A woman has candidly shared her reflections on turning 30 without having a child, husband, home, or even a boyfriend.

Speaking openly about societal pressures and personal expectations, she revealed that many people encourage her to embrace 30 as a significant milestone, while others warn that time is running out.

Reflecting on this, she noted how frequently people share regrets about things they wished they had known before entering their thirties.

She also shared the pressure she faces from her parents, who often remind her that many women her age are already married. However, she remains firm in her belief that everyone’s path is unique and guided by God.

She said: “If you guys know, I am technically unemployed and when it comes to things that society especially from a Nigerian home things that i have supposed to achieve by this age things that our mothers, out aunties, out grandmothers have achieved by the age that is typically they have had kids by this age at least one child, they would maybe not a home owner but they would be married or have a boyfriend.

“If you guys know with me i have given up on love so even dating or in other to be married you must even still be you know try to romancitize somebody like i have given up on love at this stage of my life so a husband or a marriage even being on the horizon so with that in mind I was obviously reflecting where is my friendship group here all my friends in general we are all in different part of life i have friends that are married have kids, i even have a friend that have a long-term boyfriend and they are planning when they are going to get married they are also planning when to have kids because she is really adamant that she wants I think 3-4 kids and she does not want to be a mother like at the age of 34 that she wants to have kids as soon as possible.

“Then i have another friend who actually said to herself that in 2025 she wants to go travelling she hasn’t been able to travel because she has been sick for many years and she was like all the years i couldn’t travel i have to beat this; and i completely understand so for that friend because her health has been a challenge for years and she is able to overcome it she wants to do something she always wanted to do which was to travel so having friends that are different stages in life here and you know in terms of especially from a Nigerian household societal okay these are things that you are supposed to have achieved by a certain age.

Advising ladies like her, she said: “If you are 30 and in the same position like me and you don’t have a man or you don’t look like you are getting married in the next couple of years but not in a next couple months and you don’t have any kids and you haven’t bought your first property this video is not to comfort you it is not to highlight positive in a negative situation because for me it is all about perspective I want to say that i have always felt to the depth of me that my life is my life we have seen so many incidents where life is taken before we thought it would like people die young people die old for me my life and life itself can change in a snap of finger .”

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Zendaya and her longtime boyfriend of five years, Tom Holland, are officially engaged!  

The couple, who publicly confirmed their relationship in 2021, are now taking the next step toward marriage. According to reports from TMZ, sources close to the pair confirmed the engagement news, sparking excitement among fans.  

Zendaya also acknowledged the engagement during an interview with the “Los Angeles Times”. When the reporter pointed at her left hand and asked, “Are you engaged?” Zendaya responded with a smile, confirming the happy news herself.  

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Lisa Archbold, a Kiwi passenger flying from Salt Lake City to San Francisco, claimed she was humilated from a Delta flight for not wearing a bra.

Speaking with The Herald, Lisa recounted the incident, explaining that she felt unwelcome from the moment she boarded the plane. Things escalated when a member of the airline’s ground crew approached her at her seat and asked to speak with her privately.

“I’m thinking, someone has died or they found something weird in my bag,” she said. However, the ground crew member said loudly, “I need to speak to you in private. Follow me.”

According to Lisa, the crew member told her: “It’s Delta’s policy to remove anyone in revealing clothing from the aircraft. I will allow you to stay on the plane if you put your jacket on.”

Sharing the photo of her outfit on social media, she wrote: “I was dressed like a little boy in baggy pants and shirt, I had no idea what she was talking about,” 

 She added: “Neither were the men on that flight and lots have bigger breasts than me.”

A woman named Avalon Mira has shared her inspiring journey from poverty to financial success, revealing that her fame and fortune came from dressing up as a “naughty Shrek character,” Doris.

Avalon recounted her struggles, explaining that she once lived in extreme poverty, stealing food to survive and struggling to pay bills and rent.

She said: “I used to be so broke

“I couldn’t afford rent or bills, and was forced to steal food for my family.

“Doris has changed everything.

“I’ve never made this much money in my entire life.

“I’m finally able to travel and see the world.

“For my birthday, I’m going to an island near Aruba and next year I’m going to Japan and Greece.

“My son and I have a really good life, and I’m so grateful for it.

“Sometimes, it still doesn’t feel real.”

How she feels getting creepy comments from fans telling her to perform the shrek character “Doris” she said: “People are freaks.

“When I first posted videos of her, I had loads of DMs and comments from people saying they had a crush on her and that I’d made Doris look ‘hot’.

“It was only a matter of time before the stranger requests came rolling in.”

Does her family complains about her career……..? she said: “My family says no matter what I do they’ll support me and love me.

“Even if they don’t agree with what I do, they realise that I’m an adult.

“They think dressing up as Doris is so funny.

“But my mum doesn’t know just how sexy I make the character look.”

A woman based abroad, identified as Sukanada, has shared that she would never date a Nigerian man.

In a now-deleted Twitter post, she explained that her decision stemmed from an experience where she once asked a Nigerian man if he was married. He claimed his wife had passed away, but she later discovered that his wife was actually alive.

“I don’t do Nigerian men; I’m actually very scared of them. I once asked a Nigerian man if he was married, and he said he was, but that his wife had passed away. Turns out, she was very much alive and well,” she wrote

A tourist named Maxine shared her eerie experience of encountering what she believed to be a ghost that prevented her from using the restroom.

Maxine explained that while visiting the Earl Grey Tea Rooms in New York, she tried five times to push open the door to the ladies’ room, but couldn’t get through.

Feeling shocked, she went downstairs to ask the staff if the door was stiff or if someone was inside.

However, when she finally managed to open the door, she was shocked to find no one in the restroom.

In a chat with Mail online she expressed her surprise at the strange encounter, leaving her convinced that something supernatural is present.

She said: “I’ve been in the tea rooms before. It’s little oldy worldy place. A bit eerie, I think.I tried the door and I couldn’t get in. I tried it quite a few times.

“I pushed and I pulled it, and I still couldn’t get in.

“I thought maybe someone was in there.

“So I hung around on the landing for probably three or four minutes, and I came down and I said, I can’t get in – is the door stiff or is there somebody in there?’She looked at me really oddly, and she said, there’s no one in there.

“We close soon. I went back upstairs, and then I pulled the door and it opened straight away. It was really weird. I didn’t really think about it straight away. But then on the train home, I said it was weird – as if somebody was not allowing me to go in.

“Like when you put your weight in the way.

” I thought there was something stopping me from getting in there 100 per cent – like it was having a bit of a game with me. There’s definitely a presence there.

“I went with my friend. I said you come with me when I go to the loo, I’m not going on my own! I didn’t say it was me who had the experience and me and my friend were talking about it, and the lady said ‘Oh no, that’s a load of cobblers!

Makeup artist Kexiah recently shared her experience of being asked to leave a wedding by the bride and event planner after overstaying to film content for social media.

Kexiah, who owns the luxury makeup and hair business “The Key Look,” recounted that it all happened at a wedding in September.

She and her team arrived to do makeup for the bride and bridesmaids, but the situation took a turn when she was asked to leave after the makeup was done. Later, she returned to film the wedding events for her social media content.

“I was so excited about the content we could get, so I kept filming…….I also wanted some BTS to share with out social media.” she said in a part

She continued: “I was going full makeup and full on content y’all,’ the makeup artist said,

“I had everyone laughing all morning,’ she claimed. ‘There was literally not a [dull] moment all day.’

“Everyone kept telling me to stay for the wedding because it would be so much fun and I bring so much good energy.

“I told them I don’t know when I’m going to leave but we are booked to come to the venue. I also told them I’ll continue to film.”

As she was filming, she revealed on how the assistant wedding planner approached her and told her that the couples want her to leave.

she added: “What did I do??? I’m just so confused.

“I said to her I understand you and your husband want me to leave,” she recounted, repeating several times that she was ‘confused.’

“I didn’t do anything to anybody, like I’m so confused,” she shared.

“I said thank you for allowing me to be apart of your wedding day but I’m going to go ahead and go.

“It was so embarrassing and so crazy.

“I literally did nothing to nobody at this wedding.”

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Like why wouldn’t you just leave? Why you crying in front of the bride like it’s your day? Just inappropriate as hell pic.twitter.com/aLmgylYOXH

— Jelly Santos (@MrsJellySantos) September 11, 2024

Singer Paul Okoye, also known as Rudeboy, and his wife, Ivy Ifeoma, recently celebrated the upcoming arrival of their first child together with a baby shower in the United States.

Paul shared videos on his Instagram story, showing Ivy dressed in a stunning red gown with a “Bride-to-Be” sash, surrounded by friends who came to celebrate the special moment with her.

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Nollywood actress and producer Adanma Luke has once again taken to social media to plead with Nigerians to forgive her over the tragic death of the late actor Junior Pope.

It could be recalled that the actor passed away in April this year after drowning when their boat capsized in the River Niger while returning from a movie shoot.

In a recent post, Adanma begged Nigerians for forgiveness as she recounted the heartbreaking ordeal. She revealed that before they went on set, she had requested a safer location but was eventually given the location in Asaba where Junior Pope tragically lost his life.

She also mentioned that she had asked for life jackets, but was reassured that there was no need to worry since it wasn’t the first time people had shot movies there.

Adanma shared that the incident has deeply affected her, leaving her unsure of how to approach people for work, as she fears no one would want to work with her now. 

She also revealed that the tragedy has taken a toll on her mental health, pushing her into depression.

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A woman has taken to social media to express her frustration after being rejected for a job because she wore shorts to the interview.

In a video shared on TikTok, she vented about how the recruiter asked her to go home and change her clothes, despite her outfit consisting of a short trouser, T-shirt, and a matching jacket. She expressed disbelief, stating that she found nothing wrong with her attire.

She captioned the video with: “I cannot believe that the recruiter asked me to change my interview clothes then come back. I look very neat and professional, so no!”

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@mtyreshiadaily I cannot believe the recruiter asked me to change my interview clothes then come back. I look very neat and professional, so no! #jobhunting #fypシ゚viral ♬ original sound – Tyreshia