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I found out my friends were mocking me in their chats over my choice of Bridal outfit- Lady laments

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A woman who served as a bridesmaid for her friend recently shared on Reddit her experience of quitting the wedding after discovering hurtful messages on the bride’s phone. 

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According to her, Over the weekend she accompanied her friend “Shelly” to select dresses and during this moment Shelly asked her to take pictures to send to her mother and another friend “Gaby.” While taking the photo, a text from Gaby appeared, which she accidentally captured.

The next morning, curiosity led her to read their private messages. She found that Shelly and Gaby were mocking her and her choice of outfit in their chat. Additionally, she discovered multiple photos of herself, her mother, and her boyfriend, all subjects of ridicule in their conversations.

Feeling deeply hurt, she shared that while she enjoys being fun, she would never stoop to making cruel jokes about others. 

Narrating, she wrote: “I have two friends: Gaby and Shelly. All of us are 23, if that matters. We were roommates in college and stayed in the same city after graduation. While the three of us are close, I’ve always known that Gaby and Shelly are the closest. They have a really sweet friendship.

Shelly is getting married. Gaby is the maid of honor and I’m one of the bridesmaids. Over the weekend, I went with Shelly so she could look at wedding dresses. Gaby was supposed to come with us but got called into work last minute. I helped Shelly pick out some dresses then she went with the consultant to try them on. Shelly asked that I take pictures and videos on her phone to send to her mom and Gaby. I was getting the camera ready when a text from Gaby came through. I didn’t mean to click on it and was instantly going to click back out when I saw one of my Instagram pictures in their private chat from earlier that morning. Both were making fun of me for the face I was making and my outfit choice. It didn’t appear to be very good nature.

I admit, curiosity got the best of me so I searched my name in the chat. I found multiple pictures that I, my boyfriend or my mom have posted of myself, absolutely ripping them to shreds. Ranging from selfies to posed shots to even a few baby pictures. They’d also make fun of me in general in terms of the way I talked, wore my hair and the way I ate. This went back as far as I could tell, at least a year.

My heart broke. It all felt so juvenile and high school. While we all joke around, I would never do this to them nor have they ever even tried to instigate these types of conversations with me about the other one on one. I was in tears. As someone who was bullied all through middle and high school, it just brought me back to a horrible place. I put the phone in Shelly’s purse and brought it to another employee, telling her to tell Shelly that I had to go. I drove home and had a long cry.

Shelly texted me by the time I made it home asking where I went. I said I was going home and we could talk later. When she did call a few hours later, she was understandably confused and hurt that I left. I told her what I found, explaining that I only looked further because of the initial text I accidentally saw. She went off on me for looking through her private texts and said those were none of my business. She also told me I shouldn’t have left the store without saying anything. I said I didn’t want to make a scene but also knew I couldn’t fake being happy for her.

Shelly told me the texts were “all in good fun” and clearly she loves me because I’m going to be her bridesmaid. She added that I’m only hurt because I chose to read all those texts. Later on, Gaby called to tell me that I invaded Shelly’s privacy and hurt her by walking out.

My boyfriend and mom think I did the right thing by walking out. But obviously, they’re a little biased. I just want some unbiased looks: was I an asshole to look through the texts and then leave?

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Be Very Careful of the Water You Step On Along the Road – Actress Tawa Ajisefinni Shares How She Suffered Severe Headaches 15 Years Ago After Stepping on Spiritual Water

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Yoruba actress Tawa Ajisefinni has shared a story about an unusual experience she said happened to her about 15 to 16 years ago while returning from a movie set in Ibadan.

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The actress recounted the experience in a video shared on TikTok, where she spoke in Yoruba and advised people to be careful about where they step, particularly when they come across water on the road.

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According to Tawa, she was returning home from a movie location when she unknowingly stepped on water on the road. She said she later developed severe symptoms after getting home and going to bed.

Sharing her story, she said: “It was this night i remember and I was like I want to share it to the people, about 15-16years ago, was coming from a movie set in Ibadan, I was going home so when I got home, I greeted everyone i behaved normal i ate I slept when it was midnight, My head started banging as if it wanted to fall my head was aching me like i wanted to run mad asumming i didnt hold my head it was like the head wanted to fall down.

“When i woke my mom that my head is aching me she gave me drugs and my mom had different varies of drugs and my mom was like i should take that it is pain relief pain killer, It did not go, when it was morning, my eyes began bringing out water I was like what is going on, my head and body is hot as if they were hitting hammer on it when it was in that morning, my mom told me to go hospital because my issues were getting too much because then i was struggling from one movie location to another just to make money then they gave me 10k, 15k, 5k and then i was sha doing everything and my mom was like then when i dont stay in the house your whala is too much that i was doing back to back and after everything, I went to the hospital and i said i wanted to eat, I could not eat, My body was rejecting the food it was like as if i should die

“Not until one day, one man named Brother lekan came, he came to come and greet my mom and he was like tawa when did you come back from location, how are you? and i was like i just came yesterday and my mom was like (Your sister body is not fine oh) we could not sleep at night since midnight we could not sleep and now that we said we should be going to the hospital was when you came (Brother lekan)”

Tawa continued by explaining that Brother Lekan asked what had happened to her and where she had been before becoming ill.

She said: “Brother lekan was like what happened to me where did i go and I was like i am just coming back from location my face was dull and Brother lekan was like i should not worry that he has a herbal place he can take me to that how we went out he took me in his car that was how we bought soap that they use to wash head and I was told that I stepped on something and they told me that they washed someone head and problems and poured the water on the road and that was where i passed ….. now look at thousands of people that pass that same place i passed …. and then Brother lekan was like what they did is not good that as they washed that person head they were supposed to pour it in gutter or inside bush where people dont pass and me i just passed it and then i saw the water i saw where that water was i know when i stepped on it i just passed my own because when i passed there was around 9pm, when they wanted to wash my head, they losed my hair and washed it (Spritual soap) It was not up to 30minutes i began feeling relieved, my body began getting better that was how they threw the water they used to wash my head in toilet as they flushed it down”

Tawa shared the story while cautioning her followers to be mindful of their surroundings and where they step when walking on the road.

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@tawaajisefinni Be safe out there 🫶🏻❤️❤️❤️ #fyp #mystory #explore #viral ♬ original sound – tawa ajisefinni
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46-Year-Old Bunnie Xo Spotted Kissing Her 24-Year-Old Boyfriend Dylan Wolf During Outing in Los Angeles

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Bunnie Xo, 46, has been spotted getting affectionate with her younger boyfriend, Dylan Wolf, 24, during an outing at The Barrel sports bar in Los Angeles on Sunday.

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Photos obtained by DailyMail showed the couple sharing intimate moments during their time at the bar, while eyewitnesses said they appeared affectionate throughout their visit.

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According to an eyewitness, Wolf initiated the public display of affection, while Bunnie, whose birth name is Alisa Andrea DeFord, was “happy to go along with it.”

The source also described the pair as “very comfortable” with each other and said they appeared to have strong chemistry, although they “rarely talked.”

Bunnie and Wolf were also previously spotted holding hands and kissing while visiting The Crabby Crab in Sherman Oaks, California, on October 1.

The latest sighting comes months after Bunnie finalised her divorce from country rapper Jelly Roll in May, following 10 years of marriage.

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Bobrisky, Ma Pa Wa Na – Nigerians React After Bobrisky Flaunts His Figure 8 Shape in New Photos

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Nigerian crossdresser Bobrisky has caused a stir online after sharing a new photo showing off his figure.

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The social media personality shared the photo alongside the caption: “Midnight vibes, daytime dreams ❤️”

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The new post quickly attracted reactions from Nigerians, with social media users sharing different opinions about the photo and Bobrisky’s appearance.

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North West Turns Heads as She Steps Out With Kanye West and Bianca Censori at ComplexCon

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Kim Kardashian and Kanye West’s daughter, North West, caught attention with her recent appearance at ComplexCon in Los Angeles.

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The young star attended the 10th anniversary edition of the festival alongside her father, Kanye West, and his wife, Bianca Censori.

Photos from the event showed North sporting blue hair while completing her look with fake piercings, giving her outfit an edgy and youthful appearance.

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Kanye, meanwhile, maintained his usual bold style, stepping out in a leather outfit that matched his distinctive fashion sense.

Bianca also attracted attention with her outfit, wearing a tightly fitted PVC trench coat paired with knee-high boots.

North was also photographed posing alongside her stepmother, Bianca Censori, during the event.

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I Used to Beg People to Pay My Rent — Ashmusy Opens Up About Her Struggles in 2017

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Popular Nigerian comedian and content creator Amarachi Amusi, better known as Ashmusy, has opened up about the difficult period she went through before becoming successful.

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Reflecting on her life in 2017, Ashmusy revealed that she had to beg people for financial assistance just to pay her house rent and settle her bills.

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She said she begged a lot during that period and recently became emotional while reflecting on how far she has come.

Ashmusy also said that she sometimes gets so caught up in her busy lifestyle and pursuit of a better life that she forgets where she started from.

Her reflection comes as she looks back at the challenges she faced before achieving the life she has today.

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Na You Know If She Dey Beautiful Because Na Masquerade I Dey See – Nigerians React as Man Showers His Mom With Love on Her Birthday

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Nigerians have reacted to a man’s birthday post after he shared a photo of his mother while celebrating her and describing her as a beautiful woman.

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The woman appeared to be dressed as a devoted Eleha woman, while her face was not visible in the photo shared by her son.

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While the man’s birthday message was filled with appreciation and affection for his mother, some Nigerians focused on the fact that her face was covered.

Some social media users mocked the man for calling his mother beautiful when her face could not be seen, with some questioning how they could know whether she was beautiful without seeing her face.

Celebrating his mother, the man wrote:

“Happy Birthday to my beautiful mum, my safe place, my answered prayer, and one of the greatest blessings ELEDA has given me. ❤️

ELEHA o, I honestly don’t know how to put into words how much you mean to me. You never stop taking care of me. Even when you should be resting, you’re still thinking about me. You hardly sleep when you’re worried about me. You’re always asking if I’ve eaten, begging me to eat when I say I’m not hungry, and checking on me whenever I’m at home to make sure I’m okay.

And one thing that always touches my heart is how you ask if I’ve slept. If I tell you I haven’t, you’ll start with, “Please, go and sleep small.” 😂❤️ It may seem like such a little thing, but those little things are the things I know I’ll carry in my heart forever.

I know you’re not the only person who has loved and cared for me this way, but you are the one who is still here doing it every single day. Since AJAGBE your partner is in where I can not say, yeah, I don’t know who gave birth to my father. “😭❤️ You have carried so much, yet you still find a way to be there for me. I sometimes wonder if the love I have for both of you can ever truly be separated, because so much of who I am is connected to the two of you. ❤️

ELEHA, thank you for loving me so loudly and so quietly at the same time. Thank you for every sleepless night, every “have you eaten?”, every “please sleep,” every check-in, every prayer, every sacrifice, and every moment you have put me before yourself.

I may not always say it, and I may not always know how to show it, but I see you. Even if I don’t talk, I appreciate you. Even if I can’t tell you. I love you more than words can explain.

Today, I thank ELEDA MI for your life. I thank ELEDA for keeping you, strengthening you, and allowing me to have you still here to love and laugh with😂❤️

May this new year of your life bring you peace, good health, happiness, long life, and all the beautiful things your heart deserves. May God continue to protect you and give you many more years to enjoy the fruits of your love and sacrifices. and you shall never cry over any of us

Happy Birthday, Iya awon Alfa❤️🎂🥹

I love you. And no matter how old I become, I’ll always be your child—the one you’ll still ask if they’ve eaten and tell them to “please sleep small.” 😂❤️

God bless you for me, BABY mi. Forever grateful for you. Aya AJAGBE🙏🏽❤️”

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Na Egbere True True ooo- Moment Nigerian Man Runs After Spotting a Bush Baby During a Late-Night Walk as Nigerians React

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A Nigerian man has shared a video showing the moment he reportedly spotted what he identified as an Egebere, commonly known as a bush baby, while walking late at night.

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In the video, the man could be heard speaking in Yoruba as he pointed towards the animal and appeared surprised by what he had seen.

He said:

“Guys i am just seeing something now I saw Egebere (Bus baby)”

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The man then ran towards the animal while repeatedly shouting “Egebere” as he attempted to get closer to it.

The creature could be seen quickly running away as the man followed it. Its face was not clearly visible in the footage, making it difficult to independently establish exactly what animal was captured on camera.

The video has since attracted different reactions from Nigerians on social media.

While some viewers believed the footage showed a bush baby, others questioned the authenticity of the video and suggested that it could be staged as content.

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Upon Everything I Dey Do for the Girl – Man Cries After Discovering His Girlfriend of 2 Years Was Doing Ashawo at Night

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A video making the rounds on social media has captured the moment a man confronted his girlfriend after accusing her of going for ashawo work.

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In the video, the man could be seen confronting the woman and assaulting her while expressing his anger over the situation.

He was heard saying:

“You dey mad, Nothing wey i never do for you, You dey do ashawo, You dey mad”

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People who were around the scene gathered as they tried to stop the man from continuing to beat his girlfriend.

Some of the women at the scene could be heard questioning his actions, with one asking:

“why you con dey beat am”

The man, however, continued to explain why he was angry with his girlfriend, claiming that he had done everything for her but believed she was still involved in ashawo.

He said:

“Upon everything i dey do for the girl, that girl dey do ashawo so as i dey give thatg girl everything”

The situation became emotional as the man burst into tears while his friend tried to calm him down and advised him to relax.

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Men Don Suffer – Moment Lady Was Caught After Being Accused of Using Juju on Her Boyfriend

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A video making the rounds on social media shows the moment a lady was confronted by a group of people who accused her of using a charm on her boyfriend.

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In the video, the group could be heard demanding that the lady bring out what they were looking for as they confronted her over the incident.

One woman, who identified herself as the boyfriend’s sister, was heard questioning what the lady had given her brother and why he had reportedly fallen asleep.

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She said in Pidgin:

“Which kan medicine wey she give my brother wey my brother sleep off”

The lady was then seen bringing out an object that the people confronting her described as a charm.

As soon as she brought it out, those around her reacted in shock, with some of them shouting, “Jesus.”

The group continued questioning her as she was seen untying the object.

A man in the video then made a comment about people who engage in hookups, saying:

“Make una come see those who dey carry hookup dey lose am”

In the background, another woman could be heard crying and repeatedly saying:

“Men don suffer, men don suffer”

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@donaldmarco4 let be careful out there oooo #views #100mlikes #fypシ #goviral #100kviews ♬ original sound – PAIN IS REAL 💔😣
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Take Papa to Evil Forest – Nigerians React as Lady Gives Her Father a Makeover

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A makeup artist has caused a stir on social media after sharing a video showing the moment she gave her father a full makeup makeover.

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The artist shared the video on TikTok, showing her father modelling for her as she worked on his face and completed the transformation.

She captioned the video: “Asked my dad to model for me”

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The video quickly attracted different reactions from social media users, with many people sharing their opinions about the unusual choice of model.

While some users found the video entertaining and praised the makeup artist for practising her craft with her father, others questioned why she decided to apply makeup to him

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@almightydebby TikTok pls make my video go viral 🥹🙏. #menmakeup #creatorsearchinsights #viralvideo #blowthisup ♬ original sound – PRETTY SPEEDY💜🥀🥰

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