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I found out my friends were mocking me in their chats over my choice of Bridal outfit- Lady laments

A woman who served as a bridesmaid for her friend recently shared on Reddit her experience of quitting the wedding after discovering hurtful messages on the bride’s phone. 

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According to her, Over the weekend she accompanied her friend “Shelly” to select dresses and during this moment Shelly asked her to take pictures to send to her mother and another friend “Gaby.” While taking the photo, a text from Gaby appeared, which she accidentally captured.

The next morning, curiosity led her to read their private messages. She found that Shelly and Gaby were mocking her and her choice of outfit in their chat. Additionally, she discovered multiple photos of herself, her mother, and her boyfriend, all subjects of ridicule in their conversations.

Feeling deeply hurt, she shared that while she enjoys being fun, she would never stoop to making cruel jokes about others. 

Narrating, she wrote: “I have two friends: Gaby and Shelly. All of us are 23, if that matters. We were roommates in college and stayed in the same city after graduation. While the three of us are close, I’ve always known that Gaby and Shelly are the closest. They have a really sweet friendship.

Shelly is getting married. Gaby is the maid of honor and I’m one of the bridesmaids. Over the weekend, I went with Shelly so she could look at wedding dresses. Gaby was supposed to come with us but got called into work last minute. I helped Shelly pick out some dresses then she went with the consultant to try them on. Shelly asked that I take pictures and videos on her phone to send to her mom and Gaby. I was getting the camera ready when a text from Gaby came through. I didn’t mean to click on it and was instantly going to click back out when I saw one of my Instagram pictures in their private chat from earlier that morning. Both were making fun of me for the face I was making and my outfit choice. It didn’t appear to be very good nature.

I admit, curiosity got the best of me so I searched my name in the chat. I found multiple pictures that I, my boyfriend or my mom have posted of myself, absolutely ripping them to shreds. Ranging from selfies to posed shots to even a few baby pictures. They’d also make fun of me in general in terms of the way I talked, wore my hair and the way I ate. This went back as far as I could tell, at least a year.

My heart broke. It all felt so juvenile and high school. While we all joke around, I would never do this to them nor have they ever even tried to instigate these types of conversations with me about the other one on one. I was in tears. As someone who was bullied all through middle and high school, it just brought me back to a horrible place. I put the phone in Shelly’s purse and brought it to another employee, telling her to tell Shelly that I had to go. I drove home and had a long cry.

Shelly texted me by the time I made it home asking where I went. I said I was going home and we could talk later. When she did call a few hours later, she was understandably confused and hurt that I left. I told her what I found, explaining that I only looked further because of the initial text I accidentally saw. She went off on me for looking through her private texts and said those were none of my business. She also told me I shouldn’t have left the store without saying anything. I said I didn’t want to make a scene but also knew I couldn’t fake being happy for her.

Shelly told me the texts were “all in good fun” and clearly she loves me because I’m going to be her bridesmaid. She added that I’m only hurt because I chose to read all those texts. Later on, Gaby called to tell me that I invaded Shelly’s privacy and hurt her by walking out.

My boyfriend and mom think I did the right thing by walking out. But obviously, they’re a little biased. I just want some unbiased looks: was I an asshole to look through the texts and then leave?

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The Same People Who Made You Famous Have Gained Nothing From You – Lady Calls Out Peller for Not Inviting His Fans to His Wedding

A Nigerian woman living abroad has taken to social media to criticize popular content creator Peller over his reported decision to invite wealthy personalities to his upcoming wedding while allegedly leaving out many of his loyal supporters.

In a video circulating online, the woman argued that Peller’s dedicated fans played a significant role in helping him achieve fame and deserved to be part of his special day.

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She stated that although the reported ₦1 million aso ebi was not an issue for her financially, she believed the real concern was that many of Peller’s long-time supporters were allegedly not given the opportunity to attend the wedding.
According to the woman, Peller’s followers have consistently supported him throughout his journey, often participating in his online activities and showing unwavering loyalty despite receiving little in return.

Expressing her disappointment, she said:

“Peller, we live in the diaspora here. Your aso-ebi is nothing to us, that was why I bought it for someone. People that made you who you are, that made people notice you, are those who are in need. Those are the people you will say, ‘Go and hit somebody’s account,’ and they won’t even look at you twice, they will do it.”

“They follow you back to back. They can’t afford aso-ebi. Many of them have not been able to gain anything from you, but they never relent. They keep loving you undilutedly.

“I expected you to let people like them come for your wedding. Na Cubana wan chop the whole cow, 22 cows”

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I Was on My Own. You Insisted We Go on a Date, Then Suddenly Wanted Us to Split the Bill – Lady Shares Why She Walked Out of a Dutch Date

A Nigerian woman has shared why she decided to end communication with a man after he suggested they split the bill during their first date.

In a video posted on TikTok, the woman explained that she had been talking to the man for about a month before they agreed to meet in person.

According to her, the man invited her out on a date, but before they met, he introduced the idea of having a Dutch date, where each person pays for their own meal.

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She said she was not comfortable with the arrangement, adding that if she wanted to spend her own money on an outing, she could do so without accepting an invitation from someone else.

Expressing her opinion, she said:

“I was on my own. You insisted on us going for a date, and all of a sudden you’re introducing Dutch dates. If I wanted to go out and spend my money, I wouldn’t need a random man to take me out. I would simply settle myself.

“I’ll leave my house, prepare, do my hair, lashes and everything, then you’ll tell me you want a Dutch date? If you cannot sort the bill on a first date, what exactly are you bringing to the table? Thank God he asked before the date because I blocked and deleted his number immediately,”

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Woman Shares Dramatic Transformation After Leaving Ex-Boyfriend

A woman has shared a before-and-after video of herself, revealing the physical transformation she experienced after ending a relationship with her former boyfriend.

The video, which she posted on Instagram, compared her appearance during the relationship with how she looks now, with the woman claiming that her ex had drained her both mentally and physically.

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Sharing the video, she captioned it:

“Me before my EX and me after that FN”

In another post, she celebrated what she described as a fresh start, writing:

“Not too much for me. Glad to be back return of the MF Mack”

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I Have Four Baby Mamas, and Two Are Currently Pregnant for Me – GehGeh Brags

Nigerian relationship coach Gehgeh has revealed details about his personal life, disclosing that he currently has four baby mamas and that two more women are pregnant with his children.

He made the revelation during a recent appearance on the Echoo Room podcast while speaking with the show’s host, Teddy A.

During the conversation, Teddy A asked Gehgeh about his relationship status.

The interviewer said:

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“So as you dey like this now, you get girlfriend?”

Responding, Gehgeh said:

“I get women.”

The interviewer then asked:

“How many?”

Gehgeh replied:

“They’re many. I get like four baby mamas now. My first child dey like 4 years now, and the youngest dey like months. I still get two women wey still get belle for me.”

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MrBeast Marries Longtime Girlfriend Thea Booysen After 4 Years Together

Popular YouTube creator MrBeast has officially tied the knot with his longtime girlfriend, Thea Booysen, marking a new chapter in their relationship after four years together.

The couple, who have been together since 2022, exchanged their wedding vows in a private ceremony surrounded by close family and friends.

MrBeast confirmed the exciting news by sharing a beautiful wedding photo on his official Instagram page. Alongside the image, he kept his message simple yet meaningful, writing:

““I found mrsbeast ❤️”

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Those of You Women Aged 35 to 40, Where Are Your Husbands? – Woman Slams Nigerians Mocking Her Sister for Marrying an Older Man

A Nigerian woman identified as Angela M. Yarkawan has taken to social media to defend her sister after several users criticized her for marrying a man older than her.

The controversy began after Angela shared the couple’s wedding photos online, congratulating the newlyweds and celebrating the beginning of their new life together.

Reacting to the criticism, Angela strongly defended her sister and questioned why some people were concerned about the couple’s marriage.

In her response, she also directed a message at women who were mocking the relationship, asking those in their mid-to-late thirties and forties where their own husbands were while they criticized someone else’s marriage

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I Have Never Dated a Man Who Asked Me for Money, if he earns 5,000 he must give me 3,000 – Toke Makinwa

Nigerian media personality Toke Makinwa has revealed that she has never been in a relationship with a man who asked her for financial support.

Speaking during an episode of her podcast, Toke Moments, the media star reflected on conversations about women who financially support their partners, saying her personal experience has been quite different.

She said:

“When I hear women say these things, I sit down and I ask myself…..”Men don’t ask me for money?”Maybe there is something written on my head. Maybe before you say ….I give you all my problems. Before you ask me, I am already listing all my problems…Today I have headache,,,maybe that is why! I have never dated a guy who asked me for money.

Even if I date a broke guy and he earns 5k, at least 3k out of that money, he will give it to me. I am thankful for that grace because I have never dated a guy who has confidently asked me for money.”

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She Sneaked Into Our Compound While Someone Was Driving Out – Hair Salon Owner Shares Video of Woman Caught Stealing as She Was Forced to Dance

The owner of O’llyns Hair and Beauty has shared a video on social media showing a woman who was allegedly caught stealing inside her compound.

In the video posted on the salon’s Facebook page, the woman is seen surrounded by people after she was reportedly apprehended on the premises. During the incident, she was allegedly made to dance while those present questioned her.

According to O’llyns Hair and Beauty, the incident occurred after the woman allegedly gained access to the compound by sneaking in through the gate while a vehicle was driving out.

The salon owner said the suspect was later caught before she could leave the premises.

Following the incident, O’llyns Hair and Beauty advised members of the public to remain alert and ensure that their gates are always properly locked to help prevent unauthorized access to their homes or businesses.

She wrote: “ATTENTION EVERYONE 🚨

Today a lady sneaked into our compound while someone was driving out.

God helped us, she was caught red handed.

Please let us be VERY CONSCIOUS of our gate.

Wait for the gate to close properly before leaving.

If you see any unfamiliar person, alert security/neighbors immediately.

God will continue to protect us IJN 🙏

Stay safe!”

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I Want to Freeze My Eggs – TolaniBaj Opens Up on Being Child-Free and Having No Plans to Have Children

Former Big Brother Naija housemate Tolanibaj has shared her plans to freeze her eggs, saying the decision is part of her desire to secure more choices for her future.

The reality TV personality made the disclosure in a recent vlog, where she explained that she has been learning more about fertility preservation before making a final decision.

According to Tolanibaj, she believes taking proactive steps now could help her avoid future regrets, which prompted her to seek professional medical advice.

She said:

“I want to freeze my eggs because I would rather have options than regrets in the future. I realised that I needed more information about the process so I booked an appointment with my gynecologist at one wellness centre”

Although she has no immediate plans to undergo the procedure, the former BBNaija star revealed that she hopes to do so within the next couple of years.

She added:

“I am not freezing my eggs now but I will maybe next year or in two years,”

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I Don’t Have Anywhere to Go – Emotional Moment Woman Breaks Down in Tears After Being Found Sleeping in a Government School Classroom with Her Children

A woman has stirred emotions online after she was reportedly found staying overnight with her children inside a government-owned school classroom.

A video circulating on X captured the moment a group of people confronted her and instructed her to vacate the classroom immediately. During the encounter, the woman emotionally explained that she had nowhere else to live after being forced out of her previous residence.

According to her, the classroom had become the only place where she and her children could sleep at night while she worked as a cleaner at the school.

She said:

“They pursued me from house this where i use since they pursue me from house, so i work here as a cleaner this is where me and my children use to pass the night because there is no where to go.”

When asked about the whereabouts of her husband, the woman revealed that he had abandoned the family before the birth of their youngest child.

She said:

“My husband is not in lagos, he leave us when i was carrying my last child pregnancy so i just decided to stay (In the government school classroom) and manage here with my children”

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