HOW WE MET. I met my husband in school in 2012, we were classmates. I was a Direct Entry student so I joined them in 200 lvl second semester as I deferred the first semester because of an accident I had at that time.
We didn’t click at first, in fact my first impression of him was that he was very proud, as someone asked him to explain something to me and he said he couldn’t because he was angry, omo I cried that day ehn🤣🤣.
With time, I got familiar with everyone in the class; it was a small class of about 28 people, with everyone living close to each other and were very close majorly because of how much time spent together doing studio work.
I later found out he was a very cool and kind person. It was Ramadan that made us closer because we were the only Muslims in the class.
So occasionally I would give him the remaining food that I cooked for Iftar and he used to come call me on his way to the mosque.
At some point we just became really close buddies and because of our closeness people started shipping us together.
It was really annoying because at that time it was totally a platonic friendship and it somehow made me withdraw from him.
I guess it was the withdrawal that made both of us realize how much we really liked each other because we started to miss each other’s company. You know the saying that absence makes the heart go fonder.
This prompted us to have a full blown discussion about our friendship, people’s perceptions and how he realized that he actually missed our friendship and wanted me in his life full time as his woman.
Omo at that point I had already realized how much I liked him too but I did shakara that I’ll think about it and get back to him.
It was on my birthday when he pulled an epic surprise that mesmerized me that I accepted his proposal to be his woman.
I am big on acts of service and that birthday was already looking very sad because it was on a weekend and all my friends had to go for a field work in a course which I wasn’t taking because of my deferment.
So I was basically home alone that Saturday drowning in the sadness of spending my birthday alone for most of the day, when I heard a knock on the door about 10am.
The shock and joy on my face when I saw him with some goodies for me was out of this world. Not about the goodies but about the fact that he was present.
I immediately asked why he hadn’t gone for his fieldwork because I know it’s something that could take more about 4 to 5 hours and he said he had left home as early as 5am to start his own share of the work in order to be with me because he didn’t want me to be all alone.
The gesture really burst my brain as I felt really special and that was the moment I realized that that was my man and it was time to stop doing shakara.
We started dating that very day. To be honest, those times I never really had ‘husband’ at the back of my mind.
I was just really happy being with someone I love and enjoying the moments together.
I guess I didn’t want to put my hopes too high because of past experiences but I used to pray to God to keep us if he was for me or separate us on time if he wasn’t.
A lot of my other friends who didn’t really know him couldn’t wrap their head around the fact that I was dating someone that was my mate; my course mate for that matter and they just advised me not to really bank on the relationship lasting.
I guess their talks got to me because I somehow expected that maybe the relationship would be over after school, but as God would have it, it kept waxing stronger and he just kept giving me more reasons to be falling and refalling in love with him again and again.
Even after he went for service he’ll still take time to come check up on me during my extra semester.
But I must confess that being in a long distance relationship was a whole lot for both of us at first as it was different from what we started with.
I just thank God that we were able to overcome that with effective communication because as time went on we realized that it would be the new order of our relationship.
During my NYSC I was lucky to be able to redeploy to the state where he was but sadly it was a big city and my LGA was super far from his,so long distance relationship was still the order of the day although it wasn’t as bad as before because we could plan to see during the weekends and all.
He finished service 3 months after I started and we got back to our regular long distance. I guess it was at that point I realized that it seems this man isn’t going anywhere o.
His head is very correct and I’m so lucky to have an awesome guy like this.
Thankfully, both started working and did our masters in different states and every every was still looking good.
He moved to the state I was in 2020, we got married in March, 2022 and we have a beautiful baby boy now. Our relationship was 10 years in November 2022. Thank you for reading.
My Wife cooks for me and makes sure My food is in Hot cooler- Man appreciates his wife, shows off food she prepared for him
A Nigerian man identified as vincentdania appreciated his wife on social media for always being there for hm at all times.
In a post he shared on Tiktok, He said his wife makes sure he goes to work with hot cooler and fresh food. he also showed off the meals his wife prepares for him all the time each day he goes to work.
Reacting, @_zamzy_ Wrote: We no get money to contribute. Na your wife, she’s supposed to feed you, make una talk important matter, cost of living don day choke the living
@shez_kemi Wrote: I like men who do appreciate their wivesbless u sir
See video below……..
@vincentdaniaThank you my Ekaobong
If you don’t send money for your child food, I will expose you- Portable babymama calls out singer
Honeyberry, One of Singer Portable babymama calls him out for being a deadbeat father to their child.
According to her, Portable claim of taking care of his child is false and the last time he sent money to her was 6 months ago.
She also explained on how he sends money to his other baby mama but when it is hers, he snubs her and lies to his followers.
See video below……
@therealadeshewa550E don happen 😂💃♬ original sound – 🌸Adeshewa🌸
Regina daniels receives brand new car as Valentine gift
Actress Regina daniels flaunts a brand new suv car she got as a valentine gift.
Posing new her new whip while it was decorated with red balloons,she captioned: “Valentine is beautiful over here 🤗💌❤️.”
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Don’t blame people who go back to their ex, There is no love in the streets- Caramel plugg
Influencer, Caramel Plugg has advised people never to blame anyone if they go back to their exs.
In a video posted to Instagram, Caramel Plugg explained that it can be exhausting and frustrating to start over with someone new, especially when it comes to getting to know them and building trust and going back to square 1.
As a result, she says, many people find themselves drawn back to their exes because the relationship already has a foundation and they don’t have to go through the process of introducing themselves and getting to know each other all over again.
See video below…….
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Reactions as Wedding photos of Lady and her white lover goes viral
A Wedding Photo of a Kenyan woman and her white husband has gone viral on social media.
The woman identified as Sheryl Cherono tied knot with her husband, Jeffery Haynes last month in Dubai.
Some users have expressed their support for the happy couple, while others have made disparaging remarks about their relationship.
Reacting to this, one wrote: “see how good they look.”
Another wrote: “Very handsome than some of us.”
Another wrote: “She married Mr. Bean’s elder brother.”
See comments below……
I will be her mugu for life- Man recounts on how he was mocked for kneeling to propose to his woman
A Man has lamented on how someone mocked him for kneeling down to propose to his wife-to-be.
In a post shared by the man, Aduomayebe Aghogho, he said he was told by someone that he has lost the respect he has for him.
He said: “He has lost the respect he has for me” because of my pattern of proposal. If I lose every man’s respect and I continue to enjoy the respect this woman gives me, then I have nothing else to bother about,” he wrote in a Facebook post on Monday, January 22, 2024.”
Nigerian woman welcomes triplets after 6yrs of waiting
A nigerian woman, emma Offei welcomes triplets after 6 years of waiting.
The news was shared by Radio host, Omotunde adebowale on instagram revealing that her former manager wife has been looking for the fruit of womb but she did not see until 6years later.
she wrote: “My former Manager and his beautiful wife after 6 years gave us triplets …. I have cried and danced and I’m just deliriously happy … it you are waiting God is coming through!
I know like I know my name @emmaoffei and wifey congratulations again!
70yr old woman celebrates, Bags degree in University
A 70yr old woman has showed us that no matter your age, You can earn a degree.
The grandmother and single mother of 3 identified as Gloria stowers received her degree in Art Education from kennesaw university.
Excited about herself earning a degree, she told Fox 5 Atlanta: “Because education can lead to chances in life. It makes the journey that much simpler. It gives you alternatives you didn’t even know you had until you went…Excited for life.”
Her daughter, Maya in her own part told Afrotech reports: “I believe the background of my mum’s story is so unique, just with her going from a wife with three kids to my father dying and her being left with a 12-year-old, a 6-year-old, and a 3-year-old at the time and yet not giving up.”
Although Gloria had to stay for years to let her children earn a degree before pursuing hers in the University.
Man gifts his girlfriend N1.2M, 3 Cakes and cheque on her birthday
A Man who is in serious relationship with his girlfriend as he gifts her 1.2 million naira in cash, a check, 3 cakes and three money flowers on her birthday.
The photographs was shared by surprisehub on Tiktok with a caption: ““1.2 million naira in cash, a cheque, 3 luxury cakes, 3 money bouquets, a hot air balloon treat, a flower bouquet, a food tray, and a gift box containing essentials.
“When her boyfriend contacted us, he said he didn’t want the regular surprise in school; he wanted a room decorated to congratulate her, and that she loves purple 💜💜💜. Trust us to come correct.”
Me and my husband used to trekk to get food and water in Mexico- Lady narrates, buys a car
A Nigerian woman, Chinonye Uchenna, has shared her story of relocating to New Mexico in 2021 without any means of transportation.
In a Lengthy post on Facebook, she explains that she and her husband moved to the city without a car and soon realized that relying on public transportation or Uber was too expensive.
They began to rely on walking long distances to get food and water, which became a major challenge in New Mexico where distances between places are vast unlike Nigeria.
She also made it known that it got a stage, she used her naira debit card to register for bus but it was so inconvenient for her because in a week, she spent N800K on just public transport and then it took them three weeks for their salary to be paid.
However, she and her husband later got a car after staying in mexico for 6 weeks.
She wrote: “My husband sent me this picture of me trekking in November 20th , 2021. This was when we newly relocated . This I actually Santa Fe in New Mexico where we first settled.