelchair. Several people nearby watched the incident, while some recorded it on their mobile phones.

The video eventually reached Mayor Janete Aparecida, who called for an investigation into the incident and ordered officials to identify the woman involved.

After locating her, authorities advised her to file a police report so the circumstances surrounding the incident could be formally investigated.

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I Was Just Launching My Shirt Business Then – Lady Cries Out as She Claims a TikTok Spiritualist Salt Bath for Good Luck Advice Ruined Her Life

A Nigerian lady, identified on TikTok as @vintage_shirt, has shared her experience after following spiritual advice she came across on social media.

In a video, she explained that everything began after she watched a TikTok video in which a self-described spiritualist advised people seeking good luck to bathe with salt and water.

According to her, she had just launched her clothing business at the time and was receiving a steady flow of customers whenever she advertised her products on her WhatsApp status.

She said she decided to try the salt-and-water bath after watching the video, hoping it would bring even more success to her business.

However, she claimed that things took a different turn afterward.

According to the lady, her business began to slow down, sales dropped significantly, and she eventually found herself with no money in her bank account.

Reflecting on her experience, she cautioned people against blindly following everything they see on social media, especially advice related to spiritual practices.

She urged viewers to think carefully before acting on online content and encouraged them not to imitate every trend they come across.

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@vintage_shirtsinlagos Omooo!!!!!😭😂😂💔 #spiritual #spiritualwork #fyp #viralvideo #vintageshirtsinlagos ♬ original sound – SplendorbyMofe
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Couples Arrested After Climbing Empire State Building Antenna for Marriage Proposal

Two people have been arrested after climbing to the top of the Empire State Building in New York City to stage a marriage proposal.

The pair, who were dressed in black, were seen scaling the building’s antenna without safety harnesses before standing on a narrow ledge near the summit, approximately 443 metres (1,454 feet) above Manhattan.

Footage captured from a helicopter showed the couple embracing and preparing to kiss after unfurling a banner that read:

“When the power of love beats the love of power, the world knows peace.”

The daring stunt drew the attention of authorities, and shortly after the climbers descended from the antenna at around 1 p.m., officers moved in and arrested them.

According to reports, the two individuals are believed to be Russian nationals.

Confirming the incident, a spokesperson for the New York Police Department told AFP:

“Two individuals were taken into custody without incident. There are no injuries reported. Charges are pending, and the investigation is still ongoing.”

No injuries were reported during the incident, and authorities are continuing their investigation.

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It Feels Like a Dream – Former Actress Grace Bassey Announces Her Engagement

Former Nigerian actress Grace Bassey Effah has announced that she is officially engaged.

The former actress shared the exciting news with her followers on Facebook, expressing her joy and excitement over the new chapter in her life.

Sharing the announcement, she wrote:

“It Feels Like A Dream But When True Love Finds You
You MELT ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️♾️♾️❤️❤️❤️♾️♾️”

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I See Them as My Brothers, Not for a Relationship – Tems Explains Why She Says She Can Never Date or Marry a Nigerian Man

Singer Tems has opened up about why she does not view her fellow Nigerian celebrities as potential romantic partners.

During an interview at the BET Awards, Tems was asked whether she would consider making a move on Nigerian goalkeeper Maduka Okoye if given the opportunity.

Responding to the question, the Grammy-winning singer said she knows who Maduka Okoye is but does not know him personally. She added that she sees her male colleagues in the entertainment industry as family rather than romantic interests.

She said:

“I know who Maduka Okoye is but I don’t know him personally. I wish I did though. But shooting shots at him, we don’t do that over here.

“We Nigerian celebrities friend each others and we are family. I see my male colleagues as brothers,”

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Nigerians React as Nigerian Man and His U.S Partner Get Married

Two Nigerian men have become a topic of discussion on social media after photos of them celebrating their marriage surfaced online.

The photos were first shared by TikTok user @dessyworld247, who congratulated the couple and wished them a happy married life.

In the caption accompanying the post, the user wrote:

“Congratulations 🎉🎊🍾🎈 to the latest couple in town love is a nice thing so happy for you my friendship @Maobi 🇳🇬 🇺🇸 your home is blessed #fypシ #foryoupage #gaymarrige

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Married at 19, Got Divorced at 24, Collected Half of His Property – Regina Daniels Brags, Shades Her Ex-Husband, Ned Nwoko

Nollywood actress Regina Daniels has stirred reactions on social media after reportedly celebrating her divorce from her husband, Senator Ned Nwoko.

According to reports, the actress shared a now-deleted post on her TikTok page reflecting on her marriage and divorce.

In the post, Regina, who married at the age of 19, celebrated finalizing her divorce at 24 and claimed she received half of her former husband’s properties as part of the settlement.

She captioned the video:

“Married at 19, Divorced at 24, Collect half of his property”

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You Married Him Because of Money – Nigerians React as Woman Officially Marries Her German Partner

A Nigerian woman has come under criticism on social media after sharing photos from her wedding to her German husband.

The newlywed posted pictures from the ceremony on her social media page, celebrating the occasion with a heartfelt caption.

She wrote:

“and the lord made it to happen”

She ended the post with the Nigerian flag and wedding ring emojis alongside the German flag.

However, the post drew mixed reactions from social media users. While some congratulated the couple and wished them a happy married life, others questioned her motives for the marriage, with some alleging that she married the man because of financial benefits.

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Ghanaian Woman Collapses After Finding out her Husband Secretly Married Another Wife

A Ghanaian woman has reportedly been hospitalized after collapsing upon discovering that her husband had allegedly married another woman without her knowledge.

The incident was shared on Facebook by a man identified as Fati Aboni, who said the woman is currently receiving treatment at a hospital. According to him, the incident occurred on Friday, June 26.

Fati claimed that the woman and her husband had been living happily together until she learned just hours earlier that he had secretly taken another wife.

He wrote: “First wife is at the hospital on admission and second wife is home enjoying her new marriage.

My dear brothers, uncles and Fathers, I will plead with you on this issue.

Polygamy has become part of us and it has come to stay. Most women have accepted the fact that it has come to stay.

But we beg you, If you will add another woman as second wife, inform your first wife either a week to the program or even if you can’t tell her, inform the heads of the family, people you know your wife respects so they find a suitable way to put it up to to her. 

But don’t finish with the marriage for the first wife to hear it somewhere as rumors before you confirm it.

This happened in Ashaiman.The second wife marriage happened last week, during the process, the man was home all day with his first wife enjoying happily as they usually do yet the man couldn’t inform her. At least he could hv used that as an opportunity to let his wife know that he is bringing in a second wife.

He kept quiet on the issue and today the wife found out and felt unconscious so she was rushed to the hospital.

Anyway congrats to the new wife and speedy recovery to the first wife. My fellow Muslims ladies, put it in mind that, Muslims men are polygamous and you are not too special, as you are going happily, know that another one will join you. With that mindset, you won’t feel much pains when it happens 😊

As our brother Alhaji Zaaki Sobolo  said one woman can never reach a man…unless a sick man”

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If a Woman Asks You for Money, She Is Planning to Marry You Because She Is Testing You – Lady Tells Men

A Nigerian woman has gone viral on social media after sharing her opinion on why some women ask men for money while dating.

In a video making the rounds online, she argued that financial requests from a woman can sometimes be a way of assessing a man’s willingness to support her and potentially build a future together.

According to her, many men misunderstand such requests and fail to recognize what she described as a form of relationship test.

She said:

“Once a girl starts asking you for money, she’s planning to marry you. Yes, it’s a test. Give her that money. If you don’t have that money, go and borrow it. It’s a test. She’s testing you.”

The woman went on to suggest that men who are unwilling or unable to meet such requests may lose the opportunity to be considered for a long-term relationship.

She added:

“So once she starts asking for money, she’s planning to marry you. Marry her. Give her the money. If the money no dey, go borrow am. If you cannot borrow the money, move. Move. So the one wey go fit pay, go pay.”

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