A South African man, Tshepo Maphepha, shared his joy on social media, celebrating his wives and expressing his happiness in being in a polygamous marriage.

Calling himself “the happiest man on earth,” he wrote, “My polygamy journey – I am the happiest when I am surrounded by my 3 women. Love is what you make it to be. Never let anyone tell you how your love life should be when you know exactly what you want.”

See his post below……..

BBNaija star Nengi is reportedly pregnant with her first child. In a post shared on Instagram by @Truthicon1, a video showed Nengi stepping out in style, wearing a baggy top, shorts, and black shades, sparking pregnancy rumors.

The caption of the video read, “Nengi is pregnant 🤰,” which has since stirred excitement among fans and followers, though there has been no official confirmation from Nengi herself.

See video below……….

Read the reactions below…………

A man identified as Engr. Francis has advised men not to allow their wives to befriend divorced women, claiming that such friendships could have a negative influence on their marriages.

This statement came after another man shared his concern that financial struggles could lead to divorce. He expressed that even if he provides for his family, any financial issues could result in the end of his marriage.

In response, Francis emphasized that a man should prevent his wife from forming close relationships with divorced women, as they might mislead her into making poor decisions.

He stated, “Rule number one: never allow your wife make friends with divorced women, bro. I don talk finish. This my 20 years happily married.”

See their conversation below………

A woman named Minnie F. Baby took to social media to announce that she has divorced her husband, revealing that she was never attracted to him and that he was “too good” for her. In her post, Minnie expressed that she had spent two years feeling unhappy in the marriage, as she was in denial about her true desires.

She wrote: “I spent 2 years of my life unhappy with this man! I’ve been in denial about my desires for women and I’m ready to live in my truth. I was never attracted to this man. I never fell in love with this man. My husband was just a good guy that I felt I needed, but I never wanted him. IDGAF what anyone thinks about me. I’m choosing me and my happiness. I’m much prettier when I smile, and a smile is something this man never gave me. I FILED THE DIVORCE!!!!!”

Minnie also introduced her new lover, a woman she met at a truck stop. In her post, she explained how she had felt an instant connection: “The day I saw you at that truck stop in Mobile, filling that 18-wheeler up, I instantly felt butterflies. Baby, in one month, you gave me a feeling that a man couldn’t give me in 2 years. I’m tired of hiding my true self. I want you to know I’m ready to walk away from my marriage and spend my life with you. I love you, woman.”

Brazilian influencer Suellen Carey, who made headlines last year for marrying herself, has now “divorced” herself due to feelings of loneliness.

Suellen initially stated that she married herself because she didn’t want to depend on a man. READ HERE

However, in a recent update, she shared that after undergoing 10 therapy sessions, she decided to end her marriage to herself. Despite putting in a lot of effort to make it work, she realized through self-reflection that it was time to move on.

“Self-analysis and reflection are necessary,” she explained, noting that this decision was the best choice for her well-being.

A lady named Eyram Yehoussie has shared her perspective on why many men in their 20s get married earlier than men in their 30s.

According to Eyram, men in their 30s and 40s often remain single because they lack qualities that younger men possess. She explained that men in their 20s tend to show more respect and treat women better compared to their older counterparts.

She stated: “These days, you realize that the young boys in their 20s have so much respect and treat women well, unlike their older brothers in their 30s and 40s. That’s why you now see more younger guys dating older women. How do you think they are attracting them? Respect!

“That’s why you will find a man with a fine face losing out to someone who may not have the best looks but wins with his consistency and effort towards the woman.”

See video below………

“Men in their 30s and 40s don’t have sense. The youngings in their 25s are bagging women their older brothers can’t manage to get because they treat them with respect” – Serial Entrepreneur, Eyram Yehoussie
pic.twitter.com/XrdRhupkJh

— SIKAOFFICIAL🦍 (@SIKAOFFICIAL1) September 3, 2024

A Ghanaian woman has expressed her heartbreak after her husband left her because she is not educated.

In an interview with SOMPA FM, she shared that her husband told her she wasn’t educated enough to be his wife. Despite being together for 24 years, she revealed that after their divorce, she wasn’t given any financial support.

“After 24 years of being together, he divorced me without giving me GH¢1,” she said.

See the video below…..

@oheneniadazoaofficial

Part 2: Immigration Officer claims his wife is not his class after years of marriage

♬ original sound – Oheneni Adazoa

A woman has taken to social media to advise brides to stop giving out cheap gifts to their friends after they spend a lot of money on expensive *aso ebi* outfits.

She explained that it’s not easy to purchase and sew clothes with such a huge amount of money and urged brides to give gifts that match the effort and money spent.

Her post sparked a lot of reactions online: One person commented, “They should give us one boy EACH as a gift.”

Another shared, “I’ve already decided not to join the men wearing *agbada* anymore. The last time I did, I almost starved; I had to go buy food.”

Someone else wrote, “You’ll spend 100k on clothes and hair, and deal with the stress and time. Then, after the wedding, the bride will stop talking to us 😂.”

Another added, “Nothing hurts more than when they later divorce 😭😂.”

One more person shared, “They gave my sister bathroom slippers inside a big customized carton 😂😂😂.”

See video below………

@vickyblack201

Listen and he blessed

♬ original sound – Vicky🦋

Weeks after being forced to withdraw from the Miss South Africa pageant, Chidinma Onwe Adetishina has been crowned Miss Universe Nigeria 2024.

 The 23-year-old beats 24 contestants at the event held at Eko Hotel and Suites in Lagos State on August 31st.

Chidinma faced backlash earlier in South Africa, where some critics argued that she was not eligible for Miss South Africa because her father is not South African. 

Although her father is Nigerian and her mother is from Mozambique, Chidinma was raised in Soweto, South Africa.

Her win in Nigeria comes as a triumphant return to the pageant world after the controversy.

See photos below…………

Nigerian actress Kemi Lala Akindoju sparked a debate on social media by sharing her thoughts on marriage, childbirth, and the tradition of children automatically taking their father’s surname.

Quoting scripture, she expressed her belief that women should have the choice of whether or not to take their husband’s last name, instead of it being something men enforce.

She said, “Scripture actually says the man cleaves to the woman (but what do I know). Most importantly, a woman should be allowed to choose whether she wants to change her name, keep it, or compound it.”

Kemi also questioned why, after giving birth, children automatically take their father’s surname and are considered the father’s property. She admitted that this tradition troubles her deeply, especially considering what women go through to bring children into the world.

She continued, “Honestly, if we really want to follow the idea that ‘two shall become one,’ the couple should merge both surnames. I still question why children automatically inherit their father’s state of origin, surname, and why the man ‘owns’ the child. It messes with my head so much, yet it’s the woman who goes through a life-transforming process to birth the children, only to be relegated. I don’t have all the answers, but I haven’t found any scripture that says a woman must take her husband’s name. Scripture actually says the man cleaves to the woman (but what do I know).

“Most importantly, a woman should have the freedom to choose. Whether she wants to change her name or not, or compound it. It’s strange that boys are never raised to think their identity will change, but because of her gender, a woman is raised to know that she shouldn’t get too comfortable with the name and identity she’s known all her life. I don’t have all the answers, but I strongly question this practice.”