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10 signs your Boyfriend is Using you and not Interested in You

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10 signs your Boyfriend is Using you and not Interested in You

When a man was one attracted to you and ends up ghosting you like you don’t exist its always natural to feel bad about this because relationships are not forever. 

There are a lot of ways to tell if a guy is not Interested in you but using you.


1. Lack of communication   
This is one of the Problem of relationships nowadays, If he is the type of man that calls you, texts you all the time but he stopped confront him, ask him why and make things work out between you both and if he says it’s over, Move on.

2. Short conversations

if you notice he does not chat nor talk the way he usually does take note of that. Mostly some men has their reasons for this.

3. They disappear or ghost you for a period of time   
There is always a feeling if a man truly wants to be with you and also spend his rest of life with you. 
Well, the advise is don’t get bothered if he ghosts you or cheating on you keep your self busy with things focus on your life, make your dreams come true and show him he does not worth you.

4. They don’t ask about your life   
There is this adage that says, If a man is truly Interested in you, he goes to the extent of not only knowing you but your family and friends. 
If a man does not ask you about your life end that relationship with him because they are not Interested in knowing you and they are just using you for the main time.
 
 
5. He asks for too much favors   
In every relationships, Its not bad for the man to ask his woman for help and its not bad for a woman to ask her man for help but if he asks for favors too much, He is using you because of your money and toying your heart. End the relationship before it’s too late.   
Although its not the right for a woman to be giving a man money if he truly loves his woman, He won’t ask for too much favors.  Most men in this categories are called “Players” they make sure they drain their women “Emotionally, Mentally and also Financially”. 
6. They give excuses and avoid spending time with you 
Being single does not mean you won’t be happy. If your man seems unhappy whenever he is with you that is a “Red Flag”. Obviously he is happy with another lady and he isn’t proud of you.

7. He doesn’t Introduce you to his Family and Friends   
If a man tells you he told his family about you, Tag it as a Big “Lie” If he truly wants you to meet his Family, he won’t be slagging about the issue if he loves you, he will let you meet his family. Most ladies are victim of this because most men has lied to them about telling their woman about their family spending years waiting you keep asking he keeps saying soon you will meet them. End that Relationship, he isn’t just using you but he is wasting your time. There are better men out there.

8. They Only want to have Int*rcourse with you

How on earth will a man and woman be in relationship without being Romantic? No deep talks? lets just stay in the bed? he does not want to go to cinemas, dates. If that is what your partner asks you off its a Big “No” because he is not attracted to you mentally, physically and spiritually. This men in this category have “Side Chics” they keep you as an alternative. If you are in this type of relationship move on life is short.

9. They don’t have plans nor speak about the future 
When a man and woman comes together to fall in love and if the man truly wants you to be his woman, He will definitely sit you down and talk about his plans and what he wants to build with you in the future. 
Fine men with Different Personalities but a true and good man who really wants to have kids with his woman will make sure they both have future. If your partner does not talk about this, Please end that relationship.

10. He Ignores your calls or messages   
This is one of the biggest problem in all Relationships. Questions like is he still Interested in me? He is Online but he does not reply me when i text him? I call him he always claim he is busy but he leaves me on read in his Whatsapp messages? You text me I love you he refuses to reply?   
Girl move on, If he truly loves you why would he ignore your messages? why would he claim he is always busy when he knows he has a woman he is dating? No matter how a man is busy he should have time for the woman he claim to love. Stop thinking about this because he doesn’t have time for you but he has time to chat, call smile with other woman. It hurts but give a space in your heart because better men are out there and will look at you and say “You are the most beautiful woman i have ever met” and your ex will be pained because he lose a golden jewel.
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I can never marry a man who cannot afford to employ cook and cleaner for me- Doyin

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BBNaija star Doyin stated in an interview with Daniel Regha that she could never marry a man who cannot afford a cook and a cleaner. 

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She emphasized that even if her husband were to lose his money, he should have saved enough to pay for household help. 

As a working-class person, she explained that there is no way she would come home from work to cook and clean, as that is not something she is willing to do.

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Please take care of yourselves there are more grandma than grandpas- Omobewaji pleads to men

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Nollywood actress Omobewaji shared some advice for men, urging them to prioritize self-care just as they do for others. 

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She expressed her curiosity about why there are more grandmas than grandpas, suggesting that men often let themselves become overwhelmed. 

Omobewaji emphasized that men deserve love and care, and encouraged them not to hesitate to seek help from society when needed.

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I’m dating multiple men- Actress Ms Dsf brags

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Actress Ms DSF has openly shared that she is currently dating multiple men. 

In a recent podcast on Bahd and Boujee hosted by BBNaija star Tolanibaj and media personality Moet Abebe, she clarified that dating multiple men doesn’t equate to her sleeping with them. 

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She also revealed that she is merely conducting interviews and nothing much than that.

Regarding a question about Skibii potentially being a ritualist, she sidestepped the inquiry and instead questioned who Skibii is.

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I found out that my husband used N11M from our joint account to buy me wedding ring- Lady cries out

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A woman stirred up social media when she disclosed that her husband used the funds from their joint account to purchase her engagement ring. 

She recounted how they hastily married at a courthouse, and her husband surprised her with a ring worth $8,000 (equivalent to 11 million naira). 

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However, after the wedding, she discovered that her husband withdrew the same amount from their shared savings account without her knowledge.

She wrote: “My husband (30M) and I (28F) have been married for just under 3 months and have been having a huge argument about my engagement ring.

We got married 1 month into him proposing to me. It wasn’t a fancy wedding and we had our honeymoon right after we signed the papers at the courthouse. He gave me a diamond engagement ring that’s close to 8K – a 2 carat lab diamond. He didn’t have funds available readily as we are saving for a home so he put this ring on a payment plan.

I found out after we married and merged our finances that he has been withdrawing funds from our joint account (we make roughly the same) to finance this ring. I was just taken aback and honestly put off by the fact he is making me pay for a GIFT he gave to me.

We have been having some arguments lately and he feels that ring is a wedding expense and it’s only fair that I contribute towards it too, and that as a woman of this day I shouldn’t hesitate to be an equal partner. I call bullshit and shared my thoughts on this whole thing.

First, you don’t make the recipient of a gift pay for the damned gift. An engagement ring is considered a gift in most modern societies even today and I don’t care if you disagree with that it’s just what the cultural expectations are and we never discussed if he had any issues with that. MAYBE if he was an adult enough, I would’ve had a discussion about how it makes him feel and see if his values about tradition align with mine. Second, I’ve unintentionally partially paid for 2 instalments now which makes me a part-owner of the ring.

If I knew my husband was going to be making me pay for the ring, I wouldn’t have agreed to “buy” it. Mutual consent is essential when a couple is deciding to invest in an asset. Owning a house or a car jointly requires two “yeses” and I wouldn’t certainly have said yes to jointly owning a ring he was SUPPOSED to give to me as a gift. So I can retroactively decide now I never wanted to own it and have been demanding that my husband returns the ring to the store if paying for the ring hurts his pocket so much.

Clarification because I anticipate a lot of people might wonder: I’ve always wanted a nice ring and I’m not going to apologise about it since we never had a real wedding party and I knew I deserved a quality piece symbolising our love. However my then fiancé also knew about the expectation I had of him and was upfront about things from the get go. He could’ve discussed things with me like I mentioned earlier in my post and we could’ve seen if we were truly compatible like that. What I didn’t know was that he was plotting to “get even” with me by taking out a payment plan and using our funds to finance it.

This caused him to flare up and he berated me for being sexist towards him. I put my foot down not because I can’t afford it or I refuse to financially contribute or give my husband a nice gift, but my husband’s sheer stubbornness and tackiness about wanting me to pay is what pisses me off. I don’t mind splurging for him, but this whole situation has left a very bad taste in my mouth.

He expects me to apologise to him because I called his actions tacky and decisions scammy and in bad faith.”

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Popular Tiktoker, Fats Timbo finally gets engaged to partner after 4yrs of dating

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Popular British TikToker, Fats Timbo, announced her engagement to her long-term boyfriend on social media. 

After four years of dating, her partner, Alan proposed, and she happily accepted, sharing the exciting news with her followers.

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Sharing the video, she captioned: “Alan proposed! And I said yes!!! From the day we met I knew you were my person. Over the last 4 years you have changed my life for the better. I can’t wait to be your wife ❤️🥹😭.”

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Alan proposed! And I said yes!!! From the day we met I knew you were my person. Over the last 4 years you have changed my life for the better. I can’t wait to be your wife ❤️🥹😭

♬ Whats a soulmate – csbyeol
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Couples welcomes twins after 11yrs of waiting, community people rejoice

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A Nigerian couple finally welcomed twins after waiting for 11 years.

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In a heartwarming video, members of their community can be seen celebrating with dancing and rejoicing on the road, covered in white powder, upon hearing the news of the couple’s long-awaited blessing.

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@tessycute36 #tessycute🥰 #fypシ゚viral🖤video #fypシ゚viral #fyppppppppppppppppppppppp #สปีดสโลว์ ♬ original sound – Gospel iCloud Music
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I’m the new aunty of Lagos- James brown brags, takes over Bobrisky weeks after his arrest

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Nigerian crossdresser, James Brown, has announced that he is now the self-proclaimed “Aunty of Lagos” following the arrest of Bobrisky.

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Bobrisky was arrested last month by the EFCC for alleged Naira abuse and was subsequently sentenced to six months in prison without the option of a fine.

In a recent post, James Brown declared himself as the new “Aunty of Lagos,” suggesting that someone needed to take charge of the space until Bobrisky’s release from jail.

“MEET YOUR NEW AUNTY OF LAGOS someone needs to rule this jungle.” he captioned the video

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Man shares photos of the Oldest man in his village who has a wife but no children

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A man named Fabian Terseer sparked conversations by posting photos of the oldest man in his village on Facebook. 

The man, known as Baba Asongo, holds the title of the oldest resident in Turan, Jato Aka, in the Kwande Local Government Area of Benue State. 

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Terseer shared that Baba Asongo, despite his age, does not have any children but has a wife.

He wrote: “BABA ASONGO; The Oldest Man alive in Turan (Jato Aka)
I have written about this man and his wife. For those who’d followed his life stories on my timeline,you will be surprised as I do. That this man is over 130yrs and has no child so far. 

I always spend quality time with Baba Asongo. Every after two months,I create time to visit Baba Asongo. And anytime I visit him,he will tell me stories that would educate me about my lineage and the Tiv Race. I have never been confused about our traditions because of this man. 

This man was about 58 yrs when KING JATO AKA died. Baba told me how Jato Aka died and all that led to his death. Baba Told me how he was in Taraba but rush back home when the new broke that Jato Aka was sick. Well,these are stories for another day.

Last week ago,Baba Asongo sent for me through SHAGBA TYOKASE. So,Uncle SHAGBA called to relate his message to me. Just few days ago,I went to see Baba and his wife. This time,it was his health issues. Baba told me he is not feeling fine and his wife is equally sick. 
I felt very bad to see how weak he was. Age is telling on Baba but I also see that Baba deserves some medical attention. I was able to get some money for their medications. I hope to see Baba Recuperate and back to his strength. 

People like this should stay some more time. Especially now that the society is in lack of such people. 
Baba Asongo doesn’t have a child in his name. There is actually no specific person looking after Baba and his wife. It was my Dad Chief Ikyumior Terseer Yaga who provided him with a shelter many years ago. If you are in Turan,look for this man and visit him. Keep praying for him,he is a very honest man. 
Chief Fabian 
(Son of Jato Aka)”

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I’m tired, I want to come back home- Man who lived in US for 11yrs laments

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A Kenyan man who has spent over 13 years living in America has shared his decision to leave the US and return to his home country. 

He began his journey in the US in 2011, initially serving in the military for four years before transitioning to corporate employment, including a deployment in Afghanistan.

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Despite earning $12,000 per month, he came to the realization that he was spending his most valuable time—working tirelessly with little to show for it. 

Feeling unfulfilled, he took the bold step to quit his job in December of last year to pursue entrepreneurship, seeking freedom and autonomy in his endeavors.

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@jambohomeventureske After living in the USA for about 13 years, I’ve made a decision to return home to Kenya for good. #kenyantiktok #kenyantiktok🇰🇪 #kenyansinusa🇺🇸 #kenyansinusa🇺🇸🇰🇪 ♬ Prayer and Meditation – Dr. Kwadwo Bempah
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Lady shows off her transformation after losing weight

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Tammy Slaton, star of “1000lb Sisters,” has become a viral sensation on social media after sharing her remarkable weight loss journey on Instagram. 

In a series of snaps with her friend Hayley Michelle, Tammy showcased her new body, which includes excess skin resulting from her weight loss efforts. 

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She bravely wore a low-cut arm dress, revealing her arms more.

Ever Since her weight loss, tammy had received lots of positive support from her fans and followers as a user wrote: YOU👏🏼LOOK👏🏼SO👏🏼GOOD!👏🏼 You should be very proud!

Another user wrote: “Tammy i’m so proud of you. You got your shit together you’re a strong, independent woman proud of you. ❤️

Another wrote: “you look amazing, I am so proud of you 💖”

From weighing 700lbs, she has undergone surgery and adopted a healthier lifestyle through dieting, resulting in a significant transformation in her appearance. 

Despite her incredible progress, Tammy has faced criticism and trolling in the past, with some people comparing her to the “Family Guy” character Peter Griffin. 

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