A 42yr old south african lady who has beards and hairs all over her body said she loves herself despite getting negative comments from trolls.
The lady identified as Khosi Nkanyenzi Buthelezi suffers from excessive growth on the face, body, leg, arm and back.
She made it known that she started noticing the excess growth when she was a Teenager but never took it serious because other women in her family also have this and they cherish it.
Khosi explained: “I grew up accustomed to hairy women like my aunts being seen as blessed, strong and strict so I figured it was something I had inherited.
“Hence, I never approached a doctor about my body hair, I had no physical issues.
“But when I finally visited my GP, they suggested hormone-level tests for fertility and Polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS). However, they both came back negative.
“I could have children if I wanted to and there was no need for hormonal treatment, it all seemed fine.”
Khosi explained that she had to undergo Laser hair removal treatment which wored for a while but unfortunately later, The hair came in so much excess than the usual way.
She said: “After 10 sessions, the hair became finer and my skin was smooth. I was convinced it worked.
“However when I stopped for a year the hair started growing back and I had to go back to razor shaving
“At her wits end with the growth, Khosi abandoned the battle and instead decided to ‘love’ herself – adding that beauty comes in all forms.
“I stopped shaving and instead, started to love myself, I learned that self-acceptance is a crucial aspect of self-care.
“It is the foundation for our confidence and self-esteem.

How people react when she see her in public, she said: “‘People in public have reacted with shock, fascination, disgust and disapproval of my beard, but I am actively working on unlearning the need for external validation.
“Unfortunately, people can be judgmental and cruel towards someone who looks different in some way, so, it’s important to remember that their opinions and comments do not define my worth.
“I walk around anywhere and everywhere including the mall, restaurants, and events and I have learned to ignore stares and comments as much as possible.
“If someone is particularly rude or offensive, I speak up and assert boundaries. I deserve respect and dignity.
“One guy stated that I just need a p**nis and that I’m a male.”

Accepting how she looks and wished her hairs were softer a easier to maintain, she said;
“I take great pride in my facial hair and incorporate beard maintenance into my daily hygiene routine
“I do wish that it was softer but due to my thick, curly hair, it appears like a dense bush despite having long strands.
“But now I am so accustomed to it that I often forget I have hair on my face!
“Ultimately, it is up to me to decide how I want to present and express myself and whether or not I want to keep the beard.
“It has become an important part of my identity.”