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I found out my friends were mocking me in their chats over my choice of Bridal outfit- Lady laments

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A woman who served as a bridesmaid for her friend recently shared on Reddit her experience of quitting the wedding after discovering hurtful messages on the bride’s phone. 

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According to her, Over the weekend she accompanied her friend “Shelly” to select dresses and during this moment Shelly asked her to take pictures to send to her mother and another friend “Gaby.” While taking the photo, a text from Gaby appeared, which she accidentally captured.

The next morning, curiosity led her to read their private messages. She found that Shelly and Gaby were mocking her and her choice of outfit in their chat. Additionally, she discovered multiple photos of herself, her mother, and her boyfriend, all subjects of ridicule in their conversations.

Feeling deeply hurt, she shared that while she enjoys being fun, she would never stoop to making cruel jokes about others. 

Narrating, she wrote: “I have two friends: Gaby and Shelly. All of us are 23, if that matters. We were roommates in college and stayed in the same city after graduation. While the three of us are close, I’ve always known that Gaby and Shelly are the closest. They have a really sweet friendship.

Shelly is getting married. Gaby is the maid of honor and I’m one of the bridesmaids. Over the weekend, I went with Shelly so she could look at wedding dresses. Gaby was supposed to come with us but got called into work last minute. I helped Shelly pick out some dresses then she went with the consultant to try them on. Shelly asked that I take pictures and videos on her phone to send to her mom and Gaby. I was getting the camera ready when a text from Gaby came through. I didn’t mean to click on it and was instantly going to click back out when I saw one of my Instagram pictures in their private chat from earlier that morning. Both were making fun of me for the face I was making and my outfit choice. It didn’t appear to be very good nature.

I admit, curiosity got the best of me so I searched my name in the chat. I found multiple pictures that I, my boyfriend or my mom have posted of myself, absolutely ripping them to shreds. Ranging from selfies to posed shots to even a few baby pictures. They’d also make fun of me in general in terms of the way I talked, wore my hair and the way I ate. This went back as far as I could tell, at least a year.

My heart broke. It all felt so juvenile and high school. While we all joke around, I would never do this to them nor have they ever even tried to instigate these types of conversations with me about the other one on one. I was in tears. As someone who was bullied all through middle and high school, it just brought me back to a horrible place. I put the phone in Shelly’s purse and brought it to another employee, telling her to tell Shelly that I had to go. I drove home and had a long cry.

Shelly texted me by the time I made it home asking where I went. I said I was going home and we could talk later. When she did call a few hours later, she was understandably confused and hurt that I left. I told her what I found, explaining that I only looked further because of the initial text I accidentally saw. She went off on me for looking through her private texts and said those were none of my business. She also told me I shouldn’t have left the store without saying anything. I said I didn’t want to make a scene but also knew I couldn’t fake being happy for her.

Shelly told me the texts were “all in good fun” and clearly she loves me because I’m going to be her bridesmaid. She added that I’m only hurt because I chose to read all those texts. Later on, Gaby called to tell me that I invaded Shelly’s privacy and hurt her by walking out.

My boyfriend and mom think I did the right thing by walking out. But obviously, they’re a little biased. I just want some unbiased looks: was I an asshole to look through the texts and then leave?

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She Told Me to Change Everything in the Toilet — Man Sacks Staff After Client Finds Poo During House Inspection

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A Nigerian businessman has shared how he lost a valuable client after one of his workers failed to flush a toilet during a house inspection.

The Man explained that the incident happened when a client visited the property for an inspection and went into the visitor’s toilet, only to find human waste that had not been flushed.

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According to him, the situation angered the client, who demanded that the entire toilet be replaced, including the wall tiles and other fittings, before she would make payment.

The businessman said he confronted his workers after the client left, but none of them admitted to using the toilet.

He eventually sent all the workers off the site and was left with the cost of replacing the entire toilet.

Sharing the experience on X, He wrote:

“A client came for inspection yesterday and found poo in her visitor’s toilet.🤦‍♂️

One of my workers used it and didn’t flush.

She got angry immediately. Told me to replace the entire WC, wall tiles, everything in that toilet.

At my expense.She left in anger.

I gathered my workers,Nobody confessed. I sent all of them off site.

Now I’m paying for a full toilet replacement because someone couldn’t flush.

I don’t only post my wins. This is one of the losses.

Dealing with humans is the most difficult job on any site.”

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I Returned the Bride Price He Paid on My Head – Woman Ends Marriage After Accusing Husband of Abandoning Their 3 Children and Leaving Her With All the Responsibilities

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A Nigerian lady has taken to social media to reveal that she has returned the bride price her ex-husband paid when they got married, following a disagreement over the welfare of their three children.

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The woman shared her experience on Facebook, explaining that she and her former husband had been divorced for nine months. According to her, during that period, her ex-husband allegedly failed to contribute financially towards the children’s school fees, feeding, medical bills and clothing.

She claimed that she contacted him to have a mature conversation about their three children, particularly because the children had reportedly spent some time out of school due to disagreements between the former couple.

According to the woman, the situation became more difficult after schools resumed and she needed to register the children. She said a school close to her home was charging ₦370,000 per child for first-time registration, including school books, test books and other required items.

For her three children, she said the total cost would amount to ₦1.11 million.

The woman explained that she was not demanding that her ex-husband pay the entire amount but wanted him to contribute part of the expenses since the children are also his responsibility.

She wrote:

“I called my ex-husband for us to have a conversation & talk maturely like adults that we are concerning our 3 kids that since January 9 months we divorced he hasn’t sent a dime shi-shi kobo for 3 whole kids down from school fees, feeding, medications 💊, clothing, etc nothing nothing. he doesn’t even care weather they are feeding, schooling or not while he has money is not as if he’s broke. & he told me that God forbid bad thing that he will never ever in his entire life send anything for them. That he have the money but he will not send. Ok now school hv resumed & we all know how Abuja schools are expensive especially this my area any good school here is expensive. & my 3 kids needs to be registered this first term entering b/c they hv been home for terms due to the quarry’s between I & my ex & he refusal for putting them in school. Now good school that is closer to my house Incase of picking them up there registration for first entrance is 370k per child including there main school book, test book, different wears like practically everything. Now multiply 370k into 3 = 1,110,000 I even told him to come make the enquirements himself in the school to be sure am telling the truth. The main point is that am not even asking him to bring all but to contribute even if it’s half or quarter of the money. b/c I know am married now soo am not expecting him to do all they are also my kids & have be taking care of their bills from head to toes 3 of them for 9 good months now. He still insisted, shouted at me as if am still under him that as he say & will always say that he will never ever ever that over his dead 💀 body will he ever send money to me for them. All I have to say is that is well. God is watching.”

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One More Person to Love – Ciara Celebrates as She Reveals She Is Pregnant With Her 5th Child

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American singer Ciara has announced that she is expecting her fifth child, and her fourth baby with her husband, NFL star Russell Wilson.

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The 40-year-old singer shared the exciting news on Instagram on Sunday, September 6, posting photos and videos that showed off her growing baby bump.

In one of the photos, Ciara could be seen holding up five fingers as she celebrated the growing size of her family.

Sharing the photos, Ciara captioned the post:

“One more person to Love 🖐🏽🥺🖤”

The pregnancy marks the couple’s fourth child together. Ciara and Russell Wilson are already parents to daughters Sienna, 9, and Amora, 2, and son Win, 6.

Ciara also has an older son, Future Zahir, 12, whom she shares with rapper Future from a previous relationship.

Ciara and Wilson got married in 2016 and have continued to build their family together. The couple has previously spoken about their desire to have more children, with Wilson even referring to the possibility of welcoming a fifth baby as “cinco.”

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Social Media Buzzes as Woman Shares Before-and-After Photos

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A woman who has spent the last four years transforming her appearance with extreme tattoos and body modifications has shared her before-and-after photos online.

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The woman, known as Toxii, revealed that she has undergone several procedures, including multiple piercings, tattooing her eyes and tongue, removing her nose, splitting her tongue in half, and getting forehead implants resembling horns.

Posting the photos on social media, she captioned them: “Transformation 2019 vs 2023.”

While some praised her bold transformation, others were quick to criticize her new appearance, sparking a mixed reaction online.

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He Said He Had No Money to Buy Food — Beggar Cries After Restaurant Workers Search Him and Find Money in His Pocket, Use It to Buy Him Food

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A video showing the moment a young beggar was searched after entering a restaurant to ask for food has gone viral on social media.

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In the video shared by TikTok user Danummaphonestore, the boy could be seen entering the restaurant and asking for food. Workers then searched him and discovered a small amount of money in his pocket.

As they counted the money and asked him questions about it, the boy was seen crying and nodding his head.

The workers later decided to buy food for him. In another part of the video, the boy was seen crying as he was served rice, salad and meat, along with a bottle of Maltina.

Sharing the video on TikTok, the user wrote:

“HE SAYS HE DOES NOT HAVE THE MONEY TO BUY FOOD EVEN THOUGH HE HIDES MENAKON YASE ROBA TO GET PURE WATER TODAY HE WOULD HAVE SPENT HIS MONEY IN MALTINA 😂💔”

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With All Your Carefulness, She Still Left You for a Married Man — Nigerians Drag Ex-Boyfriend of Chief Lawrence’s Second Wife as Their Old Photos Trend

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The controversy surrounding popular Delta businessman Chief Lawrence and his wives continues to generate attention online following the recent drama involving his first wife, Emerald Ibisobia.

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The saga began after Emerald took to social media to call out her husband over his alleged refusal to pay their children’s school fees.

The situation has now taken another turn, as some Nigerians have moved their attention to the Facebook page of Sophia Oke’s former boyfriend, Nnochirinonye Chigozie.

Social media users reportedly stormed Chigozie’s page as they dug into his past relationship with Sophia, who is now married to Chief Lawrence.

Available posts indicate that Chigozie and Sophia dated in 2020, although it is not clear how long their relationship lasted or when they eventually went their separate ways.

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You Igbos, Your Parents Would Bury You. When You Die, I Would Rejoice — Lady Slams Igbo People

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A Nigerian woman identified as Ruth Abioye has come under criticism on social media following a Facebook post containing disturbing statements directed at people of Igbo origin.

In the post, Ruth made comments wishing death on Igbos, regardless of their political views, and spoke about parents burying their children.

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She also said she would rejoice over the death of an Igbo person, linking her comments to what she described as the use of death in political arguments.

Ruth further stated that she had abandoned the principle of not celebrating another person’s death and claimed she wanted Igbos to experience what she described as the “taste of your medicine.”

She wrote: “”This is not a prayer but a sure thing. 
“You igbos with parents , your parent would use their hands and búry you all.. 

“You Igbos with children, your children will diè before you!! 

“Since you love to use de@th as a score to your political stand… 

“Any de@th, be it a bigot or not in as much you are Igbo I will rejoice… 

“Rejoice over mine when I di£, I don’t give a fúck!! 

“For this picture, this man will use his hand and bury all the children made through his Spèrm. 

“EDIT: The end of the Omoluabi era in me is gone, I am not God but I will give you Igbos in General the taste of your medicine… 

“Is the Omoluabi in Us, that made we Yorubas not to ever rejoice over someone’s de@th… 

“So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets. Matthew 7:12”

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Big Ogas Sleeping With Young Women Working for Them, E No Go Better for Una — Woman Calls Out Man and His Second Wife

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A Nigerian woman identified as Chinazor Peace has taken to social media to share her opinion about the ongoing controversy involving the trending second wife of Delta businessman Chief Lawrence.

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The development comes after a TikTok drama involving Emerald Ibisobia, the first wife of Chief Lawrence, who called out her husband over his refusal to pay their children’s school fees.

In a post shared on Facebook, Chinazor criticised men who pursue relationships with other women despite having wives, particularly when those women are aware of their marital status.

According to Chinazor, the woman who married Chief Lawrence benefited from the businessman after he had risen from a difficult financial situation. She suggested that the first wife had been with him during his early years when he had little.

Chinazor also said that if she were in the position of the first wife, she would not leave the matrimonial home for the second wife.

She wrote: “Big Oga’s dat re sleeping with small gals working for dem,e no go béttérrr for una.

U have a quality wife at home, and u re sléép!ng with dis small gal.

D gal on d other hand use chief excapé povertyy.

If am d wife I no go leaf my home for her,

I will stay back and make sure she doesn’t have peâce”

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Man with extreme tattoos and body modifications shows off new name and look in his passport, people reacts

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Self-proclaimed “human devil” Diabão Faro Do Prado has shared photos on social media showcasing his latest body modification: a nose removal.

Diabão, whose real name is Michael Faro Do Prado, has gained fame for his extreme body modifications. 

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On his Instagram page, named “Diabão Faro Do Prado” (with “Diabão” meaning “Devil”), he announced his new look, which includes black-colored eyes and horns on both sides of his head.

He captioned the photo: “MICHAEL IS THE MAN, MY NAME IS DEVIL!!!!”

Does he feel pain with the modifications?, He said: “I have a good resistance to pain, I don’t think anything is so painful, I suffer a lot more in the post-procedures than at the time.

“And the truth is that there are changes that without anaesthesia would be almost impossible to do, I would love not to feel any pain.

“But if I have to feel pain, to achieve what I want, for sure I will face it!”

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If Another Woman’s Husband Gives You Peace, Snatch Him — Woman Tells Ladies

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A Nigerian woman identified as Golden Ngozika has stirred discussion online after advising women to go after another woman’s husband if the man can give them peace.

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Golden made the comment while reacting to the dragging of a first wife identified as Emerald, who had called out her husband over his refusal to pay their children’s school fees.

Reacting to the situation, Golden took to Facebook to share her opinion, telling women not to feel guilty about choosing a man who they believe would give them peace, even if he is married to someone else.

In her first post, she wrote:

“So if you are following me don’t expect me to start !nsulting my fellow wüman over a man that chooses her or another

Even as I type my husbànd s!de check Dey here they read my comment”

She further made her position clear in the comments, where she advised women to take another woman’s husband if they believe being with him would bring them peace.

She wrote:

“If anothêř wüman husband w!|| give you more peace snâtch him without looking back”

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